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Just some thoughts and observations from my own personal experience....
I've hired on and off for over a decade.  I have found that I personally need a little 'chemistry' with someone to really 'get off'.  As such, I'm enjoy engaging with someone, usually over text or chat on RM, to get to know one another a bit - and I'm willing to compensate for that time.  Yes, it includes what we're both 'into', and can include any questions about actually meeting and anything that entails, but I also like to find what else we could enjoy together - food, movies, video games, theater, sexual fantasies, how to please each other.
I think many guys are surprised I'm willing to pay for chat given the very understandable attitude about endless chatting that leads to nothing or a provider who feels like they are being used for just sex talk.  I respect my possible provider's time is valuable and therefore I should be willing to invest in a lengthier discussion for a 'vibe check'.  Its led to more repeat situations and some longer term regulars.  
Just wanted to give you what my expectations would be if I was the one approaching you....
Have a rate, just for chatting - I don't think the same rate as actually meeting should apply because we can both multi-task and you can continue to be available to 'meet' with another client.  But if you're just hanging, and don't mind texting or messaging, I guess - why not?
I'm respectful of your time, please be respectful of mine - The biggest turn off is agreeing to chat, but then having to wait several minutes or hours or DAYS for a response - not cool - especially if I establish an expectation to be responsive and you agreed.  I also appreciate you have a life and others maybe approaching, but I don't think its a bad expectation that we can at least chat 20-30 minutes uninterrupted.  I'm not expecting instantaneous responses, but more than like 5 minutes can kill the vibe.  That being said - life happens - if you need to leave or I need to pause the chat for any reason, its cool.   It also doesn't mean it has to be a hard 'time allotment' either - I have a few guys that I text with often, and just shoot them something for some 'digital companionship'.
Given the likelihood of electronic funds transfer for chat... - Although I'm not super paranoid about sending something on something like CashApp, the digital world we live in is changing.  Visa walking away from RM is a perfect example.  Do you really need a CashApp name like "PoundYou4$$$"?  I made that up to be funny, but have had a couple that are similar.  May be a personal thing, but lets not make it obvious!
Don't make me do all the talking - Hopefully you feel comfortable enough to ask me questions.  Be engaging.  Take an interest.  I'm willing to invest to get to know you, but hoping you will want to get to know me.   
Certainly open to advice or suggestions, but thought I would share my experience!
 
Also wouldn't mind paying a provider I might want to hang with IRL to play video games with online - if you are out there, hit me up!  Will compensate you for playing time!

Just some thoughts and observations from my own personal experience....
I've hired on and off for over a decade.  I have found that I personally need a little 'chemistry' with someone to really 'get off'.  As such, I'm enjoy engaging with someone, usually over text or chat on RM, to get to know one another a bit - and I'm willing to compensate for that time.  Yes, it includes what we're both 'into', and can include any questions about actually meeting and anything that entails, but I also like to find what else we could enjoy together - food, movies, video games, theater, sexual fantasies, how to please each other.
I think many guys are surprised I'm willing to pay for chat given the very understandable attitude about endless chatting that leads to nothing or a provider who feels like they are being used for just sex talk.  I respect my possible provider's time is valuable and therefore I should be willing to invest in a lengthier discussion for a 'vibe check'.  Its led to more repeat situations and some longer term regulars.  
Just wanted to give you what my expectations would be if I was the one approaching you....
Have a rate, just for chatting - I don't think the same rate as actually meeting should apply because we can both multi-task and you can continue to be available to 'meet' with another client.  But if you're just hanging, and don't mind texting or messaging, I guess - why not?
I'm respectful of your time, please be respectful of mine - The biggest turn off is agreeing to chat, but then having to wait several minutes or hours or DAYS for a response - not cool - especially if I establish an expectation to be responsive and you agreed.  I also appreciate you have a life and others maybe approaching, but I don't think its a bad expectation that we can at least chat 20-30 minutes uninterrupted.  I'm not expecting instantaneous responses, but more than like 5 minutes can kill the vibe.  That being said - life happens - if you need to leave or I need to pause the chat for any reason, its cool.   It also doesn't mean it has to be a hard 'time allotment' either - I have a few guys that I text with often, and just shoot them something for some 'digital companionship'.
Given the likelihood of electronic funds transfer for chat... - Although I'm not super paranoid about sending something on something like CashApp, the digital world we live in is changing.  Visa walking away from RM is a perfect example.  Do you really need a CashApp name like "PoundYou4$$$"?  I made that up to be funny, but have had a couple that are similar.  May be a personal thing, but lets not make it obvious!
Don't make me do all the talking - Hopefully you feel comfortable enough to ask me questions.  Be engaging.  Take an interest.  I'm willing to invest to get to know you, but hoping you will want to get to know me.   
Certainly open to advice or suggestions, but thought I would share my experience!
 
Also wouldn't mind paying a provider I might want to hang with IRL to play video games with online - if you are out there, hit me up!  Will compensate you for playing time!

