Talk about ancient history as I reread the revival of this thread... but fast forward to 2018. Unlike so many many years ago I now feel quite comfortable playing the Dom. However, getting to the point of this thread... Excellent suggestion by @pubic_assistance!
Interestingly, and as I have posted previously in other threads, I met Kirk in NYC several years ago in a non- hire situation at the Bondage Club in NYC. He is about as knowledgeable as they come regarding BDSM and a nice guy to boot. . Here is his Rentmen link which should also give his current location as he does indeed toggle between NYC and Fort Lauderdale, FL:
https://rent.men/WhosNext
Kirk was a past Mr. Ramrod Fort Lauderdale. I recently met the current Mr. Ramrod in FL. He told me that Kirk was hanging up-side-down in his garage. With any luck he was just kidding. In all seriousness. Highly recommended when he is in either location.