Cole Ramsey /NYC Sat Review

[JT Brooklyn]

Maybe I should just let this pass, BUT ANYWAY,,LOL A month or so before Hooboys Very Sad Passing, I received an email from him. He said he had received a "Review" witrh My name on it for Mr. Ramsey. There was something about it, it didn't Sound right to him. He knew I don't write "Down and Dirty" Porn-ee stuff. LOL I leave that to the Pro's..The First "Red Flag" was "MY VERY OLD WEBTV-Address" was used! I did 2 years Previously.. Hangout with MR Ramsey, when my "WebTV" was in use... The meeting was "Not Worth" a Review! Enuff said. "Could be me",Various Reasons.. not my type..Hooboy deceided NOT to Post it... Anyway Today's Review.. even from a "First Timer", justifies a Second READ! I am just passing this along, to you guys. "Please" Hopefully No Big Debates. The Escort.. has "Responded" with his Version..

[buckyball]

I had an experience with Cole Ramsey when he was still in San Francisco. It sounds much like the review actually. He had me sit down, then he kept leaving the room. We chatted for a long time until he finally returned with his shirt off which I guess was his way of starting the activities. All in all, not much to review. He was arrogant and definitely not worth whatever I paid for the session (i think it was 250 or so). I can sympathize with the reviewer.

[vabballfan]

I had a less than favorable encounter with Cole in DC two years ago. I was on time, in his response he said I was late. He took a full 10 minutes to shower after I arrived, he said he didn't in his repsonse to my review. I said in my review that he couldn't get hard, he said I couldn't get myself up. If he is supposed to be a dominate top, who needs to get hard? The bottom or the top? He sang his own praises for the entire time, he responds that I kept carrying on about how hot he was. I wouldn't look twice at him on the street - that doesn't equate to hot to me. He said I was late - he started the appointment late, talked about himself for a full half hour, played (not very entusiastially) for about 20 minutes and announced I had to leave since he had another appointment scheduled an hour after I had arrived and had to wait for him to shower and talk about himself.

 

The last review posted for him sounds like it could be a very accurate account of a session with Cole. I'd never waste my money again. No way.

[JT Brooklyn]

Glad you guys got to pass along your Experiences. That is Definitely one of the Original Ideas of Hooboy. Some guys don't read the Reviews BUT do read the Forums..So in this case "Both Bases" were covered..Unfortunately.. we can't Usually change the M/O of a guy..But if we can save 1 guy from the "Hassle or Hussle" of a Bad Experience that's Cool! ALSO a Shame that Mr Cole "Ramsey".. deceided to use the "Stage Name" of one of the Best Guys around Jon "Ramsey"/Boston..Among "Other" things, Jon Ramsey is a very "Masculine Guy". Not trying to "ACT" MASCULINE.. Either you have it or you don't! LOL :+

[mansniffing]

I'm curious. Where in Chelsea is Cole Ramsey located? In the current review "Playroom" is mentioned I'm wondering if it is a walk-up.

[mansniffing]

I'm curious. Where in Chelsea is Cole Ramsey located? In the current review "Playroom" is mentioned I'm wondering if it is a walk-up.

[JT Brooklyn]

The May Reviewer.. Probably is the Guy to answer the "Playroom" Question. He Relocated from CA.. Last year...Most of his Appointments are "Stated" as being Outcalls.."Previous" to that he was all over the Place..:+

[ItalMix]

At the risk of appearing to be jumping on the band wagon ... I can completely relate to experience the latest reviewer had with this guy. I also found him arrogant and totally not worth my time. I was subjected to the in and out appearances in the room, then a rather lengthy "Interview" into my past experiences with escorts right down to NAMES.. I offered a few names up to him to give him a sense of the types of men I hired, ie Reece Rothmeier for no other reason but to give him a sense of what I was looking for.. I got the quick order to perform like a trained seal and shown the door. When I wrote an email, I told him that I was not pleased and he promptly wrote me a pretty hostile reply.. I justed chalked it up to a bad experience ...

 

Just thought I would offer my two cents on this guy, but have to honestly say that he has a large following of men who sing his prasises.. That's what makes the world interesting..

