Hi Soberguy.
I apologize for any past communication issues. During that time, I was constantly switching prepaid phones and using unreliable online numbers, which caused many messages to be missed on both ends.
Regarding the upsell—my goal is simply to start a clear conversation about expectations. I’m a massage therapist first; anything beyond therapeutic work is just optional. If someone is interested, they’re always informed upfront about what it includes and what it costs. Every therapist defines “sensual” differently, so transparency is important.
On sites like MasseurFinder, I can only list therapeutic rates. About half of my clients book therapeutic massage only, and I don’t believe they should pay the same as those wanting more. That’s why anything extra is separate and clearly explained early on. As far as fluctuations I used to adjust my rates based on the financial demographic of the area I was traveling through. I’m no longer doing this the rates stay the same.
‘thanks you for, your feedback I hope this clears things up a bit