Michael PhD Posted January 20 Posted January 20 19 hours ago, Simon Suraci said: @Dr.Daddy thanks for sharing your story. Sounds like you had a great time! The classic massage turns into hardcore sex fantasy. Did you pay these guys equitable rates like you would for a full service escort? Or tip as if you were? Or at least offer? I hate to be a ‘nag’ about it but I feel a responsibility to advocate for our profession. Without the context of what you’re paying, stories like this perpetuate the expectation that masseurs can/should offer escort services for a massage fee, which is often around half the going rate of an escort. It puts tons of pressure on masseurs to give way more than they should for their fees and on the other side of the coin it devalues escort services. I realize it’s a fantasy come true and it’s supposed to be fun, but this is one of many example stories influencing how clients think, which in turn has real life consequences for professional masseurs and escorts. It makes our jobs a lot more difficult. I respectfully disagree. I noticed you made a comment about not wanting to derail this conversation so I’ll also take your lead and not comment much but just remind all that read this that there are two perspectives and clients are vulnerable for being taken advantage of with costs that are unreasonable or uninspired sessions sold as one thing but then the masseur doesn’t deliver which leads me to strongly believe that all is fair if there were no promises made or expectations of more (either physically or monetarily). Dr.Daddy and MDinNY 1 1
deepplease Posted January 20 Posted January 20 Alven in NYC is one of my favorites AlvenH - Male Massage & Bodywork in New York City, NY | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur AlvenH in New York City, NY offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual... thomas, JayinHKNYC and Saabster 2 1
Dr.Daddy Posted January 20 Posted January 20 @Simon Suraci Yes I paid them appropriately and asked them if they’d like me to share the story. They encouraged me to do so. I’ve also sent them tons of business, so I hope I’m not devaluing anyone but I apologize if anyone is offended. That Reddit page doesn’t prefer financial info be included in posts, and I always encourage open communication between clients and masseurs about what’s on the table and what’s not. As always, YMMV. I’m happy to remove the link to the Reddit post if that’s preferred by the providers here Thank you for your hard work moderating COM.
Simon Suraci Posted January 20 Posted January 20 1 hour ago, Dr.Daddy said: @Simon Suraci Yes I paid them appropriately and asked them if they’d like me to share the story. Great news, thank you for clarifying all these points! You’ve shown yourself to be an experienced, knowledgeable, and thoughtful client. Always a positive to hear about these win-win scenarios. No need to edit, especially if you have their ok to post. Understood on limits of what you can post on Reddit, makes sense. To all else, enjoy your hiring and please be mindful about compensating your masseurs equitably. We can discuss the nuances of how on other threads. I’ll butt out now. Back to your regularly scheduled programming re: favorite masseur hires of 2024 SDcompanyman, MDinNY and Dr.Daddy 2 1
Boaxxx Posted January 21 Posted January 21 On 1/17/2025 at 8:49 AM, Dr.Daddy said: Anthony and his partner were my second best of the year! So good and so sweet. I was lucky to see them when they were traveling to San Diego. My TOP fave was on Valentines Day 2024 when I got a 4-hand from Will and his partner: WILL_NYC - Male Massage & Bodywork in Manhattan, NY | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur WILL_NYC in Manhattan, NY offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic... If you like massage stories, I wrote about that wonderful experience here: https://www.reddit.com/r/eroticmalemassage/s/hdCD2H8Wxs Great recap of your session. I will have to look them up the next time I am in Chicago. Dr.Daddy 1
hardjohnny Posted January 22 Posted January 22 Without comment, Bil. Massagebybil - Male Massage & Bodywork in Los Angeles, CA | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur massagebybil in Los Angeles, CA offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual...
Luvmsg Posted January 24 Posted January 24 I also experienced Ross recently and would not see him again. Massage was basic though decent pressure but just felt lazy and he didn’t really work my shoulder or neck though I t was the specific thing we discussed.
gopochi Posted February 1 Posted February 1 On 12/5/2024 at 4:52 PM, SamMiller213 said: 2. Jason/Wolf in LA but his ad is no longer up. Very much agree on his massage skills. Word is that he took down his ad because now he’s only seeing a very small group of escort clients.
