Tommy Defendi

[hornytwells]

Tommy (or someone pretending to be him) is currently on grindr in santa barbara. Claiming to be Tommy Defendi when asked but am curious if anyone has met him and can attest to his living in santa barbara. Am intrigued but would appreciate any input here or pvt.

[Lee_jeff]

He used to be in San Diego. Do not follow now

[hornytwells]

Ok thanks. Think it is actually

Him

[+ harey]

Is this guy escorting on Grindr or just hooking up? “Tommy” was always more high-end when escorting. Might be him, but I’d be surprised.

[Mo Mason]

I really wish he would return to escorting, and then visit Chicago like he used to.

[hornytwells]

Its definitely NOT him but a scammer trying to get you to hire him. But then he says he doesnt want cash but wants you to buy him gaming cards or some such scam. Dont know why these guys waste their time as its so obvious once they start that nonsense. Grindr does little or nothing when you report them tho....