Sex with Masseur

[EastbayMike]

So, I've gone to the same masseur for about five sessions now over the past year. Found him on masseurm4m.com. He's a great legit masseur and a really sexy guy. Look up "mike's type" in the dictionary, and his photo will be there. Anyway, I know it's not an escort. When I want a massage, I see a masseur. When I want sex, I see an escort. So back to my masseur. The session always ends in really good sex; kissing; sucking; fucking. Best of both worlds, right? So my what's my problem? I run into him on occasion at the local gay sauna. He's always friendly and says hello. But the body language he throws off is a definite "I don't want to fool around." So why at the end of a massage session, when he should be worn out and just want to send me on my way, does he spend another hour having sex (and only charging for the massage). Yet when we meet somewhere that we can fool around, it's no way? Curious what other masseurs or clients think.

[Guest zipperzone]

Could it be that at the gay sauna there is no $$$ changing hands? Even although he offers the sex after a massage at no charge, he has received payment for the 1st part.

[+ Axiom2001]

>Could it be that at the gay sauna there is no $$$ changing

>hands? Even although he offers the sex after a massage at no

>charge, he has received payment for the 1st part.

 

 

 

As I read the thread, your thoughts Zipperzone came to me! He's gotten his $$$$$ after the massage, so what the hell if I don't please you and me sexually without requesting additional fees!

 

This guy responds differently based on the environment and circumstances! Just accept it as such or discuss it with him in a nice honest way next time he gives you a massage and the extra!

[JT Brooklyn]

IMHO. The guy feels A Time & A Place EQUALS.. $$$

 

I would just ... Get a few more Massages a year! ;-)

[Capitolhillguy]

He may just want you to come back and pay. He is just setting boundaries. Boundaries are necessary in all relationships. He is telling you to pay him to establish boundaries. I have had similar experiences with masseurs.Look at it this way: you are getting escort services for thee price of a massage, so why complain.:-)

[EastbayMike]

"Look at it this way: you are getting escort services for thee price of a massage, so why complain.:-)"

 

Excellent advice, thanks for pointing out what should have been obvious to me.