Cut vs Uncut

[+ imagooddog]

Not a pleasant subject exactly, but I have a problem with this.

It seems that the popular thing these days is being uncut. However,

in my early gay days I happened to connect with a couple of guys who

were uncut and it was not a pleasant aroma experience, in fact a

complete turnoff for me. My biggest turn-on is performing oral, so

I have made certain to only hire escorts who are cut. But there are

so many great guys that I would love to consider but they are uncut.

Has anyone else had this experience? How do you deal with it?

Should it really be a limiting factor in hiring an escort? I would

find it hard to tell a guy, "hey, by the way, made sure you clean

down there".

[Rick Munroe]

I've often wondered about this. I'm cut but have been in similar situations with uncut clients. I love uncut as much as cut (some are absolutely beautiful), but when there is an odor, how can I ask the client to go wash it without humiliating/insulting him, and/or killing the mood? Do uncut guys just already know that it can be a problem, and laugh it off? Some guys are nervous enough as it is, without being told, basically, "You're dirty."

[phage]

I’m a big fan of the penis au natural, and I don’t know whether I have just had good luck or if you guys have had bad luck. I have never run into an escort that had issues down there. You expect a freshly showered professional to take care of business and wash everything that needs to be washed. (And that’s all it takes…a little soap and water.) If you don’t find it esthetically displeasing and you like the escort, I definitely wouldn’t let it be a deal breaker.

 

However, I can see where Rick might have an occasional problem because some clients are apparently just rude or extremely lazy. If it’s an evening appointment and “John” has not showered since that morning…it could be a problem.

 

The only way to delicately handle the situation that I can think of is to suggest a shower for the both of you. Make it self-deprecating, like, “I don’t feel as fresh I would like…” or something to that effect. Unfortunately, if the guy is not inclined to skin it back and use some soap, there isn’t much you can do. Their heads are usually so sensitive, you wouldn’t want to try to wash it for them no matter how “fun” you can make it.

[Guest desertdaddy]

I'm cut and also enjoy both cut and uncut men. Speaking from personal experience an invitation to join me for an erotic, passionate shower has worked for me whenever I've encountered this problem. "Cleanliness is next to Godliness" :9 Later... Buck

[Guest jizzdepapi]

given this situation, i would excuse myself to the bathroom and return to the bed with a wet washcloth--soap and water on one side, just water on the other.

 

i'd just get the job done without explanation or attitude. if they can't figure it out, your date will probably be a disaster anyway.

 

jizz

 

p.s.: i assume no one wants a pic for this thread

[Guest Tomcal_]

Hi, found this very interesting, i have a preference for uncut and have probably been with well over 100 guys that have been uncut(alot of Canadians and Latins) and have never had the problem of odor and/or uncleanliness. I think this may have been a problem years ago when guys took their "weekly" bath or shower, but with everyone taking showers everyday it is not an issue for most guys, unless someone has poor personal hygiene. Having been this past year in both England and Rio de Janerio, i found the guys all very clean and never thought about it. I think several of the posters have had a bad experience, but dont' think this is the norm for sure. Here in both NYC and L.A. have been with many uncut guys and have truely never had that happened , which I agree would be a big turnoff!!

[Guest pshaw]

I have to agree with Tomcal_. My preference is for asian and latin men, most of whom have been uncut. (I have no personal preference for cut or uncut, but uncut generally comes with the territory.) NEVER have I encountered a problem with a funky foreskin. Even in Thailand, where bathing facilties for the average low income person consists of a cold water tap and a pan for pouring water over the body, the moneyboys are very clean, often cleaner than the clients. There a shower immediately before and immediately after sex is de rigeur. And they will gently insist that their clients shower before sex as well. ("You take shower now??")

 

I cannot imagine that any escort worth his salt would omit this basic detail of personal hygiene unless it was specifically requested by the client.