 

TR

[JT Brooklyn]

Well for what it's worth..In What 2 days "Already" 4 guys are passing along just about the "Same Experience" ..He has 25 Reviews ALOT of First Timers,which all have the Same "Tone" to them..He would have had 26..But That "Bogus Review" with my Name on it.. was "Nipped" in the Bud By Hooboy! Like alot of things in Life.."Time will Tell"..Unfortunately..THE Little "Charge Card" Forms in the mean time will be going thru at $250 A POP! LOL :+

[Guest need2Btopped]

Speaking of Reece, I miss him A LOT! Have you found anyone as good?

[Guest manrent1]

Cole Ramsey lives in Chelsea in NYC - His "playroom" is just as much of a joke as his calling himself 29 and masculine. It's basically a typical (nothing at all special) NYC older gay man's apartment. Lots of nellie touches

Personal information (street and name of building) where an escort lives is not allowed. Cooper

[ItalMix]

I contacted Reece over the holidays to wish him well and received a short email in return. He really is keeping things close to the vest regarding what he is doing but my sense is that he truly retired and is devoting himself to a new career and relationship. Personally, I think this guy set the standard for professionalism and just all around dominant alpha male.. I lost count of the number of times he just plain rocked my world.. He is the best in my books and he deserves all the happines in the world..

 

Tom

[Chairmans Pig]

>I contacted Reece over the holidays to wish him well and

>received a short email in return. He really is keeping things

>close to the vest regarding what he is doing but my sense is

>that he truly retired and is devoting himself to a new career

>and relationship. Personally, I think this guy set the

>standard for professionalism and just all around dominant

>alpha male.. I lost count of the number of times he just plain

>rocked my world.. He is the best in my books and he deserves

>all the happines in the world..

>

>Tom

 

I 'hole'heartedly agree with Tom. Very nice, very handsome, very intelligent. Lucky for me and my partner he lived just one block away.

 

If you look at his old website (http://www.getreece.com) it goes to "Tropic Options" beadwork/jewelry site. Is that Reece's new career?

 

CP

[convertibletop]

My experience is sadly similar to posts in that Cole Ramsey is definitely a waste of time. My poor experience with him lead me to re-read Cole's reviews. My conclusion is the Cole Ramsey I was with was not the same Cole Ramsey in the reviews.

 

 

>At the risk of appearing to be jumping on the band wagon ...

>I can completely relate to experience the latest reviewer had

>with this guy. I also found him arrogant and totally not

>worth my time. I was subjected to the in and out appearances

>in the room, then a rather lengthy "Interview" into my past

>experiences with escorts right down to NAMES.. I offered a

>few names up to him to give him a sense of the types of men I

>hired, ie Reece Rothmeier for no other reason but to give him

>a sense of what I was looking for.. I got the quick order to

>perform like a trained seal and shown the door. When I wrote

>an email, I told him that I was not pleased and he promptly

>wrote me a pretty hostile reply.. I justed chalked it up to a

>bad experience ...

>

>Just thought I would offer my two cents on this guy, but have

>to honestly say that he has a large following of men who sing

>his prasises.. That's what makes the world interesting..

>

>TR

[whipped guy]

> RE: "Please" Hopefully No Big Debates.

 

(Sorry for the delay with this posting. As a new member I had to wait for “activated status” to participate in this forum.)

 

After having been taken for 500 big ones, I feel compelled to jump on the bandwagon and to add my two cents to the Cole Ramsey “debate”. If this guy has been up to something deceitful there indeed should be a certain amount of debate. Hell, reading his latest review gave me the incentive to join you guys at message center!

 

I am glad that others are beginning to ”tell it like it is”. Like many of you, I hesitated to write a bad review when I hooked up with this guy a few months ago. I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt, and even thought it might have been my frame of mind at the time. However, after reading the latest on Mr. Ramsey I realized that what I experienced was no fluke, but actually a PATTERN OF BEHAVIOR.

