where's Waldo

[vaurien]

I have a question about travel schedules in ads that list diverse locations during the same dates.

For example:

June 1- Sept 1, Palm Springs

June 1-Sept 1, St Louis

June 1 -Sept 1 San Francisco

June 1- Sept 1 Boston

June 1-Sept 1 Miami

 

I have contacted some of these guys and been told they will be near me at some date but either can't pin (pen?) them down or they cancel at the last minute.

As a working guy, with my clothes on, I need a few days to coordinate time off to travel to a larger city to meet them.

I can't really afford to fly someone in to me, which I'm not sure would be worth their time.

 

Why not just narrow dates and locations? I understand some leeway in a geographic location but zigzagging around makes me less inclined to make contact.

I make contact only when I am serious about an appointment.

[+ VictorPowers]

These guys are putting a bunch of cities down then gauging interest. I’d imagine they pick the best one then cancel all others. I think it’s a good way to be marked as a flake and piss of good clients trying to book.

[rvwnsd]

... I think it’s a good way to be marked as a flake and piss of good clients trying to book.

I agree with you. When I see dates like that it makes me think 1) RM's travel date bug is back, 2) the guy is a flake, or 3) the guy doesn't know where he will be (see #2). No matter what, I won't reply.

[+ bashful]

I get it that it's a tool to gauge the interest of clients in particular city before committing funds for airfare and hotels. They need to be sure the outlay will have financial benefits.

 

However, it gets tiresome to see an ad pop up when window shopping, and when you click on it, you see a list of six other cities during the same time frame. It doesn't surprise me anymore. Just wait to see what changes.

 

What becomes frustrating is when the ad later seems to have dates sorted out, and then a few days later, your city is pulled off the itinerary, and a new one is plugged into it's place. No point to contacting in advance.

Edited June 6, 2019 by bashful

[+ keroscenefire]

I do know that some guys have those multiple dates down and do actually intend to go to all of those locations but gauge interest to see how long they should spend in each city as part of the trip. https://rent.men/MikeGaite does this and when I met with him I asked him about it and he said that is exactly what he does. When I contacted him earlier in the year, Denver was listed just like all the cities he has listed now. And he very specifically told me when the days he was planning to be in Denver and sure enough we met during that time. With the high costs of hotels and airplane tickets, it only makes sense that some escorts would try to figure out the interest in the city to figure out how many days they should stay.

 

I would recommend contacting the guy if you're interested because he likely does intend to go to your city and having more interest will encourage him to stay longer.