HungMusclJock NYC

[newhudson]

 

He has great hands if you want a massage but I prefer to save more time for his other skills

[Andy2]

FWIW, the written (hidden) reviews on Rentmen are raves. One established reviewer after another praised him for the same reasons discussed above. He sounds A+

[Guest davebk]

He is a great guy - and a great one to please. He didn't get rough with me, even though I pushed for it some, but I bet he will come out of his shell a little and eventually get there. For now it was just pretty hot, steamy, vanilla sex.

[+ burtjohn]

I get that people like this guy. My problem is that he keeps setting up times to get together with me and then flakes out. I give up.

[queensboroboy]

I saw him two years ago and had a nice time. I dont remember his cock being that big as in the pictures on RM. Nice butt though.

[CuriousByNature]

Well, Im sorry to say my interactions online were not very positive... but I definitely acknowledge that I was part of the problem.

 

As someone who only started considering meeting anyone this past December, I began requesting access to a large number of providers' private galleries in order to get a better idea of who they were and whether I felt any sort of connection (I understand this may sound ridiculous or even pathetic to some of you who have never had issues with accepting intimacy, but I've never allowed myself to even consider the possibility of intimacy in my life).

 

Anyway, he kindly unlocked the gallery, but within a few days the gallery became locked again. When I went back to the profile some time later the photos were blurred and I immediately assumed I hadnt requested access, so I requested again. He kindly unlocked again, at which time I saw in the message history this was the second time, and I thanked him.

 

Unfortunately over the course of 6 weeks or so this happened yet again. Understandably, he messaged to ask if I was looking to arrange something or just looking at pictures. I apologized and assured him it was not about picture-seeking (I never imagined people do that), and that I was hoping to visit NYC and trying to determine who I might meet.

 

Well, that got a response of, 'good luck with that'. Thinking he was being sincere, I replied 'thanks' only to find out I was now blocked. Yes, I can be naive...

 

I only wish I had reviewed my message history to recall that I had already reached out to him more than once, because it was never my intention to waste his time or tick him off. So this was a good lesson learned. I completely understand why he thought I might not be serious but I had hoped my explanation would have been received as being sincere, because that is how it was given.

 

I almost withdrew from this board and from RM after this happened, but I can see how very kind many providers are in their posts here, so my hope - albeit somewhat diminished - goes on.

 

Maybe this guy would not have been a good choice for someone like me to meet anyway... but it looks like I'll never know one way or another ?

 

My advice to newbies is to be keenly aware not to take up the time of providers unnecessarily, since they likely have dozens and dozens of messages to review every day. And try to be understanding if you do not get quick responses.

 

And to providers who may be tempted to block someone, try to understand that the guy reaching out may simply be very new to any concept of intimacy, and may be quite nervous or even a bit neurotic about the possibility of this changing.

 

I don't really feel I have any right to be angry about being blocked, but I am disappointed. Mostly disappointed in myself for inadvertently wasting his time, especially since there is no way for me to let him know this.

 

I do hope that sharing this experience will help other newbies in particular, and I have no doubt that HungMusclJock will continue to create the great experiences he has clearly been able to give many of you

[DMICS]

 

and that I was hoping to visit NYC and trying to determine who I might meet.

 

Well, that got a response of, 'good luck with that'. Thinking he was being sincere, I replied 'thanks' only to find out I was now blocked. Yes, I can be naive...

 

 

Mentioning "hoping" and "who I might meet" pretty much shows you're not 100% serious and ready to meet ASAP or in the near future. So to him that looks like you're just a person wanting to see his private pics to see with no intentions of hiring. He probably blocked you right after. When it comes to providers, you'll definitely come across some that have zero tolerance for people with no intentions of meeting soon.

 

I was looking to hire HungMusclJock back in the summer and I had posted a thread on here mentioning him on my final short list of guys. I also did a private gallery request and sent him a message pretty much looking to book him. The message was read but the gallery wasn't unlocked. At the time I had a picture of myself on my RM profile, and personally I think he wasn't into "my kind".

 

Just to make sure I wasn't jumping the gun, I requested his private pics and sent a message to him on an alternate RM account I have. Not shocked, he unlocked and responding to my message with his rate etc promptly.

 

Ah well, not a positive experience with him.

[CuriousByNature]

Mentioning "hoping" and "who I might meet" pretty much shows you're not 100% serious and ready to meet ASAP or in the near future. So to him that looks like you're just a person wanting to see his private pics to see with no intentions of hiring. He probably blocked you right after. When it comes to providers, you'll definitely come across some that have zero tolerance for people with no intentions of meeting soon.

 

I was looking to hire HungMusclJock back in the summer and I had posted a thread on here mentioning him on my final short list of guys. I also did a private gallery request and sent him a message pretty much looking to book him. The message was read but the gallery wasn't unlocked. At the time I had a picture of myself on my RM profile, and personally I think he wasn't into "my kind".

 

Just to make sure I wasn't jumping the gun, I requested his private pics and sent a message to him on an alternate RM account I have. Not shocked, he unlocked and responding to my message with his rate etc promptly.

 

Ah well, not a positive experience with him.

 

Yes, I can see how my choice of words could cause him to think that. Thats a good point I hadnt considered...

[queensboroboy]

Mentioning "hoping" and "who I might meet" pretty much shows you're not 100% serious and ready to meet ASAP or in the near future. So to him that looks like you're just a person wanting to see his private pics to see with no intentions of hiring. He probably blocked you right after. When it comes to providers, you'll definitely come across some that have zero tolerance for people with no intentions of meeting soon.

