Many thanks to @TruHart1 and @big-n-tall for their input. It appears that Apollo has moved somewhat in my direction as way back when it was a total no go so it seems to be something that we will need to discuss.
Back in the day, "Nick" at Maximum Escirts was the S&M guy. However, on short notice when a guy cancelled on me due an injury that landed him in the hospital, I did hook up with "Colin" who had quite a following in the Forum at that point in time. While not a specialist Colin did agree to give things a shot and did reasonably well enough to get a nice review out of it. Logan aka Apollo was my first choice, but Stephen at Maximum quickly poured cold water on that.