Bondage, Pain, and Humiliation - A Beginner's Guide

[Doe Be Doe]

I've met this really nice guy that I like. He's smart and fun to be with. However, his deepest desire is to be objectified, humiliated, and to experience bondage and pain. I'm interested in doing all of this but I've never done it before. Is there a beginner's guide on how to do all this? 

[MikeThomas]

Maybe you guys should hire a BDSM top to show you different approaches. Could be fun.

[Thomas_Belgium]

6 hours ago, MikeThomas said:

Maybe you guys should hire a BDSM top to show you different approaches. Could be fun.

Indeed, very good idea, I would certainly try this.

[Doe Be Doe]

Good idea . Thanks!

[pubic_assistance]

There's a book "BDSM 101" which is the beginners guide to BDSM ...but reading a book isn't going to give you the experience you need for optimum psychological satisfaction.

I would suggest you attend a open play night at a dungeon  and see the various techniques first-hand. 

I agree with the above comments. Hiring an experienced DOM ( or even dominatrix) can give you pointers about the scene 

Edited March 19, 2023 by pubic_assistance

[Thomas_Belgium]

21 hours ago, Doe Be Doe said:

Good idea . Thanks!

If you had a session, could you keep us posted how it went please?