I didn't think of it as stalking to check a member's profile to find out more about them if I enjoyed their posts,
and suggested meeting with a couple of them on neutral turf just for a platonic get-to-know-you-better.
I think it would be an invasion of their privacy for me to name names without permission, but if they recognize themselves, I would be honored by their acknowledging it [and grant my blanket permission!]
Friend of Sheila suggested group coffee low key events in San Francisco that I would have attended had I not had conflicting musical obligations ...