I wholeheartedly understand where one’s frustrations and skepticism stem from when making such a request to an escort and I don’t think the request is an unreasonable one but consider how many times we are contacted per day by providers who have no intention of booking and simply want to engage and then ghost. This makes up more than half of people who contact us.
I decline this request, not because I am a fraud (there are gentlemen on the forum who have met me and I would happily slide anyone the reference) but when I have 30 or so photos and 3 videos readily available for a client to review and they text me “pic?”’ or “send me a five finger whatever,” the answer is “absolutely not.” It’s not my responsibility to reassure someone of my credibility. It’s the client’s responsibility to be resourceful. And I mean this with all due respect, trust me. We have no way of confirming you are not an axe murderer or that you will be at the provided address, so why should we go out of our way?
And your argument can’t be “because there are a lot of fake ads.” My counter argument is “well, there are a lot of fake clients.” And here we are.
Edit: I’d like to reassert that I mean no harm, I think a healthy debate/conversation between client and provider are important..for perspective, if anything at all.
