While I don’t want this thread to morph into a BDSM thread that belongs in the Fetish Forum (been there and done that including discussing the pain/pleasure aspects). many guys indeed prefer a paddle to a bare hand. Still, my preferred instrument is a good ol’ fashion style leather flogger. The textures, strand thickness, and various hides offer so many possibilities. My favorite is bull which delivers a nice combination of sting and thud. Plus I love it when a boi can’t quite get enough! (Insert evil grin here!)
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