Fin Fang Foom replies - at great length

[+ bigjoey]

RE: Reply to Rod

 

FFF gives SOME reasons guys become escorts but there are many others:

 

i know an escort who feels like a doctor because he enjoys helping people. he has many "older" clients (up into their 80's) who have no other human intimacy; intimacy is a human need like eating and he feels that if it were not for him supplying that need, the life of those people would have less quality. that particular escort loves sex with both men and women, old and young so it is not a problem being with an "older" guy.most of his clients are regulars and he is part of the fabric of their lives.

 

i see another escort who likes being with me (i am his only client as he retired about 4 years ago) because i supply him with an intimacy he can not get from his live in girlfriend! while this may sound totally wierd, his girlfriend is the "find'em-fuck'em-move on" type; she does not like foreplay but just wants to get fucked. this guy loves foreplay (as do i) and we will have up to 2 hours of intimacy and foreplay before "the act". he loves his girl friend and everything else about her but this one thing; realizing that no one is perfect, he overlooks her one fault and stays with her. this guy who is straight has no problem being with me because he is so comfortable with himself and who he is that being with a man is no big deal. i hire him for weekends and then he often stays on UNPAID for several additional days(up to a week)! we enjoy each others company both in and out of bed. in addition to the money, he clearly finds i fill one of HIS personal needs.

 

another escort who was bi escorted for both men and women. as i got to know him it became clear that as a child he never got any love or affection from his parents. escorting filled his need for attention and "love" that he missed as a child. he loved being the center of attention and escorting filled that need well. in fact, i found this true of several escorts who had similiar backgrounds.

 

yes, others neded the quick money but i have found many other reasons for escorting than those FFF listed.

[+ cougar]

RE: Reply to Rod

 

FFF I must agree with your post and honestly I think you have coved most personailty types that I have personally experienced.

I have one that I would like to add; and that is the guy who decides to become an escort and then after seeing the "easy money" become someone totally different than he was before. Nice guy to start with, but then gets gets caught up in all the attention and grows this ego that super charged. He continues to change and eventually gets caught up in drugs. I know one escort which this happened.