New client "how to?"

[jasne]

I often wondered, from an escort's point of view, what they would like to know about a prospective client prior to meeting. I know it is sometimes difficult to discuss meeting content but when you have limited time and want to plan, what is the best way to get to the "comfort point" so that you can speak openly and honest and feel relatively relaxed about planning your meeting. Through your experiences, you have probably developed a mental checklist of things that are "good to know." Thanks

 

J

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey Jasne,

 

I am glad that you asked.

 

This is a question that seems so evident for some of us, that nobody dares to ask.

 

In my case, the answer is really simple: The more one knows, the better.

 

I always try to laugh a little bit on the phone to defuse that oddnes of talking about one's likes, dislikes and secrets with a total stranger on the phone. There couldnt be a less comfortable situation.

However, I can assure you that knowing that you two are compatible, and are talking the same language, is the only thing that will ensure your entire satisfaction. After all, if you cannot talk about your sexuality with your escort of choice, who can you talk about it with?

 

When I began escorting I would be very polite and not ask any further questions if after my question of "what are you looking for?" they answered "I just want to have a nice time".

 

Very often, that kind of clients are fairly vanilla and one doesn't need any special preparation... however, sometimes hapenned that they were looking for something that demanded a very special skill, aa very precise tool, or certain physical "getting ready" without which fulfillment was impossible.

In those odd cases, the client's response often was "Oh... I thought you were always ready for everything."

 

Now, if I don't know what you are into, and what are your expectations, it is very likely that I wont accept the call. I much rather have a shy phonebuddy, than a dissatisfied and unfilfilled client.

 

To answer your question in few words, the things that I really need to know to feel comfortable with a booking are roughly this:

 

1 Your preferences, fantasies and expectations of our time together.

 

2 the lenght of the session that you have in mind.

 

3 The location of the appointment.

 

4 a land line phone number that matches the location

 

5 if you are in a hotel room, I want to be able to call the hotel, and confirm that you are indeed in that room.

 

6 that you agree with my fee and that you understand and agree with the nature of my services.

 

7 and lastly, I would really appreciateto know if there is anything that I should know.

(Once I got to the appointment, and when I knocked at the door, an elderly female nurse opened the door. When I told her that it perhaps was a mistake, she just signaled for me to follow her, and was lead to the bedroom in which a cute as hell twenty years old boy was lying with both legs fractured... Needless to say that it was a very umcomfortable experience, and I would have appreciated to know beforehand.)

 

When calling your escort, ask him if he can talk, (He could be at his baby brother's Barmitzvah) and if he says it is okay, just feel absolutely comfortable, be honest, be direct and remember that your chosen escort should be a professional ready to hear whatever you have to say. If he seems umcomfortable, keep shopping until you find one with whom you can be totallly open and feel at ease.

 

Good luck, and have fun!

[RomeTyson]

Very well put Juan... I go through a similar check list. In particular, it can feel like pulling teeth, trying to get clients to let me know what they really want. And I've also found that the clients I can laugh with are usually the best experiences!