A Survey: Who Has Never Hired an Escort?

[Guest chaz49wm]

Let me tell you my story but don't wait, don't be afraid. There are guys out there who will help you. Last year when I was 48 yrs old had my first real experience other than a JO with a guy. Yes an Escort. It was Stef from Las Vegas how nice an easy he made it. And yes HooBoy made all that much more possible by this site. Then later in the year met Vegas Boy Dave who is "the 9th wonder of the world." Truely a great guy. One who will make you feel like a real person and a man not a chump who doesn't know what's happening. Don't sit back and say I can't right now cause tommorow may never get here. I saw Dave in WDW in January soon we will be again in Vegas and Yes for the 3rd time in June on my 50th Bday for a Cruise. So Guys don't be afraid there are many of them out there to help us HUGS Chuck:9

[J-Man]

I'm curious... I check this website out every day-- I read many of the reviews and messages, but for me it's mostly a vicarious experience. I've never hired an escort myself, for various reasons, and I'd be interested to know how many others there are like me out there. (Not including the escorts themselves!)

 

My reasons? Mostly I'm too cheap-- well, THRIFTY anyway. I COULD afford it, but spending $200 for an hour of potential fun doesn't match up with my value system very well. I'm also a little scared, and there are other reasons I hesitate as well.

 

So... who else is an "escort virgin"?

[Guest Thunderbuns]

>My reasons? Mostly I'm too cheap-- well, THRIFTY anyway. I

>COULD afford it, but spending $200 for an hour of potential

>fun doesn't match up with my value system very well.

 

Think about this - you say you could afford it but.......

 

One day you'll die (like all of us) and you will leave in your will a big sum of $$$ to realatives, friends and/or charities. All of whom will go through your money like shit through a goose.

 

A friend of mine had his father pass away a year or so ago. The father was not a wealthy man and had scrimped and saved all his life, even going without a vacation for the last 30 years of his life. He left his son (my friend) about $125,000 - all he had.

 

Two weeks later the son had a $100,000 BMW parked in his driveway and had used the rest to pay off his plastic debt (by the way, he's well on his way to maxing out the cards again - if not already achieved)

 

Go for it. Spend the odd $200 to pleasure yourself. You're worth it!

And if your heirs have to settle for a VW rather than a BMW - tough shit!!!!!!

 

Thunderbuns

[+ Hoover42]

I check out this site regularly, and I enjoy reading the reviews and the message board postings, but I haven't hired an escort yet. Money is not the issue for me -- I’m just too nervous for my own good. :-) It doesn’t help that I’m 46 years old and still essentially a virgin.

[chrismac]

Money is not the issue for me -- I’m just too

>nervous for my own good. :-) It doesn’t help that I’m 46

>years old and still essentially a virgin.

 

So was I - until two years ago (today - Ta Da!) when I hired my first escort and had my first sexual experience with a guy. It was a mixed bag of fear and pain, and I couldn't even "get it up". My advice - tell the guy (if you hire one) that it's your first time and make sure he 1.) believes you, and 2.) is gentle and more sensual than aggressive (even if you think you want the aggressive type). Read reviews that indicate the guy has skill at putting clients at ease.

[J-Man]

I like your philosophy...

 

And I don't even have any heirs-- no nieces or nephews, only a sister who's only a few years younger than I am. But on the other hand, it's not like I'm hoarding my money-- my problem is that I spend it on other stuff (useless junk, mostly.) I guess I've always been the kind of person who will spend on tangibles rather than experiences.

 

I guess I need to adjust my values... no more buying stuff I don't need! (And I'm not talking about big stuff like cars-- I have a 97 Honda and I don't even have cable TV.)

 

Maybe 2002 will be my year.

[Guest roninx]

Choosing an escort for your first "virgin" experience depends on what you want. If you want a wham bam thank you sir! Then look for an escort that fits the bill. If you are looking for something more "special" than choose accordingly.

 

My first experience with an escort also happened to be my first experience with a male. I chose an escort who is still around (in this forum. . .sometimes) and has a lot of positive feedback.

 

Although the experience was o.k. I think it could have been much better. He knew it was my first time and though he was never rough, I don't think he really cared. I would have like someone more "sensitive". He never really asked what I wanted and I was very nervous. He got off by topping me but I never got to top and I never even got off.

