411 on CjBlake in DC

[kcx202]

https://rent.men/CjBlake/

 

not much on him here, has anyone seen him

[DDad4ynger]

Curious as well

[BabyBoomer]

Haven't met Travis but met CJ and had a good time. He's better looking in person.

 

^^^The good.^^^

 

Thinking about hiring CJ this week, he stood me up already once .... Any recommendations ?

 

^^^The bad.^^^

 

~Boomer~

[+ WhamIAm]

More re "the bad" -- set up an appointment with him, during which he repeatedly made the point that he required first-time clients to order him an Uber in order to make sure they weren't "flakes," explaining he'd been stood up on outcalls in the past. NBD, I'd have offered an Uber anyway. All was confirmed, then sent him a text about an hour before our meet re where and when the Uber should be sent. **crickets** Texted again a half-hour before and 5 minutes before. *crickets* Pulled the plug about 5 minutes after scheduled appointment time. Never heard a word again. Just say no, or have a Plan B.

[GBoi]

TLDR: you just never know if they will show up

 

Something about this generation...

 

I didn’t have the problem with CJ ghosting me but I totally empathize with those to whom this has occurred. Just this past weekend I set aside an afternoon to meet a new person who I’ve always admired and who has recently started advertising. Scheduled three days beforehand and said I would confirm day of. Very friendly correspondence. The big day comes and I text in the morning to confirm. No word. An hour before another text. Nothing. I can see he’s logging in and out of his ad on RM. Later that evening I say I’d love to reschedule for the next day. He finally responds and we confirm a time. He shows up and I have a great time.

 

Second or third guy this year that I’ve given a second chance and have had a good time. Still seeing them when I get a chance.

[wooly]

TLDR: you just never know if they will show up

 

Something about this generation...

 

I didn’t have the problem with CJ ghosting me but I totally empathize with those to whom this has occurred. Just this past weekend I set aside an afternoon to meet a new person who I’ve always admired and who has recently started advertising. Scheduled three days beforehand and said I would confirm day of. Very friendly correspondence. The big day comes and I text in the morning to confirm. No word. An hour before another text. Nothing. I can see he’s logging in and out of his ad on RM. Later that evening I say I’d love to reschedule for the next day. He finally responds and we confirm a time. He shows up and I have a great time.

 

Second or third guy this year that I’ve given a second chance and have had a good time. Still seeing them when I get a chance.

 

Did you talk with him about the no-show, no-cancellation?

[GBoi]

Did you talk with him about the no-show, no-cancellation?

 

Only obliquely

[+ WhamIAm]

I didn’t have the problem with CJ ghosting me but I totally empathize with those to whom this has occurred. Just this past weekend I set aside an afternoon to meet a new person who I’ve always admired and who has recently started advertising. Scheduled three days beforehand and said I would confirm day of. Very friendly correspondence. The big day comes and I text in the morning to confirm. No word. An hour before another text. Nothing. I can see he’s logging in and out of his ad on RM. Later that evening I say I’d love to reschedule for the next day. He finally responds and we confirm a time. He shows up and I have a great time.

 

You're a better man than I. A no-show shows no respect for your time, especially with all the blather (rightfully so) by responsible guys about wasting theirs. Kills your ability to make other plans for the night (and, for me at least, wastes a perfectly good Cialis ). CJ's ghost was especially dickish after his emphasizing the point in our call beforehand and the Uber request. And, back when I was a naive baby client, I actually spent a fair amount of time worried the guy was unconscious in a ditch or something.

 

Glad your forgiving nature has led to good times. Me, I guess I hold grudges.