I have to say something...

[Rick M]

About an experience I had last night. I will not name the name since I don't like criticizing a person for failure when I don't know the cause of that failure. So, I will refer to him as Somebody, and leave it at that.

I had an inkling that Somebody lacked organization by the delays in communication and forgetfulness as to preferences. When I arrived for my appointment, he was ready to give me a generic massage, not the whoop-de-doo I had requested. That matter settled, he shifted gears, but I could tell from the start that he would not be performing much (if at all); moreover, his mind seemed to be elsewhere. I wondered if perhaps he was on drugs, but later, as we were wrapping up, he exhibited clarity and responsiveness. Maybe he had had a taxing day? In any case the circus, despite the promises, never made it to my town. I was a bit miffed that he did not offer to cut the rate, seeing as not only had the program changed, but the time spent together did not come close to the time reserved. With other professionals I've met, when failure occurred, they refused remuneration. Sure, Somebody's body was pleasant to look at, but I wanted full tactile involvement, not just the glossy brochure.

[JamesMorris]

It contradicts the purpose of this group by not sharing a name to avoid being taken advantage of.

Sorry for your bad experience

[MrMattBig]

Some say yes just to close the deal and never deliver in person. I have had the same experiences hiring women for particular interests (performing oral and then and receiving watersports from them).

I have received a yes to my request and then in person didn't let my mouth even get close and failed to drink up or even flat out dehydrated. I think it's because money is the first thought. With my experiences they seemed nice enough to not be a blatant scam, but completely lacked any sense of pride in their work to deliver the experience I was looking for.

[Rick M]

It contradicts the purpose of this group by not sharing a name to avoid being taken advantage of.

Sorry for your bad experience

Judging from past comments here and elsewhere, others' experiences have varied (including the positive).

[Wanderoz]

About an experience I had last night. I will not name the name since I don't like criticizing a person for failure when I don't know the cause of that failure. So, I will refer to him as Somebody, and leave it at that.

I had an inkling that Somebody lacked organization by the delays in communication and forgetfulness as to preferences. When I arrived for my appointment, he was ready to give me a generic massage, not the whoop-de-doo I had requested. That matter settled, he shifted gears, but I could tell from the start that he would not be performing much (if at all); moreover, his mind seemed to be elsewhere. I wondered if perhaps he was on drugs, but later, as we were wrapping up, he exhibited clarity and responsiveness. Maybe he had had a taxing day? In any case the circus, despite the promises, never made it to my town. I was a bit miffed that he did not offer to cut the rate, seeing as not only had the program changed, but the time spent together did not come close to the time reserved. With other professionals I've met, when failure occurred, they refused remuneration. Sure, Somebody's body was pleasant to look at, but I wanted full tactile involvement, not just the glossy brochure.

You should read the info at this link to learn about how some of these guys work & work it!

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/serge-serrge-of-nyc-now-in-dc.153664/#post-1818391

[+ Seaninsf]

... "the circus never made it to my town". Love that expression, @Rick M. Thanks for the laugh - but, obviously, sorry you didn't receive the agreed upon services and had a disappointing experience.

 

I agree with @JamesMorris, you should call out bad actors by name.

[+ quoththeraven]

It contradicts the purpose of this group by not sharing a name to avoid being taken advantage of.

Sorry for your bad experience

For one thing, there is a rule against posting reviews here, where there is no vetting. Naming the name would probably constitute a review.

[Guy Fawkes]

Please don't encourage a user to violate the rules.

 

It contradicts the purpose of this group by not sharing a name to avoid being taken advantage of.

Sorry for your bad experience

[rvwnsd]

If memory serves correctly, there is a site where one can post reviews of escorts and massage therapists. Rumor has it the site is also accepting reviews of venues. You should check it out.

[+ ITakeItDeep]

So, I might be in the minority - but I work hard for my money, and expect others to do as well. In the same way that Rick "had an inkling" I get those to at the very beginning of a session and do not ignore it - I listen to my guy and stop the session and negotiate the fee down! I don't understand guys that pay for unsatisfactory service!