 

If I had to do it over again, I would definitely have chosen someone else.

 

Just make sure you know what you want to get out of it and then find someone who will definitely meet your needs.

After all, you only loose your virginity once.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

Hoover,

 

Times a wastin'... youv'e got six years on me when I started. Wish I had 'em back... (if I knew then what I know now. :o) Don't let 'em get by you. Life is too short to stay on the sidlines and there is no rolling back the clock.

 

The first time is the hardest because of uncertainty and the unknown. Do the research, find the right guy (there are many well suited to introduce the first timer) and take the plunge. This site -- the reviews and the advice of people on it -- make it so much easier than going it alone in a vaccum.

 

Good luck.

[HooBoy]

>I check out this site regularly, and I enjoy reading the

>reviews and the message board postings, but I haven't hired

>an escort yet. Money is not the issue for me -- I’m just too

>nervous for my own good. :-) It doesn’t help that I’m 46

>years old and still essentially a virgin.

 

Oh my, babe.

 

Please relax. Pick one of the guys with a lot of reviews from credible reviewers -- you will be in for the time of your life.

 

Do not waste anymore years. I know so many people who are like you...you are not alone, but do not procrastinate anymore. The really good guys are SO MUCH FUN....you just cannot imagine.

[Southern Blue Suicide]

Hello,

 

Take the plunge! I love hiring good bottom escorts. It's like shopping but the online catalogue is much cooler. Sometimes it can be hit & miss, but if you find a good match then it's loads of fun. It's quickly becoming my favorite hobby.

 

-Mc-

[Will]

I was in my late fifties the first time I hired an escort. And why did I do it? Because I was seven years past the devastating break-up of the most important relationship of my life and living in a sexual desert. Finally, I thought, "I'll be damned if I have to say to myself on my death-bed that M____ R___ was the last person I had sex with." In other words, my primary goal the first time was to substitute the memory of his body with the memory of another body, pure and simple.

 

It took months for me to drum up the courage, but finally I called an agency to make an appointment for when I would be in New York. He sent around a very sweet, overmuscled, shaved-smooth twenty-something who was entirely responsive. I was so nervous and so rattled by the experience itself that I didn't really get into it. This bothered the escort a lot more than it bothered me.

 

So I tried again, locally, with marginally better success. It was only the third time that I hit paydirt with Rick Munroe. I told him, in greater detail than I've told you, about my situation, and he took it from there.

 

Now, I'm sort of mildly experienced with hiring escorts, and I think it's the smartest thing I've ever done to keep me in balance, or on the rails, with regard to sex. Now it's something that I no longer pine and long for without finding it. (The situation of my life makes it all but impossible that I'll ever hook up with someone on a non-commercial basis.) As Hoo says, it's fun. And it is extremely good for my sense of being alive in the world. I'll be sixty-two next month, and every ounce of flesh on my body seems to be heading south as fast as the hot fudge on ice cream. It may be that I'll get so self-conscious that I give up on it altogether. But if I do, that will not be the fault of any escort.

 

If you're careful with these reviews and shop wisely, you can change your life for the better. And if that's not a bargain for $200, I'd like to know what is.

[Guest Merlin]

You really should try it once before you decide you it is not worth the money. Sex is too important to let it pass by. Like you, I have been a saver all my life and was nervous about trying an escort. But several years ago I was planning a trip to Las Vegas-not to gamble, its just a great place. I came across the predecessor to Unzipped magazine and found guys I was attracted to. I again felt fearful: will he think I am too unattractive, too old etc. Will he laugh at my inexperience? Will I be able to peform? Then I realized I wasn't as afraid of being embarrassed as I once was. If I am embarrassed or don't like him I will just send him away and forget about it. So I lose the money, how bad can it be. I hired a well known escort and he was great. Since then I have hired many escorts and have never had one embarrass or reject me. They know that most of their clients will not be young and beautiful. If they cannot provide a good experience to guys that are older, unattractive, fat etc. they don't last in the business. I now consider the expense of an occassional escort as a priority over other expense. By all means give it a try.

[Guest DevonSFescort]

I just lost my hiring cherry last month, and my experience landed Talvin DeMachio onto Coverboy of the Day. Of course, that means I'm pretty much out of the running for Coverboy of the Month now...