Just some thoughts and observations from my own personal experience....
I've hired on and off for over a decade.  I have found that I personally need a little 'chemistry' with someone to really 'get off'.  As such, I'm enjoy engaging with someone, usually over text or chat on RM, to get to know one another a bit - and I'm willing to compensate for that time.  Yes, it includes what we're both 'into', and can include any questions about actually meeting and anything that entails, but I also like to find what else we could enjoy together - food, movies, video games, theater, sexual fantasies, how to please each other.
I think many guys are surprised I'm willing to pay for chat given the very understandable attitude about endless chatting that leads to nothing or a provider who feels like they are being used for just sex talk.  I respect my possible provider's time is valuable and therefore I should be willing to invest in a lengthier discussion for a 'vibe check'.  Its led to more repeat situations and some longer term regulars.  
Just wanted to give you what my expectations would be if I was the one approaching you....
Have a rate, just for chatting - I don't think the same rate as actually meeting should apply because we can both multi-task and you can continue to be available to 'meet' with another client.  But if you're just hanging, and don't mind texting or messaging, I guess - why not?
I'm respectful of your time, please be respectful of mine - The biggest turn off is agreeing to chat, but then having to wait several minutes or hours or DAYS for a response - not cool - especially if I establish an expectation to be responsive and you agreed.  I also appreciate you have a life and others maybe approaching, but I don't think its a bad expectation that we can at least chat 20-30 minutes uninterrupted.  I'm not expecting instantaneous responses, but more than like 5 minutes can kill the vibe.  That being said - life happens - if you need to leave or I need to pause the chat for any reason, its cool.   It also doesn't mean it has to be a hard 'time allotment' either - I have a few guys that I text with often, and just shoot them something for some 'digital companionship'.
Given the likelihood of electronic funds transfer for chat... - Although I'm not super paranoid about sending something on something like CashApp, the digital world we live in is changing.  Visa walking away from RM is a perfect example.  Do you really need a CashApp name like "PoundYou4$$$"?  I made that up to be funny, but have had a couple that are similar.  May be a personal thing, but lets not make it obvious!
Don't make me do all the talking - Hopefully you feel comfortable enough to ask me questions.  Be engaging.  Take an interest.  I'm willing to invest to get to know you, but hoping you will want to get to know me.   
Certainly open to advice or suggestions, but thought I would share my experience!
 
Also wouldn't mind paying a provider I might want to hang with IRL to play video games with online - if you are out there, hit me up!  Will compensate you for playing time!

Classic all-American with a NYC edge.

Where do you find them?  And where do you find the time?  

I know I'm new, but when I saw him before COVID started.... he doesn't disappoint in the body or dick department.

Fantastic time.  Aggressive, great body, face and cock.
I was exclusive bottom with him.  Can't comment on his bottoming skills.
I read that other thread and agree with the assessment - I think he's definitely looking for a 'sugar daddy' arrangement.  He was enthusiastic and fun, but always felt he was probing me to see if I was capable of being 'more' than just a transactional client.  If only I was that wealthy because I would consider it with him.  <blush>
Message me if you have questions.

Equinox Hotel at Hudson Yards is new, sleek and very sexy.  Great beds.  Beautiful rooms and suites.
The Ludlow on the LES.  Great vibe, great bar downstairs.  Smaller suites, but in the middle of a street/neighborhood with amazing energy. 
Casa Cipriani.  While not a hopping neighborhood (FiDi), the suites have balconies with great river views.  Service is bueno.
Hotel on Rivington, LES.  They're still redoing some of the rooms, but for massive suites, great beds and a mostly glass room, it's got the sex appeal and vibe for getting frisky.  I've had a lot of fun sex in their terrace suite, owners suite and penthouse.  

Bumping this thread....
Looking to treat myself for a birthday.  Recommendations on Manhattan or Borough hotels with suites, preferably with a big shower or tub - two room suite or good layout - bed area, couch area?  Where sex wouldn't bring a manager knocking on the door.... LOL
I always think I'm going to want to have sex on the couch, but the damn bed is just so comfortable. Usually hang out for an all day session.... so nice to have hang out space.
I like W style.  Old Starwood. 
Stayed at Royalton crazy suite once - nice layout, horribly overused/dingy.  

Heading to Great Barrington tomorrow for a weed run.  
Trying to get more educated and enjoy it more.... I do love weed with sex.
Any advice on Sativa vs Indica vs Hybrids?  Bud vs Vapes vs Concentrates?  Edibles are cool but so risky because harder to gauge THC %s.
Definitely going to try the THC infused lube.... that sounds... amazing!

People don’t have to sympathize with the deceased, but premeditated murder is a crime. Period. Normalizing such behavior opens the door to future violence as a solution to injustice.
This isn’t just about one person or incident—it’s about how we, as a society, respond to systemic harm. Unethical practices, like using AI to deny life-saving claims, require legal action, not vigilantism.
Change through reform takes time—it’s frustrating! Always has been. Always will be. But, it’s the only way to create meaningful progress. We must demand accountability through the rule of law and address systemic failures. 
Justice must always be pursued within a legal framework to prevent further harm. I say that knowing the law doesn’t always get it right—but it’s the best system we have to ensure accountability and prevent chaos.

Is this confirmed?  Trying to find the earlier post that may say that.  I mean he looks like he could be given the attention he gives to his body, but he's also a bit of a 'nerd eccentric' and the younger set certainly are more body vain than older generations.

I didn't get the 'back' reference earlier.... but this is from his X.com page
 

I didn't get the 'back' reference earlier.... but this is from his X.com page
 

I didn't get the 'back' reference earlier.... but this is from his X.com page
 

I didn't get the 'back' reference earlier.... but this is from his X.com page
 

Yep.... He's the one I 'bought'.

Yep.... He's the one I 'bought'.

Totally bought one by the way.

Yep.... He's the one I 'bought'.