Client preference: what he likes an escort to wear

[needhotdudes]

dear god... skip the brief boxes and other stuff... show up in a tight pair of black leather pants and lets get going. they will come off eventually

[Guest zipperzone]

>Some of you guys are truly high maintence....no wonder

>escorts charge some of you $400. The ultimate goal here is

>to eventually get the guy naked right? Relax on your

>clothese fantasy demands...jeez.

 

I disagree - totally.

 

Many of us who hire, do it in large part, for the fantacy. Sex with goodlooking guys can be had for free if you really try hard enough. But that often does not trigger all the right buttons.

 

If you have a preferance for a certain "costume" for lack of a better word, and are willing to pay premium bucks for that to be fulfilled, then you have evry right to expect the escort to show us as directed. If he can't - or won't - then he should have told you so when the appointment was made.

[whipped guy]

I have read over all the above comments and it is interesting that they range from “birthday suite” to “executive suite” and everything in between. It certainly reveals that we all have our fantasies and pet scenarios that might require a certain amount of “dressing up” or “lack there of” to be effective. Consequently, I can understand the need for various types of garb to act as an enhancement and to set and create a certain mood.

 

As for myself, I have been with any number of guys who are surprised that I don’t insist on having them wear the “time-honored” full leather outfit. Nonetheless, I personally prefer minimal attire. After all, as has been mentioned, the usual and ultimate goal is to get the guy out of his freaking clothes anyway… and, as I noted above, I myself prefer a lo-rise brief as a nice touch that leaves just enough to the imagination.

 

I was recently at a club where a guy was wearing his leather gear. Well, physically he did not do very much for me, and what turn on there was happened in part due to his leather attire. But shoot! If you were to remove the black pieces of animal pelt there would be little there to capture one’s attention… at least not my attention. To be fair, others in attendance certainly disagreed with my opinion regarding his physical attributes. So, “to each his own” as one might say.

 

Consequently, in the final analysis, while the clothing or even lack thereof can prove to be the “seasoning” that enhances an experience to develop into something out of the ordinary, it is the perfect amalgamation of the escort’s personality, skills, and physical attractiveness that ultimately will make or break the scene…

[Ethan]

I think the net, net of the whole thing is this:

 

1.) A clients needs are obviously client specific. It is up to the escort to make damn sure they can deliver what the client wants whether that is a dumb boy who doesn't talk pork chop, or an intelligent "boyfriend" evening. If the escort is not into what the client is asking, is it so much to ask that maybe the escort offer suggestions or assist in matching them more fittingly to a different escort?

 

2.) Some of us do make $250 - $500 an hour and have no shame in saying that we do. This isn't a job, it is a total lifestyle. My phone is on 24/7 / 365 except when with clients when I h ave live staff answer the phone to assist you. I travel 100% of the time and I fund my travel. Air, car, hotel about 300 days a year. My reality changes by the hour and sleep patterns have no resemblance to that of a normal person. If you are doing it, it is all encompassing. So yeah, i will gladly tell you that I make that much an hour but I can promise you this: I put all of it and then some back into my clients. Whether it be foundations to help my fellow escorts, or hotlines forhelp, I give back to the community. And with most escorts, you get what you pay for and everyone needs to realize that not every client & escort are a match and that is okay.

 

3.) Renting my love, I actaully genuinely chuckled at your comment because yeah ultiately that is why most of us are hired, most of the time. It reminded me of my old pre-escort slogan of, " Shut up and Fuck." I just wanted to say that I actually had warm and fuzzies for you. I know you love me to............

Anyway, just thought I would give my 2 cents.

[Justice]

I prefer briefs, but I'm o.k. with seeing guys either white briefs or white boxer briefs. Boxers do nothing for me. I'm turned off by thongs, bikinis, and jocks, etc. I'm especially turned of by guys who don't wear underwear.

 

I also enjoy seeing guys strip, so -- when I was hiring -- I always asked that the guys wear white briefs, a white t-shirt (undershirt), white socks, pants and a shirt. I got lucky, most of the guys that I hired were very accomodating. (An escort that I hired through an agency didn't wear the undershirt.)

 

I agree that some guys may not be able to accomodate specific underwear requests -- i.e., a lot of guys don't wear undershirts and some guys prefer one underwear style over another and may not be willing to buy something that they may never wear again. If a client expresses a preference for a specific type of underwear then the escort should indicate if he can't accomodate a particular request. That way they'll be no surprises and the client can make a decision to hire (or not to hire) based on the escort's underwear preference. (I like the suggestion that the client offer to buy some underwear if the escort indicates that he normally wears something other then what the client prefers.)

 

Just my $0.02.

 

Justice