Jerome's response of today (Jerome in London)

[guyinsf]

I was surprised to see that no one has taken this one on yet. Then again, maybe we're all getting a little weary with respect to this topic.

 

When will they ever learn? ;-)

 

Jerome: Your body is incredibly hot and you have at least one favorable review from someone who has reviewed other escorts. This gives you (a) appeal and (b) some credibility. Unfortunately your response posted today obliterates both of those qualities. I don't think it is ever beneficial for an escort to insult a client in a response. Stick to the facts; don't be insulting. Instead of spending so much time showing us how much disdain you felt (not only upon reading the review but apparently while being with the client as well), why didn't you simply respond professionally with something like:

 

"I'm sorry this client had difficulty finding my apartment. I tried to give him accurate directions and have not previously had a client complain that my directions were unclear.

 

It seems like this client arrived at my apartment already upset about not being sure where he was and feeling unsafe in the neighborhood. It is unfortunate that that seemed to transfer into our appointment. I tried my best -- as I do with all of my clients -- to be friendly. I honestly did not know how to respond when he made the "joke" about his difficulty reaching my place and I certainly didn't want to make him feel worse about how difficult a time he had finding me."

 

You get the idea.

 

You could then go on to address how you would have liked the sex to have been enjoyable for the client. Perhaps the client didn't mention on the phone that he wanted to have anal sex and, given his last-minute booking, weren't properly prepared with supplies. (Still, it does seem like you would have had time to go to a local store to buy condoms -- and any escort who has anal sex with clients should always have an ample supply so they aren't caught without them.) There are some other criticisms which the client made which also deserve a response, but a thoughtful one -- not an retaliatory strike.

 

I actually read the client's review after reading your response. Your response made me utterly convinced that I wouldn't want to hire you, and I knew very little about what actually happened during the appointment in question. Reading the client's review I was struck by how little of his criticisms actually seemed valid. (For example, it's the client's issue that he felt unsafe in your neighborhood; it's the client's issue that he "had" to call you three times en route to make sure he was going the right way (sounds overly anxious to me, since his review seems to indicate that he never made a wrong turn -- he just wasn't familiar with the area); it's the client's issue that he had difficulty communicating with you (or were you really suddenly pretending not to understand English despite him asking a clarifying question?) It's also clear that the client is cheap and untrustworthy, unless there's more to the story that either of you wrote. It certainly doesn't sound like you did anything that warranted him not paying you the amount you had agreed upon. Sometimes clients end up paying for disappointing experiences, sometimes diners end up paying for meals that were disappointing. Sorry about the food analogy again. I do NOT just think of escorts as meat. :+

 

Why any escort would think that posting a diatribe about a client on this site would be good for his business is beyond me. It not only causes other potential clients to wonder what that escort might think and write about him, but it also is an indication of the character underneath the (hopefully) professional outward demeanor. There are so many seemingly intelligent, professional escorts who post regularly here (I say "seemingly" because I don't really know them). Learn from their examples.

[EXPAT]

I was also planning to hire Jerome until I saw his response today. (And I hire a lot of escorts in London). I was totally turned off to this response.

[LovesYng]

Jerome you sound like one sick pup, 95% of escorts never run on time, always late also I had a lot of escorts ask if they could take a shower when they showed up. I really like that idea, then I know they are clean.:9 Remember your an escort and your selling a service to the customer, who has money in his pocket after everything is done?:+ If he was running late for your taste you could have called it off at the door then you would have been on time for the rest of your customers. One question do you always run on time, what if you and the client are hitting it off during his visit, do you just stop & say time is up?:'(

[Guest mplsmn]

Excellent feedback to Jerome in London. I have hired escorts who had negative reviews here IF the escort's response was explanatory rather than a vindictive diatribe. God knows, there are clients whose reviews are a passive/aggressive jab at an escort for some illogical reasons. In those cases where I did hire an escort who responded acceptably to a negative review, I mentioned to the escort as our appointment ended that I was aware of the review and was impressed with his response to it. As has been said here before, they teach you that "the customer is always right", but in my experience there are many times when they are NOT. One more thing: I am puzzled by the fact that the response was tagged to a different review.

[Guest frenchdick]

hi folks

during october, i met Jerome twice for a 2 hours appointment (each time) : i am french too and was very attracted by his pix..

- on the first rendez-vous i had a great time ! that's why i wanted to see him twice (the next day)

- on the second rendez-vous, the feeling was not there !! and i felt like ripped off..we were close to argue !!!

- 1 thing i really disliked : he asked me to pay before sex (I never paid escorts before sex : i always did it after and anybody complaints)..

- ok, he's got a wonderful body and cute face but there are too many other things with him that went wrong...

If you wanna hear more about the story, contact me here....

[Guest nickandre]

I am interested in hiring Jerome next time I visit London. I wrote him a message and he answered me very nicely.

I would like to know what happened with your appointments, frenchdick?

If you enjoyed Jerome's company the first time, what made you change your mind the following day ?

 

I would agree that Jerome's answer to the negative review was a little hard, but he probably was angry at the negative posting, and he seems to remember that appointment very well, so the experience may really have been a disturbing one for him ...?

 

Escorts are people too, their feelings are at least as much important as the client's, and they can have a bad day too...

I believe that even if the client is paying for a service, let's not forget that an escort is human and sometimes the exchange just don't "click" very well.

 

I always show a great respect to the escorts I hire, and I'm happy to say that I never had a really bad experience. Sometimes, the appoitment may have been disappointing, but most of the times, I have a great time with the guys I hire.

 

Cheers to all !