Your ideal orgasms per day

[Simon Suraci]

This spin off sexual well being topic is for the more open minded folks among us.

The previous thread question was how many times “CAN” you cum per day? The question itself implies that more is always better and that tally marks are the measure of a man’s pleasure and virility. Like it’s a contest. How limiting. Feel free to disagree. The other topic is for you, then (linked at the bottom). Here we will discuss more out of the box, creative, and deeper approaches to sex and orgasm. Maybe it will challenge you to think about sex in ways you’ve never considered before.

“How many times do you WANT to cum in a day? And HOW?” These more interesting and nuanced questions are about having more satisfying sex versus strictly “quantity” of sex measured superficially in terms of number of orgasms over the course of a given day. Men can have satisfying sex with many orgasms, few orgasms, no orgasms, and different types of orgasms. You can also have a lot of unfulfilling, lackluster orgasms in a day. Quantity does not parallel quality. Everyone is different. The question is what does it for you beyond an oversimplified X number of orgasms per day?

If you were able to cum as much as you want and how you want every day that you felt otherwise well enough to do so, and you had no limitations like work schedule or family responsibilities, what would be your ideal scenario?

Under what circumstances, types of stimuli (or lack of), and how long are your refractory periods (if any)? What types of orgasms? Long? Short? Intense? Mild? Ecstasy over the course of a long, multi orgasmic state? Ejaculatory, dry, or prostate? With partner(s), or strictly self pleasure? Any amount of edging? Can you cum with no physical stimulation at all, and would you want to? What about orgasms experienced primarily through stimulation in and around your ass? Or balls? Other erogenous zones? What about full body orgasms? What types of stimulus would you like? Any combinations or variations of the above?

Have you ever achieved something close to your ideal day, and how did it differ from what you wanted or expected? What makes for the most satisfying sex to you? What makes for the most satisfying orgasms to you?

Here is the other thread:

How many times can you cum in a day?