What Makes an Escort/Client Special?

[Guest Ivanhoe]

Most escorts have favorite clients that they would like to see often simply because they're special. Likewise, clients have favorite escorts that they hire for the same reason. So my question is, What makes one special? What qualities do you look for? How were you treated? Who are they? (no real names please). Maybe from this exchange, we can learn how to treat each other better. Appreciate your feedback.

[N.N.]

My favorite escorts are those who I was able to develop a sense

of mutual trust and respect with. My favorite escorts treated

me more like a friend than like a client; I knew their real

names, they knew mine, we were able to talk freely and openly

with one another, etc. I understand if an escort is cautious

with new clients, and I understand that even with regular clients

the relationship is likely to remain primarily a financial one--

but I lose interest if an escort never relaxes enough to let

me get to know him. It is frustrating to treat an escort with

respect, only to be shown in return less openness and trust

than the escort might show an acquaintance that he met casually

in another situation.

 

And yes, whether I go back for more also depends on the

escort's looks and sexual performance. It makes a big

difference if the escort can honestly enjoy the sex.

[Guest IM_Moore]

I won't mention any names. My favorite escorts are the ones that allow me to be myself and I allow them to be themselves. SO, we are not performing for each other. Just two guys in a beneficial relationship, no matter the duration of that relationship. It is very important to me that I can trust my favorite escort, I have a very important position and just the potential illegal act of hiring an escort would put me on the streets if not in jail. I have been very lucky over the years and have met some great guys. I tend to like to meet with an escort on a regular basis. We usually build to a level of friendship over a period of time. Anyway, here are my musts in no special order.

 

The escort must be:

 

Flexible

Versatile

Honest

Someone I can trust

Attitude free

Able to laugh

Has his Cell phone off when with me

 

I think it should go witrhout saying that looks are important yet in my situation I have had several regulars who don't fit my exact type though their attitude was so cool and they were so sensual that I saw them on a repeated basis.

 

The bottom line for me is to have fun. That I want a relaxing, problem free experience.

[Guest Countryboy76]

With any escort I obviously have a physical attraction for the guy, or hey, I wouldn't set something up. Once things are set up, even though I know his primary reason for being there is because he considers it a job, I put that on the back burner. I treat him with respect and consideration, polite and friendly, am honest and make him feel welcome in my home, which also brings in trust, the same way that I expect to be treated by him. If everything goes O.K., I have a great time and he appears to have had a great time, I'll hire him again.

If I consider him to be a favorite escort and only hire him on a regular basis, I would expect that after a couple of 'appointments' we would start becoming more comfortable with each. Despite the fact that it is always going to be a financial relationship, to both be able to trust and respect each other enough to get to know each other as persons, rather than just escort and client. After all, seperatly he is the escort/employee and I am the client/employer, we aren't on egual ground. But when we are together we should be on egual ground, two guys who like to get together and have a great time together.

The escort that I have hired regularly, 3 times so far, has begun to loosen up and the act or perfomance is starting to disappear. We are getting to know each other better, he laughs and we joke around a bit now which is something I like. I'm still not sure if I know his real name yet, and I'm still waiting for him to tell me what he wants to do instead of always asking me what I'd like to do.

I think a lot of it has to do with the escort though, some of them are strictly business and the client is just that, the client, and pleasing the client is his job. Nothing more and nothing less. Then some are open to becoming friends, of sorts with regular clients and some have no desire to open up to that.

Basically treat the individual who happens to be the escort like you would any other guy you were getting together with, have a great time, see that he has a great time and go from there. If he is strictly business and your not comfortable with that in an escort you hire regulary, move on until you find one who is open to an extended financial relationship that also results in a friendship.

CB76

[Guest LG320126]

For an escort to be "special" to me, it is when he ceases to be an escort and becomes a true friend (yea I know the thread about escorts/friends). The escort that I have seen regularly for about the last year and a half is truly my "friend" and a "special" one at that - he bristles if I even refer to myself as his client. We have laughed together, cried together, shared many personal moments with each other and a couple of times have even gotten pissed at each other. Our relationship, however, has survived all of these aspects and only continues to get better. I think the underlying factor here is that we treat each other the way we like to be treated ourselves. We don't lie to each other, we don't conceal our true feelings even when we don't agree on something and neither of us is afraid to share true affection with the other. We respect each other as the human beings we are and do not expect less from one another.

 

I have loved and befriended this guy from the first time that I did actually hire him. I no longer "hire" him, but instead have spent many hours, days and weekends with him and both of us have at times changed our schedules just to be able to see each other and enjoy each other's company. We have enjoyed many movies, parks, casinos, restaurants, rides and shopping malls. We have met each other's personal friends and have been to each other's homes. We have been to each other's places of employment (his other job). :-) I have met his parents and become friends with them. We have exchanged birthday and Christmas gifts with each other.

 

So I guess to answer your question, these things to me make my escort friend very "special" and I can only wish the rest of you have the opportunity to share this sort of relationship with either an escort or a client and get to find the inner person that you enjoy spending time with.

[Guest jerseyguy]

This is what makes an escort special for me.

1. He arrives on time.

2. He looks good and sexy in his clothes and smells good.

3. He greets me face to face, or better yet with a kiss.

4. He asks about my day or about how I am doing and allows me to explore his body at my pace.

5. The escort should make me feel like there is nothing else on his mind and he has no other place to go. If he has something on his mind or he has somewhere to go, I don't want to know about it. I'm paying for the time and I want it to be all about me and my needs.

