Escorts and Obese guys

[twinkboylover28]

I'm 31 but I look 50 ...since I'm obese.

 

I'm 6'3" tall and 350 pounds ..with an enormous pronounced beer belly.

 

I have 12 large stretch marks on my belly.

 

I dress well. I'm super clean and I'm conscientious on every possible hygeine issue.

 

I'm a large guy with size 16 shoes.

 

Will an escort have an issue with my 350 pounds of fat?

[JT Brooklyn]

Twink..State your "Stats" everytime you Contact Someone. There is No One Answer to your Question. I am sure you will find Many Guys who find your "Stats" Perfectly Acceptable. :+

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey Twinklover,

 

I feel kind of guilty because I am going to repeat what has been said before about this issue, but if you are asking again, it means thatyou still want to know.

 

First of all, as JT said, the most important thing (If you want to avoid ackward moments with unprepared twinks) let them know whenever you contact them. Simply mention your stats in your first contact, and if he proceeds with the rest it means that he will be okay. Some of our members in this board have expressed an opinion in the terms of "He is an escort, for God's sake, he better be prepared for everything, and treat me the same way as he would treat Brad Pitt", and even if theoretically I agree with that, I don't think that it is fair to pretend that those twinks are not human beings, and might be surprised, no matter how professional they might be.

 

So, step one: spare the surprise.

 

And step two... You mention that hygiene is not an issue. And I fully believe you. I just feel tempted to add some advise for other big guys out there that might read this thread. (If you don't mind)

 

I have a few big clients, and I must say that I like them very much. For me weight is not an issue. However now and then I have found the same situation; After a certain amount of pounds, it becomes very difficult to reach some parts of your body. That hinders one's ability to clean oneself. I would just remind big guys to througly and repeatedly shampoo the groint area, massaging the skin, and rinsing thorougly. It is also important to soap between every fold on your skin. I find it that sometimes sweat can accumulate there and wreck a perfect otherwise personal hygiene. Lastly, if you have any skin dryness, or any condition related with weight, make sure you moisturize it, and leave it looking healthy and smooth. (But of course, all this advise is good for everyone getting ready for an intimate encounter.)

 

I don't know if this is step three... but...

 

Step three.

 

As I said before, I like a lot many of my big clients. However, three of my most demanding experiences with clients in the past have been with big guys. Since the moment I got there, they wanted me to carry them, fuck them against the wall being supported only by my cock, throw them around as if they were gracile ballerinas, flip them over and make them fly... or simply yell: "Hold my legs there while you fuck me!" ;( ;( Needless to say I had to stop those sessions and communicate what was hapenning. Two of them looked at me mistyfied and just mumbled: "I thought you were a strong guy... but if it is too much, let's do whatever is comfortable for both of us."

 

My advise would be to be fully aware of the limitations that you both have to move and choose activities that are going to be comfortable yet fulfilling for both. Ask him if he is comfortable, ask him if the position is ok for him... and so on. If you create an open bond of communication with your escort and both of you feel comfortable, I can assure you that he will be thrilled to go back to visit you whenever you want.

 

I am a bit nervous posting this, because I know how people might be prone to crityzise this as an attack and so and so, but I do believe that after all, this is still the ask an escort section.

 

I am sure that you will find lots of really hot twinks that will be thrilled to spend some time with you.

[flguy]

Thanks for the great response Juan, I was at 300 pounds at one time and new to this, your response is the kind I was looking for at that time. Honest!! An encounter is only as successful as BOTH people make it. Communication is the absolute key. Go for it TwinkBoy, and see you soon Anton!!

[Juan Vancouver]

I agree, real fun can only be had when both parts are engaged and enjoying.

 

Yummie!

[JT Brooklyn]

Twink..Glad to see, you did get 2 replies from 2 very "Upfront" Workin Guys.. I was going to mention the fact that your Question about Obesity, might not be answered by to many guys, because they simply did not want to get into a "Why don't you do this or that" Discussion! Being Upfront is the most Important thing on Initial Contact, Period. That's why email will always lead to a better Hook Up, rather than a 60 second Phone Call. IMHO of course. :+

[sashek]

Hi Twinklover - good posting! Juan and Anton make some very good points - communication with your escort is always the key. Also, as far as the hygiene question is concerned - I'd say to make this as much fun as possible. Why not ask your escort to shower with you at the start of your session? Nothing's hotter (in my opinion) than lathering one another up!

