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[Guest jbart39]

Usually before I bottom, I douche with an enema. But sometimes, later on, and right when things are building, I'll get an urgent, shall we say, message, that more is on the way and I'd better do something about it fast. Occasionally, without being too graphic, I'm not fast enough, if you catch my drift. Needless to say, this puts a damper on the scene.

What can I do to be clean enough, yet not over do matters? Just a finger job with soap and water? Should I have dinner after sex? ??????

This is gross, I know. But I want to enjoy myself.

 

jb

[Guest pshaw]

It sounds to me as if you are either using too much water to douche with or are doing it too far in advance. I get the best results douching no more than an hour or two before the encounter. About one cup of water should do the trick unless you are ... er ... carrying a heavier load than usual. I'm a pretty "regular" guy and rarely constipated. Eat more fiber.

If you are still nervous, another solution may be to fuck in the shower with the water running. "Mistakes" are less obvious there. I recently had a great get-together with an Asian muscle boy who came directly to my house from the mall and hadn't had the opporunity to "freshen up" but he really wanted to get fucked. He warned me that things might get a bit messy and suggested that we do it in the shower. He was right - things did get a bit messy (good sex is not always clean sex) - but the shower kept it to a minimum.

[Guest JON1265]

>It sounds to me as if you are either using too much water to

>douche with or are doing it too far in advance. I get the

>best results douching no more than an hour or two before the

>encounter.

 

I have the opposite opinion - when I douche too close to my encounter - that is when I feel the need to "deliver my message." If I douche a few hours ahead of time and watch what I eat that day - I am good to go. Just my take on it.

 

(good sex is not always

>clean sex)

 

I agree with this - simply accept that sometimes "accidents" will happen and not freak out over it - just clean up and move on.

[Guest pshaw]

You raise another option, Jon. It could also be that jbart is douching too soon before an encounter. I have never had a problem doing it a couple of hours before, but you are right that even a bit earlier couldn't hurt, although I would still caution against too early. Since all digestive systems do not work at the same pace or in the same way, it is best to get a feel as to what you should eat, what time you should eat, and what is the optimal time to clean. It ain't a perfect science, but it isn't too difficult to keep things reasonably under control.

[Guest Merlin]

When you douche for medicinal purposes, it often takes ah hour or better to become effective. If you do it a couple of hours early, you should be ok.

[Traveller]

Never get plowed by less than 8x6 and you won't have any problems. This simple rule will prevent the dam from bursting and feels better too.

 

Later.

 

PS. Ignore the above if you've taken it up to the elbow within the previous 12 months.

[jack]

Merlin and others are correct. I had a meeting last week in NY. Did it two hours in advance. Then, used plenty of Wet with a six inch dildo to prepare my asshole. Took a shower a half hour prior. Excellent perfect results during the meeting.

[Guest]

You're having sex, not performing brain surgery. So sometimes sex can get a little dirty. Just don't make such a big deal over it.