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9 hours ago, Texan4Fun said:

Pics are accurate. He seemed disinterested during the time and as soon as I finished he was on his iPad, which was before the time was up. Wouldn’t see him again 

Good to know. He’s coming to Seattle and I was interested and then got a canned response with his calendar. Sorry, that’s not something I’m interested in filling out.

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3 hours ago, Pensant said:

Good to know. He’s coming to Seattle and I was interested and then got a canned response with his calendar. Sorry, that’s not something I’m interested in filling out.

I filled out the calendar link and followed up with a text, back in June.  I never heard anything back besides an auto response so I cancelled. 

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1 minute ago, Jostar said:

I actually seen him the first time was awesome. But the second time was terrible. When he was bottoming he kept stopping to go to the bathroom two times to look at his phone. Spend in the bathroom like 20 minutes. I don't know what change in him but won't be seeing him for a third 

Thanks! Sure glad I bumped this one. He was on my list. No longer.

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Hi! I first would like to thank you all for contributing your time and resources to the industry. My name is Jake, and I have context/rebuttals to some of the comments previously made.

-I changed my handle/username because I filmed a scene with Cade Maddox last week and did not want to advertise a phrase for titling and name recognition purposes.
-I am sorry that my communication and relay strategies seem impersonal. Even worse, ineffective and wasteful of your time. I have my calendly listed strictly for streamlining the process for both parties. I try my best to touch base as soon as I receive notification that an event was scheduled, but outstanding obligations sometimes limit my ability to do so. I also have severe ADHD, making forgetfulness something I am constantly developing strategies to abate. I am eliminating the scheduling platform in hopes that it will overall better suit everyone and encourage more direct communication.
-If I ever seem disinterested/nonchalant/preoccupied, PLEASE lightly mention it in the moment. I am likely not conscious of what I was doing or that I am coming across as such. Whether my distraction is due to a nervous habit or purely accidental, I never intend on using a clients time for anything other than what they sought out. I am extremely easy going, forward, and respectful but confrontation does not bother me. ----Regardless, to anyone who felt as if I were trying to be elsewhere while we were together I sincerely apologize and wish I could respond in a more personal and specific context to each scenario.

I am not trying to excuse any moments/instances of unprofessionalism, and lack of attention to detail. I try my best to run this as if it were a growing small business, so if I ever don't respond, or if I seem short, please do not hesitate to reach out again. I promise that I will be respectful and respond as soon as I can. Thanks for taking the time to read this, again no excuses,  just trying to give dimension to the picture being painted.

xx Jake 

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29 minutes ago, jakethecakexxx said:

Hi! I first would like to thank you all for contributing your time and resources to the industry. My name is Jake, and I have context/rebuttals to some of the comments previously made.

-I changed my handle/username because I filmed a scene with Cade Maddox last week and did not want to advertise a phrase for titling and name recognition purposes.
-I am sorry that my communication and relay strategies seem impersonal. Even worse, ineffective and wasteful of your time. I have my calendly listed strictly for streamlining the process for both parties. I try my best to touch base as soon as I receive notification that an event was scheduled, but outstanding obligations sometimes limit my ability to do so. I also have severe ADHD, making forgetfulness something I am constantly developing strategies to abate. I am eliminating the scheduling platform in hopes that it will overall better suit everyone and encourage more direct communication.
-If I ever seem disinterested/nonchalant/preoccupied, PLEASE lightly mention it in the moment. I am likely not conscious of what I was doing or that I am coming across as such. Whether my distraction is due to a nervous habit or purely accidental, I never intend on using a clients time for anything other than what they sought out. I am extremely easy going, forward, and respectful but confrontation does not bother me. ----Regardless, to anyone who felt as if I were trying to be elsewhere while we were together I sincerely apologize and wish I could respond in a more personal and specific context to each scenario.

I am not trying to excuse any moments/instances of unprofessionalism, and lack of attention to detail. I try my best to run this as if it were a growing small business, so if I ever don't respond, or if I seem short, please do not hesitate to reach out again. I promise that I will be respectful and respond as soon as I can. Thanks for taking the time to read this, again no excuses,  just trying to give dimension to the picture being painted.

xx Jake 

@jakethecakexxx I give you props for coming on here and chiming in.  All the best!

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3 hours ago, jakethecakexxx said:

Hi! I first would like to thank you all for contributing your time and resources to the industry. My name is Jake, and I have context/rebuttals to some of the comments previously made.

-I changed my handle/username because I filmed a scene with Cade Maddox last week and did not want to advertise a phrase for titling and name recognition purposes.
-I am sorry that my communication and relay strategies seem impersonal. Even worse, ineffective and wasteful of your time. I have my calendly listed strictly for streamlining the process for both parties. I try my best to touch base as soon as I receive notification that an event was scheduled, but outstanding obligations sometimes limit my ability to do so. I also have severe ADHD, making forgetfulness something I am constantly developing strategies to abate. I am eliminating the scheduling platform in hopes that it will overall better suit everyone and encourage more direct communication.
-If I ever seem disinterested/nonchalant/preoccupied, PLEASE lightly mention it in the moment. I am likely not conscious of what I was doing or that I am coming across as such. Whether my distraction is due to a nervous habit or purely accidental, I never intend on using a clients time for anything other than what they sought out. I am extremely easy going, forward, and respectful but confrontation does not bother me. ----Regardless, to anyone who felt as if I were trying to be elsewhere while we were together I sincerely apologize and wish I could respond in a more personal and specific context to each scenario.

I am not trying to excuse any moments/instances of unprofessionalism, and lack of attention to detail. I try my best to run this as if it were a growing small business, so if I ever don't respond, or if I seem short, please do not hesitate to reach out again. I promise that I will be respectful and respond as soon as I can. Thanks for taking the time to read this, again no excuses,  just trying to give dimension to the picture being painted.

xx Jake 

An excellent response Jake. Thanks for taking the time.

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