How do I ask ...

[+ jessmapex]

I love to rim! I can see a guy without touching the big D the whole time. But I need a butt! However I can't stand any unhygienic residue, strong smell etc. Usually when I meet a gay guy, a very clean encounter is almost guaranteed. But I have had some bad experience with str8ish, g4p type guys. No matter how hot the guy is, if it's unclean, I can't do it.

 

My question is how do I subtly ask a guy I am about to meet to be thoroughly clean there? Any specific keywords would you guys suggest so he gets the hint?

[+ 7829V]

Suggest taking a shower together

[+ StLouisOct]

I love to rim! I can see a guy without touching the big D the whole time. But I need a butt! However I can't stand any unhygienic residue, strong smell etc. Usually when I meet a gay guy, a very clean encounter is almost guaranteed. But I have had some bad experience with str8ish, g4p type guys. No matter how hot the guy is, if it's unclean, I can't do it.

 

My question is how do I subtly ask a guy I am about to meet to be thoroughly clean there? Any specific keywords would you guys suggest so he gets the hint?

You might include in your description of what you want something like, “I love to rim and I recently had an experience where an escort wasn’t thoroughly clean down there. I know you’re a pro so it won’t be an issue with you, but I wanted to mention it anyway.”

[biggerbilly]

Why hint? One of the perks of paying is you don’t have to beat around the bush.

[Cruiser7]

Just text in big bold capitalized letters:

 

“CLEAN YO ASS!”

 

But seriously, OP, I think saying something like “I absolutely love to rim a clean butt. Is that something you’d be OK with?”

 

If that was sent to me, I’d say to myself, “I better make sure I take precautions down there and am throrough before I meet this guy.” Of course, that’s no guarantee, especially if someone doesn’t know what “clean” (spotless) is, but it’s a polite way of iniating it.

 

I see people on Grindr who write that and I usually move along because maybe I’m coming from work and, while I’m generally hygienic as it is, if I’ve been working all day..well, you get the point.

[+ Pensant]

OTOH, some clients might prefer it a little sweaty.

[liubit]

OTOH, some clients might prefer it a little sweaty.

You are right, but there is a BIG difference between a male, musky smell and an unclean, shitty ass.

[+ jessmapex]

Thanks guys for funny and insightful responses.