When an escort pursues you! Need some guidance...

[jasne]

I recently hooked up with a guy that will go nameless for the time and this was our first meeting. I sent an e-mail indicating interest in meeting again but schedules did not permit. The guy IMed me on AOL which is so unusual for an escort. This happened several times during the course of a week and I do understand it is in his best interests but am attracted to the idea that he was impressed enough to communicate with me, which is an uncommon practice for escorts in general.

 

I'd like to get client and escort opinions on this; what has your experience been? When this happens do you really need to be careful?

 

I wouldn't mind communicating via e-mail so, feel free to give me your address as I do not want to disclose a lot of details here.

 

Thanks

[Guest MrB]

Careful of what? If you like the guy and he thinks you're interesting enough to want to chat with you some even though you're not getting together again for now, I don't see the problem. Escorts are online a lot, and they're not just pieces of meat... why can't they just want to talk to another human being? I chat with escorts I've met all the time. Just enjoy it :-)

 

Have fun!

 

 

MrB

[Guest JD]

Jasne,

 

I'm a client who is a "born-again skeptic" and wonder if the escort is interested in YOU or what you can provide. Are you in the same age group and socio-economic status or is he looking at you as a potential "sugar daddy"?

 

It could be that he appreciates your life experiences/success and is only looking for a mentor. Or, he may feel you have "disposal" income and could afford his services on a regular basis. (I'm sure all escorts appreciate their "safe" and regular clients - especially if the sex is exciting.)

 

I suggest you schedule another session with him (at a hotel and NOT your home). Tell him you're flattered he contacted you and ask if his interest is strictly professional. I encourage you to get clarity on the situation and not "assume" a non-professional interest.

 

I'd proceed with caution.

 

JD

[Guest ChicagoCorey]

Without knowing the details of which you speak, this doesn't really seem that strange to me at all. If I hook up with someone and it goes well, I certainly want to do it again. The hardest part of the escort/client relationship, for me, is the first time. Once you know you click with someone, the pressure is off and you can both have a better time. A smart escort appreciates return business, and if he liked you, it makes sense that he'd want to do it again. I'd say go for it.

 

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[marc anthony]

My favorite escorts in the world are Ryan of Las Vegas, Justin of NYC (the twinky one from Campus), Jake of New Orleans, Richard of Las Vegas, and Bryan Young of San Antonio. I know each of their AOL screen names and alternate email addresses. And they know mine. I know their birthdays and their real names, and they know mine. I know their phone numbers and their addresses, and they know mine. I know their favorite foods, movies, music, recreation, etc... and they know mine. We chat (some more than others) online and on the phone. I know they are escorts, and they know I am a client. We are friends in perhaps an artifical world, but being human beings, I know that it feels better to connect on some other level than just a business one. I know that there are scammers, both on the client and escort side, who might try to con you (for a client, it would be likely to be swindled... for an escort, likely to be stalked), and so some caution is always in order. But I want you to know that it is possible to have a very FUN relationship with escorts that you "connect" with even outside of the traditional "hire." When I am going to meet one of these cuties, we spend LOTS of time in communication planning the event... helping to make the anticipation almost as good as the actual event, and really helping both of us get the most out of our time together.

[jasne]

Hey guys, thanks for the info so far. I guess I'm just being cautious as we have only had one meeting and my next step was to plan something a bit bigger. It may sound like I am being a bit over-cautious but after reading about some of the things that have happened to others on here, I'd like to do my best to avoid them.

 

Thanks again.

[Guest Les]

You speaketh in one clump...

Are you okay Marc?

[Guest MrB]

I don't know if that's wise. If he is after you *as a client*, I don't see anything wrong with that, it just means he thinks you're a likeable client. If there's more, so much the better, you'll find out soon enough. Asking him *now* if his interest in you is strictly professional puts him on the block. The guy is an escort... so he wants to charge you for his time even if he likes you. The question really is... is seeing him again worth the money he is charging you? If so, what are you waiting for? Hurry up and have fun!!!!!!

 

 

MrB

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

Well here goes my two cents worth and some change.

 

Every client I have is known to me and only me. I do send a thank you email if I have the address after our first meeting wether or not I liked the way it went. I also will chat at ya if I see ya online. I do not usually approach you online as to give you your personal space. I however will email my clients from time to time witha news letter of sorts, or just to say hi, I was thinking about them if I havnt seen them in a while. Believe me most forget they have an escort, and a friendly email reminds them and most often call me that very day and set an appointment. I have never gotten a complaint and more often get a thank you note in return.

 

If this escort is sitting outside your home with spy glasses, then yeah be concerned. We really do consider this a business and believe in customer satisfaction. Maintaining contact just reconfirms the point I think of you as more than a wallet.

 

 

 

Michael Johnson

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[Guest jizzdepapi]

saving your pennies?

 

michael, you said you were going shopping with that two cents. wassup with this post?

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

RE: saving your pennies?

 

It comes as quick as it goes

[Guest cp8036]

I am always apprehensive, and don't read too much into it when an escort IM's me whenever I go online. Have to always keep in mind in most cases is just good marketing and adding a human touch to a business relationship. A good touch indeed, and I am happy to chat a short bit. Maybe I am just jaded these days.

 

Between emails, stalkers, this site, and personal life I am sure many escorts have to spend a lot of time on line. To take time to say hi to nice client is a good investment in time.

 

It can be easy to get signals crossed, to misunderstand compliments, or lots of IM's.

[jasne]

Hey CP I think you are right about this! While in Boston I hooked up with a guy that was favorably reviewed on here and after sending an e-mail, he didn't have the decency to reply with a "thank you" or provide any sort of acknowledge whatsoever. The meeting was fine but after that it seemed like he just closed the register drawer and moved on. It is good PR.

 

Thanks

[Guest cp8036]

Yes, is good PR, and small investment in cost/time. Doesn't need to be long.

 

One escort I considered would reply with short emails. Never answered few questions I had. I didnt go with him. Days later he emailed and asked if I am interested.

 

I said no, cuz you didnt answer anything, and couldn't invest an extra minute for replies. He said sorry, but he gets many same inquires and never answers with long emails.

 

Suggested to him that he make a stock email reply, and cut and paste. Sure many points are the same.