INTRODUCTION

[Guest daricous]

At first of all allow me to thank you all for you input ,and share information in regards to hiring an escort and a BIG NIGHT.

After reviewing your first comments I decided to meet this escort to get to know him and explain in detail what I'm looking for and expecting from him.

 

After meeting him as a business prospect(professional comanion ship) I thought it would be nice to have some sort of small gift to apriciate for the time and wilingness of providing his service to me for the big night..

...this sound as a emotional attachement of the client to an escort but its not it probobly sound like it ,but this is the way I do business.When I hire someone or somebody to do the job for me ,I need 100% input, other wise deal is off... It may sound harsh but I'm a business man and I mean business.

 

as of big night I want to do it for myself to experiment other possibilites, it probably maybe one time event, or several depeneds

on how it will go...

 

 

Posting review about escort...

As a matter of that I think I'm hiring him not to judge him and his peformence in bed or other wise..but to spend some time which will be shared between 2 people only..

 

apologize so being formal ,but this is the way I am...

[mmk]

if this is a first time meeting I would not get a gift. How much are you paying this man? I would assume probably $200.00. In my opinion for an independent escort, that is enough, especially one that you have never been with before. The most I would do if the meeting is taking place at his house would be to bring a bottle of wine.

 

If the escort works through an agency, then give him a tip. He does not get the whole fee you are paying him and he would probably appreciate the money more than a gift.

 

If you do have recurring meeting with this escort, then I would suggest giving him a gift. After 4 or 5 meeting do I feel a gift would be appropriate. But let the escort know that the gift is just that and there are no strings attached. One escort told me that this client gave him a gift and then threw it in the escorts face that since he gave him a gift that the escort should provide a discount or a free session. That would be very tacky to do.

[Guest Thunderbuns]

>If you do have recurring meeting with this escort, then I

>would suggest giving him a gift. After 4 or 5 meeting do I

>feel a gift would be appropriate.

 

Haven't you got the whole thing backwards? It has always been my experience that in most business transaction it is the vendor who eventually gives a gift to the buyer to express his appreciation for the ongoing business.

 

You guys who think it is your obligation to tip or give presents are just plain delusional!

 

 

Thunderbuns

[Bilbo]

I think that you guys are missing the point. He isn't giving the gift for the sake of the escort. He's giving the gift for his own sake. It is part of the way he wants this thing to happen and as long as he knows what it means and what it doesn't, he should be perfectly safe and satisfied doing so. I hope he doesn't spend much on it, but then I am both half Scots and a man whose main job (producing children's theatre) has more emotional rewards than financial rewards.

[Guest Thunderbuns]

>I think that you guys are missing the point. He isn't giving

>the gift for the sake of the escort. He's giving the gift

>for his own sake.

 

Oh - OK

Thunderbuns

[CT Dick]

>Posting review about escort...

>As a matter of that I think I'm hiring him not to judge him

>and his peformence in bed or other wise..but to spend some

>time which will be shared between 2 people only..

 

Dear Dar,

 

Most of us don't hire an escort "to judge him." We do it to spend time with someone, as you do.

We write the reviews so that people like you can have some idea whether they are hiring a quality sex worker of a scam artist.

 

Dick

[Bilbo]

Dear Dar, Do you mean to say that you met with the escort in person just to arrange the later session? That is extremely not the way it is usually done and seems to me to be an intrusion on the escort's time. I do hope that you paid him for the interview, though not, I would guess, what you will be paying him for the session. I certainly wouldn't want "free estimates" meetings to become SOP.