Opinion Poll: Which is Better?

[jimmer]

Just wanted to hear from some of you.

 

I'm not sure which is better: having a session with an escort that you've seen before or hiring someone totally new?

 

I used to prefer hiring the same escorts to avoid the stress associated with hiring someone unknown to me, but for the past couple of months, I've branched out and hired several new escorts. All of the experiences have been positive, but sometimes I miss the perks of spending time with someone that knows me well.

 

What's your preference?

 

Jimmer

[Guest Hole_4_Hire]

Well, I don't hire too many escorts. :+ But I do have an opinion from an escorts point-of-view.

 

I personally prefer sessions with established clients rather than new clients. For escorts, there is also the worry and uncertainty that comes with first-time meetings.

 

I am much more at ease with repeat customers than a new "flavor of the day".

[Flower]

>I personally prefer sessions with established clients rather

>than new clients. For escorts, there is also the worry and

>uncertainty that comes with first-time meetings.

 

Oh, Trust me sweetie, the clients feel the same way when someone new is about to pop in so to speak and they have to see what the new 'flavor" will be like :9

 

> I am much more at ease with repeat customers than a new

>"flavor of the day".

 

Hmmm--is that what we are--a "flavor of the day?" Guess I'd be Lime!

 

But I have to admit, I am much more comfortable with an escort I like and have been with before, although it hasn't happened that often. In the many years I've been with escorts, there has only been a very few I wanted to see more than the one time I first met. But out of those very few, 2 became very good friends and then that sorta changed the situation too.

 

So something to say for the tried and the true

--as well as the fresh (flavor) and the new! (Is that a poem, yet?)

 

Flower :*

[Guest Ringleader]

personally, i like to stay with an escort that knows me and with whom i feel comfortable. when i travel, i prefer to call someone that i have met before to avoid any chance of disappointment. sometimes, it isn't possible and sometimes i do like to try somebody new just for the sake of variety. but if i like an escort a lot, i don't see why i should take a chance.

[marc anthony]

You love your old friends, but you make new ones. Same with escorts... pros and cons to both, so why choose. Do a little of both. I have my favorites that I hire over and over. But I always try to meet new cute ones for a little unpredictability. I am also one who is not afraid to hire new, unreviewed escorts. Although I don't deny you can get burned that way, I must say it has been very infrequent. I think using good common sense and trusting instincts make it usual that you can sniff out the total scammers and flakes.

[ad rian]

>You love your old friends, but you make new ones. Same with

>escorts... pros and cons to both, so why choose. Do a

>little of both.

 

I have been thinking about this question myself lately. Having concentrated on a regular for the last few months, I tried something new on Friday and it was amazing! I think Mark Anthony is right. All that I would add is that the problem with regulars is that sometimes too much affinity leads to a confusion over the nature of the commercial friendship as opposed to a real one. Variation solves that problem, and keeps sex from getting boring with the regular!

[alanalt]

>Just wanted to hear from some of you.

>

>I'm not sure which is better: having a session with an

>escort that you've seen before or hiring someone totally

>new?

>

As with others below, I'm going to say that I like both options from time to time. Or to put it another way, I'm planning two more escort sessions/encounters this year. One with an escort that I've already seen three times this year, and one with an escort who will be 'new' (to me anyways) ;-)

 

I should also point out that my only negative experience from an escort was actually one I started seeing regularly. The first couple of sessions were great, but then he started 'hustling' me (asking for 'loans' or calling me up to try and setup appointments, etc.). Our last session ended with him getting his fee, a blow job, dinner and me getting nothing in return! So I ended that! Now this has only happened with the one escort. Other escorts who I've done repeats with have been great and I would love to see them again as often as my tongue could handle!:9

 

And having said that, :-) , I confess I have a 'fantasy' list of about 20-30 'new' escorts that I'd love to meet someday. Now the limits set by my financial resources mean that I'm likely only to get through a small portion of that list before most of them retire :-( ! So, I'm trying to find a 'balance' between enjoying the 'familiar' along with trying to make 'headway' on my list!

 

Alan (Sunday morning rambler)

[LovesYng]

I'll keep it short & sweet. I got five regulars I see. Each one is different and that's whats fun about it. But at times I love a new boy to play with. 99.9% of the time I'll stay with my regulars, I think it's a lot safer... :+

[CT Dick]

Both! :+

 

I love having regulars; we know what the other enjoys and don't have to play that game of discovery. We can get right down to it.

 

But, I also love the anticipation of a new one. Right now I am passing time until a new 18 yo, hung top arrives. I plan to undress him, hoping that he isn't hard yet. I want to tickle his dick until I get it rock hard. Then, we can make out and .....}>

 

Dick

[Huey]

I like the security and comfort of my regular escort. Though I also want variety I don't feel one is better than the other. It depends on the clients needs.

 

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[taylorky]

isn't one of the motivators for paying someone the variety it provides; i mean if your going to keep going with the same guy,why not just hook up with someone in a more traditional way?

[jimmer]

Hey all,

 

Thanks for sending in your opinions. Much appreciated.

 

I suppose I agree with most of you ... I was probably spending too much time with a couple of "regulars", and when I hired some new dudes, my sex life picked up considerably. Kinda fun to to abandon the established patterns of behavior and explore new possibilities. And I totally lucked out on finding some great new (to me) escorts, thanks to this site.

 

Guess I agree with most of you that familiar territory is fine, and I will return to that avenue repeatedly, but looking in new directions is fun, too.

 

Jimmer

[+ Axiom2001]

Ever since my finding out that there were men for hire, I have been with a reasonable number. Recently, I have seen the same escorts again and again, especially the ones who have truly satisfied my needs.

 

There is one man in particular in San Francisco who I try to see at least once a month; he's a busy hottie, but he and I have truly "connected" in many, many ways. I feel that I know him, and I think he believes similarly when it comes to me.

 

There are men in other cities whom I plan to see (if all goes well) in the planning as well as in the financial department, but to answer the question: if there are at least three escorts in a given area who have whetted and satisfied my sexual libido, I'd prefer to hire them over and over again. Each time has just enhanced the previous ones. That is what I have experienced.