sneaky barebacking?

[Guest WestTxGuy]

I agree that the bottom always has to be careful. I told this story here in the lounge about a year ago, but one time when I was in the middle of a threeway, I had an escort trying to top me without a condom. I made him stop and go get one, but a short time later, while he was pounding me from behind, I saw him pull out, stretch the condom away from his cock and actually bite a hole in the end, so he could slide the condom down on his dick and expose the head of his cock. He thought I didn't notice, but I rolled over and wouldn't let him back in. I should have punched him, but just cut things short and got out of there. Obviously I never called the guy again.

 

Bottom line, you can't let your guard down when you're the bottom.

[Guest roninx]

As you can tell from all my posts, I've been a very naughty and busy boy this week

 

Anyway, today I hooked up with this nice guy, early 40's, well built and looked younger (boy was he hot!}> ).

 

We had just finished the introductory oral and started getting to the more interesting stuff. I was on my back, legs in the air and he starting rubbing his cock (lengthwise) at my backdoor. . .rubbing and teasing. . .then he started to place the head at my door (like it was a knockin') teasing around the area. (I was a little wary and made sure to look at what he was doing)

 

Then it felt less like teasin and like he was going to push it straight in bareback (I couldn't really tell since it was gentle). :-(

 

I recoiled back slightly and made a slightly disapproving low sound (like a grunt--not even sure if he heard me). It then felt like he retracted and then asked me is I had condoms and lube.

 

Honestly, I wasn't sure if he was actually going to do it or that I was paranoid and that he simply had finished with the tease.

 

It just got me thinking how vulnerable you can be as a bottom. I'm always careful to make sure I can visually see the other person as he puts the condom on but sometimes in the heat of passion you might not always be paying attention.

 

Just thought I'd pass this along as a warning!

[+ Lucky]

Well, I personally prefer to see the cum-filled condom after climax, so that there is no doubt, plus I find it exciting. But, yeah, I did discover a long time buddie doing me without a condom a few months ago. Sneaky is not good.

[Guest Merlin]

I have read a number of reports from guys who claim they became positive when someone tricked them into thinking that a condum was being used. You can't be too carefu.

[Guest Spunk]

I don't bottom very often though I have had an experience when a guy had a condom on when we began. At some point during the hump and grinding he took it off. I realized this and punched him smack in the face. Yes, I did take him to the hospital to get stiched up.

[HardnThick]

WestTxGuy ---

 

By deliberately opening the end of his condom, that escort put your life at risk. Please tell us the escort’s name and contact info.

 

Without knowing who he is, one if us may suffer the same exposure.

 

This was obviously not an accident but a deliberate assault on your health. He forfeited any right to anonymity.

[Guest WestTxGuy]

I know for a fact that he's out of the business. He's definitely a mental case, but I don't think it would do any good to name names now.

[Guest jthomp3303seattle]

john in Seattle I was recently with an escort from a neighboring city. He had the lube and the condoms laid out on the bed. When it came time to " DO the deed",it felt really great. Then I realized he was not wearing a condom . He did however use pre-cum as a lube. He said it was safe as he did not cum inside me. Is this true? This weekend I was with another escort from that city and he said there wasno way he would do that. Yet, when it got down to it, he too was up there without a condom. I thought pros would be more careful.

[Guest happyguy]

hey guys

 

just last night one of my buddies and I were out for a drink and he asked me about something that happened to him last week. The top was lying on his back and he was sitting on him and everything was great. Then, out of the blue, with none of the usual signs, the guy told my buddy he had come. My buddy suspects that he had come a while before and he had continued to ride him for some time - the condom seemed almost empty, but smelled of cum.

 

His question (which I could not answer) was: what happened to the cum, and did this place him at risk?

 

We'll be watching for your answer,

 

happy

[Guest 7Zach]

if he was a navy guy, i saw the movie, Perry Mason, in

"The Case of The Missing Seaman"

[Guest Ant415]

That was bad of hte escort. But, also kinda dirty, considering the condom was in/out of your butt.

[Flower]

> john in Seattle I was recently with an escort from a

>neighboring city. He had the lube and the condoms laid out

>on the bed. When it came time to " DO the deed",it felt

>really great. Then I realized he was not wearing a condom .

>He did however use pre-cum as a lube. He said it was safe as

>he did not cum inside me. Is this true? This weekend I was

>with another escort from that city and he said there wasno

>way he would do that. Yet, when it got down to it, he too

>was up there without a condom. I thought pros would be more

>careful.

 

John tell me this is a spoof on this thread and that you are not really this god damn stupid. "he said it was safe", "I won't cum inside," and "the check is in the mail" are all such classic cliches that it seems impossible you haven't heard them and laughed at who would be fool enough to believe them. If you are not putting us on, then I suggest you check one of the ten thousand websites devoted to safe sex and answer your own question. But in the meantime, "safe" is all relative--and bottoms always have the greater risk. Without lube is more risky than lube, and with precum as lube is riskier still. A bottom has 13 x the statistical chance of hiv than the top, and a very sexually active male is more likely to be positive than a lesser player--and that puts escorts--even safe ones at higher risk and thus you, since you got poked uncovered by 2 of them. Then you say, " I thought pros would be more careful. " May I suggest that you take your head out of your ass long enough to realize that you were 13x more at risk than either of the pros, and probably more since they were escorts and probably more sexually active.

 

So Yes, you were and are at risk--and I have no doubt that you knew the answer to your own question b4 you wrote, as you must have at the time. maybe #1 wasn't your fault, but BB#2--totally. I mean, if you wanna bareback, that's up to you, but do so only after taking the few minutes to research this life or death issue and then accept or decline the risks of your behavior.

 

I guess because I have seen aids up close and personal, I really resent someone like you that doesn't seem to take any responsibility for their actions, or just as bad, has risky sex that any 9th grader would realize is risky and write this question. Fortunately for you, John, there is less risk with precum than cum, and both incidents sound as if they were a lot less risky than if the respective tops had cum inside, ASSUMING neither did, but all the same risky stuff.

 

I really thought I saw the last of my friends die off a few years ago, but it seems like there is a whole new wave of beautiful young men out there that are nonbelievers and are determined to prove to the world that they are indestructible and that hot, good looking guys don't get infected with hiv or aids, nor pass it on--well 2 such special, under 25 people, that I know and am close to, sero converted in the last 4 months. So wise up guy, take some responsibility for your own actions and don't believe everything someone tells you--especially when they may have a self-beneficial motive at stake.

Flower :*

[Bastian]

I need educating. When I've bottomed I never had any question of whether or not the guy was wrapped. I could feel it, hear it, etc. An insatiable btm bud of mine who has admitted to falling off the safe sex wagon tells me, "For me, it's like choosing between getting fucked by a warm dildo or a hot cock."

 

So btms, what's up? Is it too much Anal-ese? Was the speculum too cold? Even though I can do it faster alone, I love when an oral guy can roll one on and blow me at the same time. That pretty much removes doubt.