Opinions wanted on the following

[Mac 100]

I visit New York twice a year and have been seeing the same guy who gives me a good massage and is a good top after the massage. My only complaint is this guy never cums although I have seen him 5 or 6 times over the past few years. He usually contacts me just before I am going to be in New York he contacted me 2 weeks ago re my forth coming visit and I requested he cum at the end of the session which he agreed to do.

 

We arranged to meet Sunday June 5th at 11.30pm as I was attending the Tony Awards which does not finish until 11pm.

 

I was back at my Hotel at 11.15(it is near Radio City ) and there was a knock on my door and the guy was in my room at 11.20pm.

 

I usually give him a small gift from England a Box of Chocaltes or some Biscuits(cookies) and we had a quick drink and then he was taking my shirt of and we ended up in bed with my having a very good massage.

 

As I have seen this guy several times I had spoken before about him coming to visit me here in England.As he is from Russia he wished to combine a trip to Russia with coming to the U.K. and I was only to pleased to pay his Air fare for the round trip.Plus would have paid him a fee but this was not discussed as things became more heated in bed.

 

We then got to him topping me and he came all over my chest which I really enjoyed.As per usual as soon as he had shot his load he was out of the bed and in the shower washing himself down.I would have liked a cuddle and to have been bought of myself.

 

After he had dried himslef of I said would he bring me of and he replied I should have cum when he did.Also I always keep him longer then the hour and it was time for him to be of.

 

I was so surprised I lost my errection and the guy picked up his money wished me a safe trip and was gone. I looked at my watch and it was 12.10 so he had not even been with me for the hour.

 

I must admit I have kept this young man 10 or even 15 minutes over his time in the past but am not the sort of guy to take advantage of people and as I have always seen him when I am in New York and we always have a glass of wine and a chat is this so wrong?

 

I realize these guys are in this as a business but as I have always seen this guy late of an evening (I go to the Theatre most evenings when in New York ) I hate this rushing out of the door imediately the session is over.often he does not even finish his wine.

 

I feel with him rushing of with out even getting me of is very un proffesional and will not see this guy again.

 

Can I have other coments please.

 

Mac

[Guest ChgoBoy]

Mac, your delema baffles me; First you say:

 

>My only complaint is this guy never cums although I

>have seen him 5 or 6 times over the past few years.

 

 

Then you say:

 

>As per usual as soon as he had shot his

>load he was out of the bed and in the shower washing himself

>down.

 

Which is it?

[Donnie]

>often he does not even

>finish his wine.

 

Dude, maybe he thinks your trying to get him drunk or tipsy so he'll stay longer for free. Is he right?

[JT Brooklyn]

IMHO..Try Setting something up at the "Beginning" of the evening instead of the "End" of the day.. Hanging with a Guy after his day is just about over, besides the fact he might of had "Previous Clients" and Shot already a few times, doesn't make for anything else but a Quickie! It's a get the "Client Off" Situation... You can't expect a guy "not to" have earlier Clients if you book with him Late at Night! Especially if you only Pay for 1 Hour! LOL :+

[woodlawn]

My only comment is that one cannot blame an escort for not living up to expectations unless one makes it quite clear to him what the expectations are. List everything he did NOT do that you expected him to do and then ask yourself whether in each case you made it clear that you expected that thing. There may be something you expected him to do because you believe it is "standard practice" for an escort or because it is something he has done for you in the past, but neither of those is a substitute for being clear with him what it is you expect.

[Guest Jesse Dane]

>My only comment is that one cannot blame an escort for not

>living up to expectations unless one makes it quite clear to

>him what the expectations are. List everything he did NOT do

>that you expected him to do and then ask yourself whether in

>each case you made it clear that you expected that thing.

>There may be something you expected him to do because you

>believe it is "standard practice" for an escort or because it

>is something he has done for you in the past, but neither of

>those is a substitute for being clear with him what it is you

>expect.

>

>

 

Very true!

 

Most of us always want to please our clients and try and do our best job. But when clients do not clearly communicate all that they want then it is very hard to give you what you want.

 

So yes, communication is key in everyone being happy!

[BobbyThompson]

Why did you see someone six times who has consistently disappointed you?

 

Chatter, wine, massage, fun time, etc.? It sounds like you're trying to cram several hours down into one. It practically took me an hour to read your post, let alone carry out all of those activities. Hire him for two hours and see if he's less terse.

 

If he's still cold and in a hurry, there are plenty of great escorts in NYC to choose from. Throw a rock (aim it at Jesse), and you'll be fine.

 

Bobby

http://www.AllAboutBobby.com

[Txpaytoplay]

I found your post puzzling as well. To follow up Chgboy question....What were you thinking? I think you are at fault here if you did not communicate your desires. But I will admit I think he is using you as well if you have been together that many times and he runs out on you. I find the longer I am with someone the longer they usually stay.

[noviceny]

Mac,

 

Definitely let this guy know what you want...I have thought that some things were a given (like the client cumming), but this is not so. Be specific and see what the deal is.

 

As for the rushing out, well that to me is strange after the amount of times you have seen him...I dont understand that at all, but I would voice my concerns

 

I saw the same guy twice (maybe three times) and after the first time felt really taken. He barely touched me although we had lengthy emails about what was agreed upon. He was the most friendly cool guy too. After asked him why he had reviews that spoke about his physical affection, he said that was reserved for more generous clients. I thought that maybe this is true cause the guys who wrote about him were reliable. Suffice it to say, that nothing changed the next two times

 

sometimes its just not worth it but ya gotta spell shit out

 

good luck man