Clients in their twenties

[Guest shadow]

Hey,

 

are there many guys like myself who are in their twenties and hire escorts?

 

Some escorts are surprised when I tell them my age, but I don't know if I'm all that unusual. Like Matt Adams said in his book, clients range from all ages.

 

I have many reasons for hiring escorts. One of the top reasons is that I am SUPER closeted about my sexuality. Being an ambitious young proffesional, I'm afraid that that if anyone knew about my sexuality, it could have a serious impact on my career and relationships with my family and friends that I'm not ready to deal with yet.

 

Another reason is that these guys are TOTALLY hot.

 

Anyone else?

[Guest fedssocr]

Yeah, I've been hiring escorts since I was in my mid20's. For me it has to do with a lot of reasons...not necessarily being closeted, because I'm really not. But more to do with control, liking the idea of being able to just hire some one when I'm really horny without having to play a lot of games.

 

I think some escorts were surprised by my age, but now that I'm in my early 30s it's not a surprise. I actually had one guy refuse to see me because I was "so young". he thought I had something wrong with me. So, no great loss there I suppose.

[Guest Kevin 2]

LAST EDITED ON Jan-22-01 AT 09:53PM (EST)[p]Shadow,

You're not alone dude. I'm in my late twenties and I also have hired a few escorts. I have hired escorts for the same reasons you have. I'm not "openly" bi-sexual, so therefore discretion is high on my list. Also I like the fact that me an average looking guy can be with a totally "HOT" guy. Just a footnote my first "man to man" experience was when I finally gave into my fantasies and hired an escort. Some people might think that's odd that my first experience was with an escort but I felt alot more comfortable hiring an escort than trying to meet some guy on my own for the first time. If there are any guys reading this board that are in the "closet" and haven't actaully been with a guy yet, I recommend reading the reviews and hiring one for your first time. Thanks so much to HOOBOY for this very informative website.

[Guest janv145]

I've been out of the closet for a while and I've been hiring escorts since I was 25 (now 28) and I find it's a great way to explore fantasies w/ certain guys I probably wouldn't date (older, bear- type guys) or more often, guys out of my league (at least in terms of looks).

 

Lots of them are taken aback, especially since I look younger. One guy asked me if I was 12!

[Guest andreas]

Shadow,

 

From an escorts point of view, I was surprised when I was first hired by a guy who was 23. But in my four years as an escort, I've learned that you cannot predict why people hire escorts. For some it is a fantasy while for others it is just easier than taking part in the "gay scene." None of my clients, including those in their 40's and older, have been the type that "need" to hire an escort.

 

I believe America is finally catching up to the rest of the world in the belief that hiring an escort is not something only desperate people must resort to. It is best summed up by the response I received from an 18 year old client when I asked him why he hired me. He said, "Because I can."

 

-Andreas Mikeals

[link:www.andreasmikeals.com|http://www.andreasmikeals.com]

[Guest shadow]

Hey,

 

thanks for the replies guys.

[Guest AllAmerEscrt]

Hey there,

I also offer an escort's point of view about this topic. I have met a lot of different types of clients and have been offered several different explanations "why" theyhire escorts. And, yes, i have had guys in their 20's hire me. I have a rule that i remind myself of daily, that being "I should never judge anyone!" I know that people have reasons behind most everything they do, and I don't question that. As long as they are not hurting themself of anyone else, then i am all for the experience.

 

Matt

Tampa

[Guest shadow]

I was 21 when I first hired an escort and believe it or not, I did not realize that this was something it was believed that older guys did.

 

A few months earlier I was checking out gay porn on the internet for the first time. This was something that I didn't do too often because I was always afraid of being caught and having someone find out about my sexuality. Any way, some how a search engine lead me to a male escort site. I remember seeing hot looking guys and being totally amzed that you could actually be with these guys.

 

Any way, a few months later I was fortunate to have a good amount of money and privacy. I finally got the nerve to call up a guy from a newspaper ad who was 19. It took for ever for the guy to show up, and when he did, he was not exactly what I had expected. But the time when had together blew my mind. He even stayed until the next morning because he was too tired to leave that night.

 

Well, my reasoning for hiring an escort for the first time definitely went under the category of because I could.