Fly Out or Fly In

[Doe Be Doe]

So you've read a review on this site and cannot wait to have model X. Alas you live in Miami and he lives in Seatlle or something like that. For the first visit would you fly out to him stay at the airport and have a two hour session or would you save yourself the travel trouble and take a risk by flying him to you?

[DaninWA]

Miami to Seattle for 2 hours of "companionship"? Find someone closer or wait until the escort is in your city.

[Epigonos]

I first faced this decision about three years ago. Since I am retired and enjoy traveling, for me, the solution was easy. I have made excursions to Tampa, Seattle, San Francisco, New York, Austin, and New Orleans to meet with escorts. Thus far this has worked well. I usually leave on a Thursday and return on a Monday. I, therefore, have an opportunity to do some sightseeing during the day, have an pleasant dinner with a guy and then a couple of hours of play time. By staying as long as I do, if things go well with the escort I'm seeing, we can arrange to meet a second time.

 

I currently travel twice a years with a guy I have been seeing for several years. We meet at some rather exotic location which reqire2 that we both must fly. I send him the money for his ticket and we usually fly separately - he lives in Northern California and I live in Southern California. Now I would NEVER do this kind of thing if I didn't know the escort well and trust him completely.

 

If I were still amongst the gainfully employed or didn't enjoy traveling it would make good sense to fly the guy to me. In the end it is whatever rocks your boat and works best for you.

[augustman]

I fly guys to me since I can not go to them. That said West to East is the worst. Direct flights take enough time but add a transfer and you are almost taking all day to travel. To be honest it almost has to be a two night stay for this to work. Now I have hired from the west, Juan and Kevin the last ones. But I do have one for October and he graciously agreed to leave at 6:45 AM. Not all guys will do that. Most fly in the night before and I meet them the following morning. Then I had two full days with them. Almost all guys give decent discount on the price for second night or weekend type trip. You might do slightly better to have the trip be in January, when Seattle is gloomy and the guy probably wants some sun. Just depends upon your budget.

 

Are you sure you can not find want you want from Northeast, at least same time zone

[ted]

For a first meeting always go to their city. Much cheaper usually. Even guys with great reviews, sometimes you click and sometimes you don't and its really hard to tell up front on the phone, at least for me. Nothing worse than 32 hours or more with somebody you're really not into. The first couple will go real fast, but the later ones can drag on forever. Fly to them and do an evening or overnight in a hotel before bringing them "home".

[JT Brooklyn]

ted..Exactly! Overnite's can be a real disaster.

Test drive's of 1-2 hours apparently always, seem to be the Best to do First!

 

Thinking with the Little Head, can definitely be a headache for the Big One!

No Matter how Hot the Photo's or email's are! Doesn't mean you will have the Required Chemistry for more than a Slam-Bam!

 

Only the High Roller's can afford this type of headache!

IMHO of course

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