 

My experience mirrors what others were subjected to. I was told I was early even though I was on time. I had to wait alone in his bedroom/playroom for an interminable length of time. (I scheduled a two-hour session so I guess I had to wait longer than those that only scheduled only a one-hour appointment.) I also had to endure the lengthy conversation. (At this point I naively thought he was trying to establish the chemistry and trust that would be all-important in the S&M session I had requested.) He told me he had just returned from being out of town and was waiting for a grocery delivery, hence the delay. I expected to be compensated on the other end, but no such luck. He is an intelligent (in retrospect devious) and intriguing, if self-centered guy, but talk is cheap. (He bragged about safe deposit boxes and closets overflowing with “our hard earned” cash.) During the conversation I jokingly thought this guy would be great at selling snake oil, I guess my initial impression was correct.

 

When we finally got down to business, he provided the least “interesting” S&M session I have ever experienced. (Again, I figured he wanted to take things slow so as to develop that all-important trust and chemistry.) I like sucking cock at the end of the encounter. I consider this my prize for being able to endure the torments thrown at me. He ordered me to do so at the beginning, which at first I declined to do. He then admonished me it would be MY loss if I didn’t act accordingly. I gave him a taste, which was nothing special. When I realized the session was winding down, I attempted to lick his balls and dick. He told me I had my opportunity earlier and would not be allowed near his precious cock. He said he wanted to establish who was in command, BUT WHO THE HELL WAS PAYING THE FREAKING MONEY MR. RAMSEY?

 

At the conclusion of the session, he offered me a shower. He then offered me a tepid glass of tap water. I barely drank half of it when he suddenly hustled me out as a friend of his arrived. I should have made some kind of a protest at that point. However, with the other person there, it would have been somewhat awkward. Against all logic, I not only paid the guy, but was willing to give him the benefit of the doubt.

 

Well, after reading Cole Ramsey’s latest review and the other comments here in this forum, I finally saw the light. Yes Sir! I’d been taken! Here’s what I got for my 500 bucks: a 20 minute wait, a 45 minute discussion, a 45 minute session, a 10 minute shower, and half a glass of water.

 

Guys! Lesson learned! Being Mr. Nice Guy does a disservice not only to one’s self but also to others as well. I should have protested right on the spot. Furthermore, if I had submitted a review several months ago I might have saved a number of people some hard earned cash. Therefore, DON’T hesitate to post a truthful bad review. I know I never will. (And yes, continue to submit those glowing honest good reviews.) Also, use the advanced search feature here on message center as an alternate source of information. Up until my encounter with Mr. Ramsey this approach worked for me. Hopefully, after this he will not be able to hoodwink too many more clients.

 

If we all do our part the information provided on this site will be more accurate, which is why this site was developed in the first place. So guys, let’s all do our duty. Everyone perceives things differently. Consequently, one must read all of an escort’s reviews, read between the lines, and yes consider the escort’s reply and viewpoint. Then make a rational decision based on a preponderance of the evidence.

 

Hopefully I did not overstep my bounds here. I know that writing this won’t get any portion of my 500 clamshells back, but actually makes me feel better about the situation. I thank all of you at “Message Center” for the opportunity.

 

You’re right JT... Experience... etc...etc!!!

[JT Brooklyn]

Welcome Whipped Guy..Sorry I brought on a very "Forgettable Flashback". Don't "Feel alone" on this one..When I hungout with Ramsey, at that time he was using your Average "Vanilla Photos" T/W'S etc.. The kind that catch my eye..Since then he has changed his "Image" Towards Leather and S&M..UNLESS S&M MEANS..SALLY & MARY Impressions.. There is nothing Masculine about him.. I just thought I would end this Discussion on a Light Note! LOL

[whipped guy]

Reading this brought back some great memories of Reece. It is exactly one year ago this month that Reece retired. It has always been a regret of mine that I missed spending at least one more session with him.

 

When Reece emailed me to announce he was closing up shop, I remember feeling disparate feelings of depression and contentment. We had a number of discussions regarding the fact that he needed to ultimately be doing something different in his life. On a personal level I would be loosing that ultimate master of S&M who catapulted me to new levels of ecstasy. Yet I knew that Reece needed to move on. Frankly, he is such a great guy, that my feelings of gladness that he was doing something positive in his life actually transcended any selfish personal feelings...

 

Thank you Reece!