+ 7829V Posted February 2 Author Posted February 2 1 hour ago, gopochi said: Very much agree on his massage skills. Word is that he took down his ad because now he’s only seeing a very small group of escort clients. Happy to know I belong to that group. 🙂
gopochi Posted February 2 Posted February 2 41 minutes ago, 7829V said: Happy to know I belong to that group. 🙂 Lucky. Because he is truly phenomenal, both physically, and as a smart and engaged person.
SamMiller213 Posted February 2 Posted February 2 5 hours ago, gopochi said: Very much agree on his massage skills. Word is that he took down his ad because now he’s only seeing a very small group of escort clients. What do you mean by “escort clients”? To my knowledge he’s not an escort.
pleasureseeker Posted February 2 Posted February 2 I vote for Wagner. Sexy, professional, very good masseur and excellent extras. Super hot muscle bear in NYC. WagnerNY - Male Massage & Bodywork in New York City, NY | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur WagnerNY in New York City, NY offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue. + Italiano, LOJ, + claym and 4 others 1 3 2 1
gopochi Posted February 2 Posted February 2 9 hours ago, SamMiller213 said: What do you mean by “escort clients”? To my knowledge he’s not an escort. Yes, several years ago he had a RM ad (WrestlerJack or something like that). And he still sees some that he met that way for overnights, weekends, etc.
SamMiller213 Posted February 5 Posted February 5 On 2/2/2025 at 5:10 AM, gopochi said: Yes, several years ago he had a RM ad (WrestlerJack or something like that). And he still sees some that he met that way for overnights, weekends, etc. Interesting. What was he into? I got the impression he was just a straight guy comfortable giving massage and open to touch.
malegaze Posted February 5 Posted February 5 On 1/21/2025 at 6:13 PM, hardjohnny said: Without comment, Bil. Massagebybil - Male Massage & Bodywork in Los Angeles, CA | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur massagebybil in Los Angeles, CA offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual... +1 for Bil. Super nice guy with great skills. Bumpkin and + claym 2
gopochi Posted February 5 Posted February 5 18 hours ago, SamMiller213 said: Interesting. What was he into? I got the impression he was just a straight guy comfortable giving massage and open to touch. If you search Wrestler_Jack in this forum and the deli you can locate some prior discussion. He’s seems to be at least bi, and for relationships seems to tend to female. And for escort he offers bareback top and bottom, oral (receive and give) things like that
+ claym Posted February 6 Posted February 6 12 hours ago, malegaze said: +1 for Bil. Super nice guy with great skills. Double woof for his hairy thick forearms. Bumpkin 1
hairyfratdude11 Posted February 6 Posted February 6 7 hours ago, claym said: Double woof for his hairy thick forearms. Agreed! Def my best of 2025 (so far) hardjohnny, Bronniebron and Bumpkin 1 1 1
hairyfratdude11 Posted February 6 Posted February 6 And my top from 2024 was probably Big Bro in LA: BigBroBodywork - Male Massage & Bodywork in Los Angeles, CA | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur BigBroBodywork in Los Angeles, CA offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in... hot take… LA Masseurs > NY
+ 7829V Posted February 11 Author Posted February 11 (edited) On 12/5/2024 at 4:07 PM, Martin M said: Barcelona: Healinghandsbcn - Male Massage & Bodywork in Barcelona, Spain | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur Healinghandsbcn in Barcelona, Spain offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in... Why is this guy visiting San Marcos, CA? Seems odd. That's North County San Diego. Maybe has relatives or friends there? Edited February 11 by 7829V
+ 7829V Posted February 11 Author Posted February 11 3 minutes ago, 7829V said: Why is this guy visiting San Marcos, CA? Seems odd. That's North County San Diego. Maybe has relatives or friends there? Mmh maybe this is the answer. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/134255-411-on-healinghandsbcn-coming-to-nyc-from-barcelona/page/2/
NiceGuysAlwaysAppreciated Posted February 14 Posted February 14 On 1/19/2025 at 9:45 AM, DDad4ynger said: My vote is for Ben. Fantastic skills, genuinely nice and smoking hot! He has a lovely massage space with easy parking. In the DMV he is Tops! Just book early as he books fast! Bliss_Bodywork - Male Massage & Bodywork in Baltimore, MD | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur Bliss_Bodywork in Baltimore, MD offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in... Absolutely! Hands downs. He is a very nice guy, has good skills, and makes the client feel important. Any details just PM me. JMS 1
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