 

I'm overweight myself, and I was turned down by one escort because of my size. It bothered me a bit at the time, but I had a great session with the guy I hired instead, so it all turned out well. If you're into much younger escorts, you might occasionally find some who aren't yet professional enough to "handle" oversized clients like us, but guys like Juan and Anton more than make up for the inexperienced escorts.

 

And Juan - I'm still hoping to get out to Vancouver to see you!

 

Sashek

[BigD]

I am always reluctant to answer in the "Ask an Escort" forum,

but the responses from the escorts, and some clients, have been

excellent and I just want to join in. I too am a big man, and

by that I mean obese, but I am very meticulous about my hygene.

Juan correctly pointed out that large man may have difficulty in

reaching all parts of their body, but that is why they make such

excelent bath brushes, some with 12 - 18 inch handles. There is

no excuse for not being clean.

As for giving advance notice to the escort about your size: Of

course you should tell them. Why put yourself through rejection.

I am always very candid in these conversations. Yes, it will be

a total turn off to some, but I have not gone wanting here. There

are some escorts who truly are not bothered by your body size.

My experience has shown that the more times you meet with the escort

the more accustomed they become. It is a profesional relationship

between the escort and client, but we bring our humanness with us.

And that is a good thing.

[twinkboylover28]

Thanks for the replies!

 

I will be upfront about my size now on ;-)

 

I'm 6"3 tall and I'm told that I carry my 350 pounds "well." I also dress well to help "hide the fat."

 

I'm trying to lose weight and get myself into a structured excercise program where I will be "forced" to go "every Wednesday at 8am."

 

I'm also cutting out my soda pop intake and replacing it with water, and increasing my fruit and vegetable consumption.

 

I wish I was 200 pounds; however, some people still consider 200 pounds to be "Fat."

[Juan Vancouver]

Not only for big guys...

 

Hey Twinklover,

 

Ever since I wrote my original review I have been wanting to add something else.

 

Even if this specific issue is not exclusive to big guys, my personal experience is that I have found this problem in big guys (Or in extremely thin people) much more often than in average sized people.

 

This is good advice (I believe) not only when one is going to meet an escort. It is a good way to prepare for any lover, or even any social ocassion. My advice is simple:

 

Never show up with an empty stomach.

 

Ever.

 

We all remember that bitter-sweet flavour in our mouths in the morning, after a long time of sleep... We all remember that gorgeous hunk that we slept with, but when he said "Good morning" with that groggy voice, we had to hold our breath because his breath was not as sexy as the rest...

 

Stomach acids are not a nice thing to smell.

 

Add this to the fact that we know that flossing is not recommended immediately before any sexual contact, and the result is that many (many) people believe that it is best not to floss nor brush your teeth hours prior to an encounter. I have met people who have told me: "If two hours are a good precaution, SEVEN HOURS MUST WORK BETTER!!" (Sadly enough I am not joking.)

One very concerned gentleman even shared with me his personal belief that mouthwash had the secret side effect to create tears and little wounds in his mouth, through which he could contract all sort of abominably horrible diseases.

 

I have asked a few dentists and doctors about what is the safe threshold when it comes to oral hygiene, and the consensus seems to be that it is absolutely safe to thorougly floss and brush your teeth between one hour and one hour and a half before your encounter. (Gums seem to be a fast-healing tissue.)

 

So, the safe way to get ready for a hot session might be this:

 

Have a nice full meal two or two and a half hours before your meeting...

 

Thorougly floss and brush your teeth one hour and a half before.

 

Have a small snack ten minutes before your session, either a piece of bread to absorb the acid, or a non-acidic piece of fruit... or yogurt...

 

Use non-alcoholic mouthwash several times until you are sure that there is no flavour left in your mouth. (Some believe that alcoholic moutwash is good AFTER a session for killing any kind of possible germs)

 

And even after so much work, if your escort/lover/friend/client/relative smiles and offers a mint/piece-of-gum/licorice/a-glass-of-listerine, kindly say "Yes, thanks" and stoically put it in your mouth. The only better option is to have a huge stack of peppermint candy in your right pocket. (On inside your g-string pouch, if you are close to naked.)

 

I am sharing this not because I think people must do this or that, I just believe that making sure that our breath is fresh will always allow us to more fully enjoy our life, either during sex, work, or simply just having fun.

 

(And yes, sometimes we dont always have a good friend to let us know that our breath is really bad, so it is better to do whatever we can do to prevent it ourselves.)

 

Happy (FRENCH) kissing!!! :P

[Guest LatinoRican]

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