Sixpack

1 hour ago, Lohengrin1979 said:

It's the masseurs prerogative as to whether he wants to be touched. He can provide an HE without being touched by the client. What next? Will you suggest this provider Ivan shouldn't dress a certain way? 

I've had masseurs "make a move" when all I wanted was a massage and I shut it down too, even though I was nude on the table. Boundaries, gentleman, boundaries.

Exactly boundaries, but Ivan violated the customers boundaries by focusing a ton on inner thighs.  So boundaries don't exist for Ivan.

you proved yourself wrong

1 hour ago, Redwine56 said:

Massaging on the inner thighs for an extended period is a certain trigger for arousal.  If the client was "feeling it" and at that point made a move toward the masseur (let's not call it groping), the masseur should not have been surprised.  If the masseur was not planning to handle the erection that he caused, then why didn't he move away from the inner thighs?  What's fair is fair.  Don't cause a flame if you can't put out the fire of desire.  😜

Clown massage. I wouldn't waste my time on this.

2 hours ago, Lohengrin1979 said:

The OP didn't feel weirded out. He felt misled because the provider was massaging on the inner thighs a lot then rejected his physical advance.

The provider is allowed to provide a sensual massage without wanting to be groped by a client. He wasn't giving a hand job to the client, He was providing sensual touch and establishing his boundaries. He'd allowed to do that. It's his business

If the OP doesn't like it, fine. But I'm not convinced it was deceptive on the part of the masseur.

The OP said he was wierded out.  Who are you to dispute his words. 

12 hours ago, sniper said:

Massaging the inner thigh isn't a violation when you are there for a full body massage. Penetration or rubbing the actual genitals is.

No one said it is as you are not quoting the OP.

the OP felt wielded out as  Ivan "spent a ton of time on my upper/inner thighs"

the OP felt wielded out. Why is the OP wrong that the masseur does not have the write to "spend ton of time on upper/inner thighs"

11 hours ago, JckBNimble said:

I've always been a fan of Ivan's. Hardly a "clown." He's a very good masseur and if he wants to offer someone any varying degree of extras, it should never be expected. He may not want certain clients to touch him or may have specific limits with what he's comfortable with depending on the client. It's totally up to him, and then it's totally up to you to decide how you want to react to that and you can reflect that interaction in your tip. On some occasions my masseur will tease me til I take things into my own hands. Others are more interactive, sure, but it is their place of business after all. 

So it's perfectly fine for the masseur to engage in weird behavior.  It's totally not ok for the masseur to be excessive on certain body parts without the clients consent.

What do you mean it's their place of business - so that gives them the right to violate others bodies and or desires. 

13 hours ago, DirtyHarry said:

He spent a ton of time on my upper/inner thighs, and after i turned over he basically went right to my upper inner thigh. Let's just say I 'made a move' and was immedietely told to stop. I'm perfectly fine with a legit massage with no extras, but I honestly don't know what he was going for. 

I hope you did not tip this clown.  He started wired behavior and you acted on it.  Stay away.

On 10/8/2022 at 4:43 PM, DirtyHarry said:

Just had a massage at NP with Ivan and there were some really weird mixed signals, as others have mentioned. I would definitely not go back to him.

Please elaborate on the wierd mixed signals

3 hours ago, Rkush said:

Anyone know of any places with ladyboy or cross dressers?  Any independent masseurs??   Thanks!! 

oo that would be sexy time.  Interested 

33 minutes ago, Bri said:

Any good recommendations? Haven’t been anywhere in awhile. Shame top man spa was only open for such a short time 

Top Men was good but way overpriced.  

16 hours ago, Redwine56 said:

I find that most spas open around 11 AM.  Pre-pandemic you would find that some advertised as 24-hour but I haven't seen that since then.  You may have to take a long lunch hour or plan to go after work.  

The places that involve little to no massage are open 24 hours.

On 9/29/2022 at 12:37 PM, Skurril said:

I guess you've never been to Thailand.

I have but I wound up with a ladyboy

2 hours ago, Link said:

Huh. What a limited worldview. 🤣

What do you mean. I guess when they are on their knees they are all small.

On 9/27/2022 at 9:11 AM, Skurril said:

Andy is the tall Thai guy?

Tall Thai guy 

seems like an oxymoron 

Is it still needed to wait 4 weeks. I just completed my 2nd monkeypox but I really want to get the new covid booster. It seems like there ids little to no accurate/known  information out there 

2 hours ago, CalosEmotillo said:

If you want well trained masseur, try Jack from Energy Spa.

August from 27 Spa (with the pre-appointment) is another best one.

Both are from Thailand with well trained in massage.

Jacks a pro but a bit too methodical

2 hours ago, CalosEmotillo said:

Have anyone experience with terrible masseur who is addicted to Cocaine and still high when providing service? I have recently come across one of them and it was terrible. Not sure why they spa owner still want to hire this kind of person. Drug user hooker!

Where 

18 hours ago, EVdude said:

I guess Leo is an unsung hero! Saw him for the first time since he moved East Men from 15th to 16th. Much nicer place, same strong and attentive Leo. 

Am I the only one who wants soft strokes and nothing strong,

3 hours ago, Intosmoothmuscles said:

Sixpack , you can check my other reviews. Nothing fishy here .  I just wanted to let everyone know that Leo gave a good massage and that he is older. I am not the only one who prefers mature guys .. It’s not easy to find an older in shape Asian masseur in the city . If anyone else knows of one please share . 
Thanks .

I am just surprised as why after many years has this places not been mentioned once in years

8 hours ago, jmkblnd1 said:

I went a few weeks ago and have been occasionally over the past few years. I believe I also had the owner. I thought he told me his name was Neil. Amazing massage if you like strong which I do, but I don't prefer older. Nice guy though. Other masseurs I've had though haven't been very memorable. 

So all of a sudden this place is getting attention 

smells fishy 

19 hours ago, Intosmoothmuscles said:

New East Men Spa

I just came  from a great strong massage by Leo (I believe the owner). The place is simple and easy to get to. It’s my first time at this location (open for 2 years already). I saw a couple of other masseurs sitting around . They were younger Asians in their 20s but I prefer older and Leo is just what I like . Mid 40s ok shape and masculine.

Interesting there have been no other reviews on this place.

15 minutes ago, LostinParadise said:

 

Energy Mens Spa on 23rd. Love me some Charlie.

I guess if you want a beyond horrible massage with extras.  

1 hour ago, Italiano said:

I guess you missed the thread where he said he "received a great 90 minutes massage from Michael Wang, the best masseur in Manhattan, and that he paid him great money"....

What he wrote here was ok, but with that fake statement he lost credibility to me.

 

Agreed he completely lied and now people take him seriously.  I would avoid this fraud.

3 hours ago, NYMassageAddict said:

Yes seems pretty obvious but I appreciate that he’s out here hustling and trying his best. A) he knows where this conversation takes place so he can know what people like and don’t like B) He knows that this world is very competitive and customers share stories. 

Yes, it’s a little tacky to pretend to be a reviewing customer but I’ll give him a pass. 
 

Correction: not pretty obvious, blatantly obvious, but oh well  

Give him a pass for posting fair reviews. Michael that’s poor 

3 hours ago, manmed said:

Your experience is based on your particular masseur. It may be premature for you to overgeneralize to the establishment.  I have had good, mediocre, and bad experiences, whether it be there or anywhere else.

Well his opinion should matter but you are right that experienced vary. You guys are making me hungry for some Asian meat.

5 hours ago, RBENJI said:

Yes gawd. 🙌🏿

 

Wow $500