Canceling an appointment (because you're just not in the mood)

[dcguy20]

I understand when escorts are visiting from out of town, one needs to book an appointment in advance because they sometimes book up. Unfortunately there are times that the day of the appointment, I'm just not in the mood.

 

I've had escorts cancel on me in the past, as well as others who just don't show. I'm aware that at the time, I'm not happy about it, but probably better off, as who wants to pay for something that someone is not in the mood for. We're all human and our situations and moods change. I feel bad about canceling an appointment I booked for this evening, but really didn't know what else to do (I gave at least 6 hours notice). What are your views on the subject?

[Guest ryan2552]

If I ever had to cancel on a traveling escort I'd feel obligated to offer a portion or possibly all of his fee. I don't feel that they have the resources to fill the block of time I booked easily. They also might be planning on the revenue for their continued travel plans.

 

A first time meeting with a local escort if I ever had to cancel I most likely would try to reschedule with him. I think most would find this reasonable if given enough notice.

 

As for a regular escort I simply would give as much notice as possible and reschedule. I've actually had to do this several times over the years and in each case my then regular escort had no issues whatsoever with my change in plans.

 

I've always believed its hard to plan on feeling horny, so in most cases I try not to book to far in advance.

 

I'm certain many here will have different views than mine.

[Guest zipperzone]

>I've always believed its hard to plan on feeling horny, so in

>most cases I try not to book to far in advance.

 

 

I know just how you feel - I have the same problem. That's why I prefer to see local escorts who I can phone and arrange an almost immediate appointment - if they are free.

 

I find it really difficult to know that I'll feel horny next Wednesday between the hours of 7 & 9.

[Guest Merlin]

It is unreasonable to hire an escort to travel and then cancel because you don't feel like it. Is that what happened? You should pay for his travel and a part or all of the agreed fee.

[seaboy4hire]

I think the escort was traveling on his own dime, at least that is what I got from the op. If one isn't in the mood then cancel but it would be nice to be fronted either the full fee for the time or partial if someone is visiting from out of town. I've had people cancel on me but that was due to a winter snow storm and glad they did because it got nasty.

 

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[dcguy20]

The escort was in from out of town on his own dime. If I made arrangements to have someone come here, of course I would be responsible.

[arthur]

I've had a well-known escort in San Antonio tell me I was "unprofessional" when I cancelled an appointment three weeks in advance because I had decided not to pass through his city on my way to a vacation in Mexico City.

[doctordoctor]

Arthur:

 

gee, that's pretty bad of that SA escort to call you "unprofessional" three weeks out.....that's a very generous time for notice....

 

gotta ask: was the escort our famous and controversial Ben??....thanks

[Rod Hagen]

6 Hours notice because you're "not in the mood" isn't enough. You should pay his fee. Or, better yet, follow through. If you're healthy, presumably your horny, or can GET horny if the escort does his job.

 

What you should do is tell him beforehand on the phone/email, or even when he gets there, "well today (yesterday) was trying...you've got your work cut out for you." And then grin and evil grin and watch him get to work.

 

Your explanation/excuse that escorts (shame on them) have done the same to you doesn't fly.

 

6 Hours notice if you're sick or there was an earthquake, no problem. But just because you're not raring to go? Nope. Bad call.