6. This may sound contradictory to #5 but, a special escort will also let me know some things about himself.

7. He will let me know what he likes to do because making the escort feel good helps to enhance my excitement & pleasure.

8. A special escort will not run out of our date as fast as he can, but will stay around for a little while to chat and unwind.

9. Hopefully he has enjoyed our time together and makes me feel like he did. And he makes me want to meet him again.

[Guest chaz49wm]

What makes it special when the wall comes down. It is the two of you no matter what you are doing. Drinking, laughing, having fun eating out a nice meal a good show, some one who you can take home to meet MOM and Vice Versus. A guy who you can call up no matter the time of day or night and share with him whatever is happening in your life and always ask about his. The big, the little, the happy, the sad. Thanks Dave for being that special person and treating me like one. HUGS and YES SMOOCHES CHUCK:P

[Rick Munroe]

The most special client I ever had didn't scrape his teeth on my dick when he blew me. }>

[Guest Ivanhoe]

>The most special client I ever had didn't scrape his teeth

>on my dick when he blew me. }>

 

Let me guess...is it MUAH? Wasn't that the night when I forgot my dentures? :7

[Guest jerseyguy]

The prior two posts refer to a relationship that is no longer escort & client. You have developed a personal friendship. I think this forum was meant to explore how an escort can make a client feel special and how a client can make an escort want to do his job better. Am I wrong about this?

[Guest Ivanhoe]

>The prior two posts refer to a relationship that is no

>longer escort & client. You have developed a personal

>friendship. I think this forum was meant to explore how an

>escort can make a client feel special and how a client can

>make an escort want to do his job better. Am I wrong about this?

 

 

You're right but I think, it's also interesting to know how some of these escort/client relationships develop into personal friendships. I really appreciate the response you gave.

 

I hope we can get some insight from some of our escort posters.

[Guest jeffOH]

I've had 2 clients who asked me if it was okay for them to take out their dentures before they sucked my cock. God, what a great feeling!

Like velvet. Some of the best head I've ever experienced.

 

JEFF

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[+ Axiom2001]

The threads get better and better enticing me to post my take on the topic. I am in 100% agreement with IM's reply #2, Countryboy76's reply #3, and Chaz's reply #6.

When escorts have become special to me is when all of the characteristics listed by my fellow respondents have existed.

 

I have really found the young, personable Brazilian in SF whom I have seen four times and plan to see again and again quite special. I have seen him without any added stimulant as well as with. When I took to the pipe once (with his permission), it was oh, so too much. After that particular date, I saw him again, and it was still lovely. That evening I gave him a small present for the holiday; he in turn sent me a poignant email holiday greeting. I say all of this for I look at him as a friend (as much as it can be). He mentioned to me once that we clicked rather well.

 

Of my thirteen escort experiences, I've had--two of the men whom I would consider special, for they definitely reflected the criteria mentioned in the respondents' messages to which I have previously alluded. Of the thirteen men I have seen, I've seen one, my man from SP four times, and my IG twice. Plans are in the winds to see them again and again; they're quite, quite special-- genuine men.

[Guest Chazzz69]

Chazzz69

 

Lets face it it comes down to chemistry between two individuals. If it works then it can turn in to a very long term mutually beneficial experience.

 

I prefer escorts who are smart, have a sense of humor, are versatile and are up front about their business dealings. Timely responses to messages and phone calls. No attitude.

 

The best guys that I have hired do not focus on the monetary transaction. We both know that money is going to change hands and if trust is mutual then payment is not due until after services are rendered. One of my regular guys almost left without his money once. I had to remind him to take the envelope with him.)

 

Right now I have two guys that are regulars for me on both coasts. We fun together and enjoy ourselves a lot. The chemistry has worked out in both instances.

 

 

:-) :-)

[Guest tmbg]

I agree with LG320126 for the most part. Though I have become friends with several escorts none to the depth of the friendship he has experienced.

 

When the client and escort share like interests both in and out of bed I feel that is one of the main incredients that makes the relationship special.

 

Cheers! Ritchie

[adriano46]

I have met many escorts over the years, and many have had two or more appointments, but one or two stand out from the rest (without offense to a half-dozen or so others who have been frequently hired over the years, and whose company - and friendship - are deeply appreciated )...

 

The best one - who is by no means the most handsome, or the most hung, or the most versatile - has been able to make me feel most at ease, be myself (and he knows who I am, what I do, where I live and all my personal info and has never compromised that trust). Whether attending a concert together, having a nice dinner out, or walking in the rain (he lives in a wet city!!!), or simply hanging out at his place or my hotel, I feel totally relaxed around him.

 

When we are together I really enjoy his company, his conversation, listening to him and dealing with him. And when we have more intimate time, it is by far the time sparkes fly. Without going into hyperbole, sex with this guy is way beyond the physical raw sweaty stuff... it is something almost sacred.

 

Over the years we have come to care for each other as friends, and as two adults who enjoy each other's company when our paths cross.

[Guest chaz49wm]

Thanks Adriano Not sure I could have stated it as eloguently as you But I concur HUGS

[Guest Viewmaster]

Great sex....period. All the rest of the stuff may be part of it or play into it, but I would ask you this: If all of the "extra" stuff was there and the sex was mediocre, just how "special" would you think the experience was then?

[Guest FLsweetguy]

I think there has to be some common interests, physical attraction, trust and feelings for each other. It is better when the client doesn't feel this is just a business relationship. And finally when there is all that, then more time with each other will grow the relationship.