(reg only accused me of self-promoting. He didn't accuse me of being good at it.)

 

I feel like I'm all over the map about who to hire next and also why to hire. Talvin's body was like a Grand Canyon experience -- the chance to see and touch something you've only heard about, the chance to stand there and say "holy shit" for yourself, then go on the Internet and write about it. :7

 

Then there are personality dates -- escorts I want to hire because of their charm (I'd be more likely to splurge on an overnight with these). Actually it's the experience of meeting escorts "off the clock" or "on exchange" that has made me think of hiring a real charmer for a night as a treat that I might just have to indulge. These guys don't necessarily have to be one of my default "types," either. The cliche about escorting opening you up to different types of guys is true enough in my case. I find myself thinking about guys who never would have registered a year ago. Personality goes a long way. Sometimes I'll have lunch with a fellow escort and come away saying "oh, it was amazing, he made me feel just like a client!" (Meanwhile you guys are saying "oh, it was amazing, he never made me feel like I was a client!")

 

Another category is "specialty scenes" -- escorts I fantasize about a particular scene with. One such item with me is twinks who beat the crap out of me. There's something vaguely subversive about it that turns me on. However, I've been getting a lot of that for free and even flirted with the idea of taking one on as a part-time kept boy, but I don't want to get carried away just yet. I've got a movie about hos to make -- that's where the priorities are for me this year. If I were to hire a crap-beating twink at this point he would also have to be a good personality date. There is once such boy out there and he knows who he is. :*

[Guest Thunderbuns]

>You really should try it once before you decide you it is

>not worth the money. Sex is too important to let it pass by.

>Like you, I have been a saver all my life and was nervous

>about trying an escort. But several years ago I was planning

>a trip to Las Vegas-not to gamble, its just a great place. I

>came across the predecessor to Unzipped magazine and found

>guys I was attracted to. I again felt fearful: will he think

>I am too unattractive, too old etc. Will he laugh at my

>inexperience? Will I be able to peform? Then I realized I

>wasn't as afraid of being embarrassed as I once was. If I am

>embarrassed or don't like him I will just send him away and

>forget about it. So I lose the money, how bad can it be. I

>hired a well known escort and he was great. Since then I

>have hired many escorts and have never had one embarrass or

>reject me. They know that most of their clients will not be

>young and beautiful. If they cannot provide a good

>experience to guys that are older, unattractive, fat etc.

>they don't last in the business. I now consider the expense

>of an occassional escort as a priority over other expense.

 

Very well stated Merlin - what you say makes perfect sense and I agree with you 100%

 

Thunderbuns

[Guest regulation]

>(reg only accused me of self-promoting.

 

I accused you?

 

Let's review. Didn't you write the following in the "Backlash" thread?

 

"As for 'the option of posting under a fictitious name also,' sure, that's an option if our purpose for being here is the sheer love of message center posting. I have made no bones about the fact that I'm here to promote my services and my diary -- i.e., myself -- so posting under a fake name won't do me much good."

 

I'm assuming that in using the phrase "I'm here to promote my services" you mean to convey "I'm posting here to promote my services," since I can't think of any way you could use this message board to promote your services without posting.

 

He didn't accuse me

>of being good at it.)

 

We've been told that only a small percentage of site users also use this message board. If so, posting here would not be a very efficient way to promote oneself to site users.

 

>Another category is "specialty scenes" -- escorts I

>fantasize about a particular scene with. One such item with

>me is twinks who beat the crap out of me.

 

So this was the reason for the posts from Ethan that caused such an uproar a couple of months ago? I wondered what that was about.

[Guest DevonSFescort]

>

>>(reg only accused me of self-promoting.

>

>I accused you?

 

>Let's review.

 

No need. I didn't say you falsely accused me. :*

 

>>Another category is "specialty scenes" -- escorts I

>>fantasize about a particular scene with. One such item with

>>me is twinks who beat the crap out of me.

>

>So this was the reason for the posts from Ethan that caused

>such an uproar a couple of months ago? I wondered what that

>was about.

 

Now you know. I was the Helen of Troy of the message center meltdown. :7

[+ Hoover42]

Thanks (to you and the other guys) for the encouragement. I'm hoping that spring fever will hit me in the next month or two and I'll have a breakthrough.