 

I was looking to hire HungMusclJock back in the summer and I had posted a thread on here mentioning him on my final short list of guys. I also did a private gallery request and sent him a message pretty much looking to book him. The message was read but the gallery wasn't unlocked. At the time I had a picture of myself on my RM profile, and personally I think he wasn't into "my kind".

 

Just to make sure I wasn't jumping the gun, I requested his private pics and sent a message to him on an alternate RM account I have. Not shocked, he unlocked and responding to my message with his rate etc promptly.

 

Ah well, not a positive experience with him.

I met him once. It was ok experience. I was thinking of giving it a second try. May I ask why it wasn’t great for you?

[newhudson]

I met him once. It was ok experience. I was thinking of giving it a second try. May I ask why it wasn’t great for you?

They never met. He's upset because HMJ is only into older men (over 35 at least -it says this on his ad and he's pretty firm about it when I finally met him) and DMICs is in his 20s. But DMICs believes it has something to do with race, which is BS because I see HMJ regularly and he's nothing but sweet and a ton of fun.

[CuriousByNature]

They never met. He's upset because HMJ is only into older men (over 35 at least -it says this on his ad and he's pretty firm about it when I finally met him) and DMICs is in his 20s. But DMICs believes it has something to do with race, which is BS because I see HMJ regularly and he's nothing but sweet and a ton of fun.

Well that really is too bad for me then, because I haven't been under 35 for more than a decade... maybe it would have been okay to meet if I hadnt screwed it up... lol

[DMICS]

They never met. He's upset because HMJ is only into older men (over 35 at least -it says this on his ad and he's pretty firm about it when I finally met him) and DMICs is in his 20s. But DMICs believes it has something to do with race, which is BS because I see HMJ regularly and he's nothing but sweet and a ton of fun.

 

My age wasn't mentioned in either inquiry. But yeah, alright.

[drh71]

Just saw Jett after a while and damn he has put on a lot more muscle. Yum! And still one of the best kissers I've met.

[dutchal]

Just saw Jett after a while and damn he has put on a lot more muscle. Yum! And still one of the best kissers I've met.

Who's Jett?

[drh71]

Who's Jett?

HMJ's name......

[Jackrabbitslim]

I’ve also hired him and can confirm that he’s great

[Poincare]

I’d like to comment on “into older guys 35+ years old”...

 

damn, is 35 years old an acceptable cut off to define “older guys”. I guess it is.....where did the time go....bit I’M HERE!!!!

 

[former lurker]

I’d like to comment on “into older guys 35+ years old”...

 

damn, is 35 years old an acceptable cut off to define “older guys”. I guess it is.....where did the time go....bit I’M HERE!!!!

 

 

Love Elaine Stritch. I assume he means older than himself.

[nickNYC]

somebody have info=

[FunGuyUS]

met him recently

really enjoyed my time

very sexy and really nice guy

Edited October 29, 2020 by FunGuyUS

[Dchotasianguy]

He is terrific....met him several times....

[Cliff]

Saw him about a year ago. Incredibly friendly. Very eager to please. Great kisser. A kissing machine, actually. Kissing me from the minute I entered his apartment. Hungry for me. Tons of energy. Don’t remember his dick being as big as it looks in these pics but I do remember being satisfied. I also don’t think he’s as tall as 5’ 8” but who cares? Oh: Very dependable/punctual too. Hope that helps any fencesitters make a decision. ha ha

[Strafe13]

Saw him about a year ago. Incredibly friendly. Very eager to please. Great kisser. A kissing machine, actually. Kissing me from the minute I entered his apartment. Hungry for me. Tons of energy. Don’t remember his dick being as big as it looks in these pics but I do remember being satisfied. I also don’t think he’s as tall as 5’ 8” but who cares? Oh: Very dependable/punctual too. Hope that helps any fencesitters make a decision. ha ha

 

This was pretty much my experience with him as well. He was a bunch of fun.

[newhudson]

He’s back in the city this week and still the hungry kissing fucking machine I remembered. Even put on some more muscle too woof! So much fun yesterday. Go get em boys!

Edited November 4, 2020 by newhudson

[adventurous old guy]

Well that really is too bad for me then, because I haven't been under 35 for more than a decade... maybe it would have been okay to meet if I hadnt screwed it up... lol

If you still are interested in meeting him, I don't think it's too late to turn this around. You seem reasonable and articulate about what went wrong before. And he's both a good communicator and a nice enough guy that I think he'd give you a second chance. I once had to cancel with him very shortly before a date. I was literally in a cab on the way to his hotel when an event at work required me to immediately fire someone over the phone and then follow up with legal, etc. Our date turned into a meeting in his hotel lobby where I had phone in one ear, muted as I gave him an overview about what I was managing. He had a flight out so couldn't postpone. I took the high road and paid him the base fee agreed upon, so he knew I wasn't screwing with him. But I could tell, both then and in texts after, that he was empathetic and understanding, and he was fun and flirtatious in doing so. So extrapolating from that experience, I think you could take the high road, say I was hesitant then, I'm not now, and he'd agree to move forward. Its his business. And its not like you did anything that was terrible or really put him out, so there's not a whole lot to forgive. I'd just start with a mea culpa, be very clear about setting a date and enthusiastic in tone, so he knows your ambivalence is gone.

Edited November 5, 2020 by adventurous old guy