battling for escort time with content creators

[viewing ownly]

Here's the follow-up to my original post. Had my time been more enjoyable, I would've posted this sooner. Bottom line is, everyone's take was spot-on. For those who commented that it was foolish of me to try to book an in-demand adult movie actor when he was in town for an adult movie actor awards show, yes it was. The time away from the booth he was manning where he was making industry connections was not by any means outweighed by seeing me. I could look at the needle in the haystack here with that on his end. Say I was incredibly handsome with an amazing body and a third leg - meeting me might change MY career by seeing him. I am none of those things.

To those who told me to give him the benefit of the doubt and stop worrying until I'm given reason to have doubts, you were right as well. He did commit to our arrangement. I confirmed a total of 3 times (initial plan, reminder before he came to town, the day prior, plus a phone call when I reached his hotel). I felt like he wasn't at all enjoying my company, and not responding to my "thank you" note afterward cemented my belief. It only takes a few seconds to type or text back, "You're Welcome", or "Nice to have met you. Hope to see you again next time." or "It was my pleasure." When you don't, that's my sign that I should see someone else. Me making a lousy first impression is damning.