[+ Axiom2001]

>Hi, found this very interesting, i have a preference for

>uncut and have probably been with well over 100 guys that

>have been uncut(alot of Canadians and Latins) and have never

>had the problem of odor and/or uncleanliness. I think this

>may have been a problem years ago when guys took their

>"weekly" bath or shower, but with everyone taking showers

>everyday it is not an issue for most guys, unless someone

>has poor personal hygiene. Having been this past year in

>both England and Rio de Janerio, i found the guys all very

>clean and never thought about it. I think several of the

>posters have had a bad experience, but dont' think this is

>the norm for sure. Here in both NYC and L.A. have been with

>many uncut guys and have truely never had that happened ,

>which I agree would be a big turnoff!!

 

Accolades to you for writing so cogently and succinctly. I truly like line four or sentence three: that sums it up!

[+ Axiom2001]

In response to Suntan4: As a man who happens to be uncut-- I have NOT HAD any difficulty whatsoever hiring escorts who are cut or uncut. I don't prefer one over the other; I like men who are fairly well-endowed. When I have been with cut men (and I have been with some of the best and known), they have commented on my uncut status positively.

 

I have never had any smell emitting from my nice fskin, and prior to my hiring escorts, the men ("trade" or "tricks" or "one night stands" that I have had-- NEVER voiced any concern as to cleanliness of the cock head due to its having a wonderful "cover"!) They just wanted a nice dick to suck or otherwise.

 

I think it's all in the psyche! My straight woman cousin (with whom I am quite close) became perplexed and downright baffled when I revealed to her a few years ago that I was "intact"! I believe this thing that has existed for years about cleaniness and disease is all crap! I've had my UNCUT cock for a number of years now! "NO PROBLEM...!"

[Guest Brady YoungE]

I've had experiences with this area and they've been both positive and negative. The question to ask is, "Are you a good uncut or a bad uncut?" A good uncut understands that certain hygiene must be taken in order for the partner to recieve ultimate pleasure. A bad uncut must have had thier sense of smell sergically removed shortly after birth. I was in a 3 way with an escort and a client here in Las Vegas where the escort was so clean you could eat wedding cake off his uncut dick. It was awesome. YUMMY. I've also been in another situation where I thought I would rather watch STAR WARS EPISODE ONE a thousand times before I went down again on that smeller member. SO ... for those of you out there who happen to be uncut, remember, to be a "good uncut" you must have excellent hygiene for us all to get along.

[Guest Les]

I prefer cut but I was under the impression you uncut fanatics love the 'cheese' that builds up under the excess skin..??

I have a friend who calls it the gorgonzola of sex. :7

[Guest Merlin]

Approaching a client with a washcloth would not be a good idea. The head of an uncut dick is much too sensitive for a washcloth in someone else's hands. But he will probably allow you to skin in back in the shower with soapy hands.

[+ imagooddog]

My thanks to all of you who have taken the time to respond to

this. I think maybe some of my fears of an unclean uncut partner

are rooted in the past when people were perhaps as not as aware

of keeping themselves clean as they are now, and I am sure this

is probably especially true of a good escort who is uncut. And

I like the idea of suggesting a mutual shower if the occasion

comes up again.....a great idea. Thanks again, guys. :-)

[Guest JH]

The vast majority of we Brits are uncut and being uncut myself, I know there's no excuse for not being clean and odour free.

 

I've only seen one UK escort who smelt bad in the dick department, but as he was generally unwashed I pointed him at the shower before things went any further.

 

The bigger problem is with guys you pick up in bars or clubs for casual sex. I usually carry flavoured condoms for such eventualities - they also offer protection against gonorrhoea and syphilis, which are on the increase in the UK and can be picked up from sucking.

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

Being first generation born here in the states, my family from Prague I have had the wonderful opportunity to be uncut. Yes, you do need to take a little more time in the cleaning department down there, but as stated many times, there is no excuse for a dirty anything, ass, dick or otherwise. Bath people, it’s a good thing :9

 

Michael Johnson

San Diego Ca.