Ending the client/escort relationship

[Guest lipstick]

Folks,

 

After seeing a great escort every month for about a year now, it looks like our business arrangement will be ending. It may be interesting to note that in my case, it's the escort who has essentially broached the idea of initiating the termination.

 

The question I have for the escorts is: Have YOU ever initiated a termination with a long term client (of a year or more), and if so, what was your basis for it?

 

In my case, he said that it was becoming more and more difficult for him to keep sexually interested in our sessions, which were mostly overnighters. Fair enough.

 

Though I know escorting is a business, it still hurts when something like the ending of a relationship, even an escort one, ends. I'd be interested in getting some idea of how often these things occur. I guess there's the fun and somewhat glamorous part of escorts and escorting, but there's also some human emotions involved too.

 

Thanks.

[mmk]

out of curiosity did the escort give the reason why he wants to cancel his relationship with you? I cannot understand why he would want to sever a line of income. Is he quitting the escort business? Is he moving to another city? Did you stop using deoderant? (Just kidding-let's hope not though) That would be like the person who cuts your hair saying they do not want your business anymore (Actually it would be worse-there are dozens of good escorts out there but a good hairdresser is hard to find. Yikes!)

[Guest lipstick]

>out of curiosity did the escort give the reason why he wants

>to cancel his relationship with you?

 

I think it's the situation where the sexual excitement is wearing off for him. I am fairly vanilla, and the cuddling and other intimacy is more important for me, so I tend to, as he put it, "stop and start." If we were a regular couple, then I'm sure we would have tried to work things out in the sex department, but it's a business arrangement, so it's understandable how any problems were not broached earlier. So even though escorts are service providers, I think, as in the context of my situation, some escorts do have to consider how satisfying the sessions are for THEM also. And I would never argue with that reason. So I wanted to know what other types of situations occur to cause the terminations of these longer term associations.

 

And definitely, GOOD hairdressers ARE hard to find!!!

[Guest Willy]

I think that, at least while they are in the business, escorts are the type of people who need to move from one person to the next. Sounds like your situation started to resemble a type of monogamy, or if that's not the right word then a level of familiarity that was turning into a settled relationship.

 

I wouldn't take this escort's actions personally, nor would I question him too closely. He's just moving on, and so should you.

[bootdad]

My anecdotel research identifies two types of clients. Those who see an escort a few times a year (...because they are in a relationship,bi-sexual, married, travel on business, are curious or lack the $$$ to engage more freguently) and those who use the services of an escort regularly (I qualify this as once a month or more). I am of the latter.

During the past 15 years I have easily experienced the pleasures of more than 100 escorts in three continents. I have also maintained a variety of long term relationships with 4 different escorts during that time frame as well. The first threee had been on at least 3 vacations or more with me, as well as many (at least 5-6 each year) overnights in my playroom.

# 1 - for 2.5 years, I had to break it off - he abused the relationship by stealing from me, I suspect because he felt trapped by the relationship, but was too submissive to end it on any other level.

# 2 - for 2 years, he broke it off - because he said he could not continue having sex as we were to intimate and familiar with each other on to many other level - I still don't completely comprehend that one ?

# 3 - for 3 years, he was exceptional, hung like a horse / always rock hard, could be corporate, the theatre or the ultimate leather clad fisting bottom - we had sex in some rather amazing places from hotels, my home, vacation villas and public space during that time - this relationship ended because he had trouble continuing the relationship with someone who 'respected' him, had I known I would have continued to abuse him (respecting his limitations) and treat him like the pig he really wanted to be - miss that boy!!!

# 4 - now just passing the one year mark - he is rather vanilla, but a BOY (even though is just turned 25) of beauty, with an extraordinary piece of cock - I am worried I may end this one by virtue of his relative innocense - eventhough he could be a poster boy for A+F (CHRIST - I am an unreasonable demanding SOB with high expectations / but then so are my clients !!!)

So - why do client / escort relationship end - for a myriad of reasons, and I suspect no two are identical.

[Guest Blink]

Unless he stops doing my laundry, I will never end a relationship with an escort! Never!

 

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