Imathrill

I’m visiting Salt Lake City next week. I found an escort I might be interested in keeping me company. After a few questions from me, he asked me for a photo of myself and my stats. Is this normal? I asked him if that determined his rate. He replied no, it determines his interest. I stupidly sent my info and photo to which he replied “nice” BUT shouldn’t my business his interest?! Am I wrong here?

I greatly appreciate you explaining your earlier remarks. At first I did feel personally attacked by your comments, but I whole-heartedly agree with you about therapy. It was through my therapist that I came to the decision that hiring an escort to fulfill a fantasy did not make me desperate or less than, and it will be through my therapist that I will work through the failed experience ? When I posted this, I was looking for a simple yes or no, but I’ve gained so much more knowledge about client expectations. I now believe my escort did everything right by me, possibly above and beyond. That already makes me feel much more at ease. I’m sure had I listened to him and stayed, we could have worked through it. However, just as he is human and could not finish the deed, I acted human and let my emotions take over in that moment. While it’s a shame he and I will probably never get to make up that session, I have removed my negative review, as I was getting several DMs about my review and I do not wish to cost him business. I’ll be seeing my favorite masseur this weekend and with time will start to seek out a new escort to live out my fantasy...with new expectations.

The bottom line was that he did not perform the service that was agreed upon and that’s why I addressed the $$$ and posted a review. You even said yourself in an earlier response that a review was the correct route! Please don’t ever try to “encourage” anyone ever again. It came off completely judgmental. I did want honest feedback. And I got it..negative and positive. But you were the only one that made assumptions about my psyche. I sought out an escort to fulfill a specific sexual fantasy. When it went sour, what I felt was completely unexpected, but I did not seek out an escort for affirmation. Nor, did I come here for affirmation. My original post was very simple...should he get paid? I wanted to know if I was way off asking for some back. I don’t wish him any ill will. I want to believe that he truly did have some physical discomfort, as it started out so well. Yes, I felt embarrassment, but it was my first time! I didn’t accuse him of not being attracted to me, like a provider has now mentioned. I only addressed the service that was not met and that’s all. According to most of the responses here, he acted professionally and I appreciate that. But don’t come at me for having an involuntary natural reaction to something that was out of my control. I did my best to act professional with him.

Was I supposed to stick around for another awkward 30 minutes after I had already tried to assist him to get it back? He did say I didn’t have to leave while I was already dressing but before that he did not offer the get me off in a different way after we could not get his erection back. Furthermore, I didn’t project anything onto him. I didn’t hold him responsible for what I was feeling. When I reached out to him I was clear that my disappointment was solely on the fact that he was not able to provide the service we had agreed upon and nothing else. I only shared about my embarrassment on this thread to be honest and not for you to try and evaluate me. Let’s leave that to a professional.

I guess it was naive of me, but I thought that this wouldn’t be an issue if I’m paying for it. I was very clear with him what I was looking for and he was very reassuring that he could deliver that.

Also, he did mention that I could leave a bad review and he’d have to deal with it. In the heat of my feelings, I did. He since then has changed his RM handle and blocked me.

I posted this from recent experience and wanted to get feedback. This was my first escort experience. I don’t have any trouble finding sex through buddies or Grindr, but I started getting massages that would turn into more and this started to thrill me. Eventually I thought, why not hire an escort that is really going to dominate me and is more attractive then any guy I could normally obtain? So I did my research, found someone I was incredibly attracted to, had great reviews, and a reasonable rate. I reached out to RM users that had rated him, they all said he was insatiable. I booked him almost a month in advance. It was going to be a great night. I drove from Orange County to LA. I arrive on time, he’s more handsome in person, in great shape. The session begins exactly how I imagine it would, and while we’re at the best part, he loses it from one position to the next. I tried to assist in any way I could but it wasn’t gonna happen. I immediately felt it was because of me. In my embarrassment I quickly started to dress. He said I didn’t have to leave but all I could hear was a pounding in my ears. I reached for the money in my pocket and place it somewhere, I can’t even remember, and let myself out. As I walked away all I could think was that I just paid to feel worse about myself. I understand this happens, and it’s happened to me as a top and a bttm, but I wasn’t paying or being paid then. I texted him my disappointment and he said he had a stomach bug earlier and it was still lingering. I asked for some of the money back, as it hadn’t even been 30 min and he returned half. From what I’ve been reading, he did the respectable thing but it didn’t feel that way at the time. The whole point of paying an escort was to leave there satisfied by this hot guy and not feeling humiliated and out $$$. While he could have been telling the truth, it ruined the whole escort experience for me. I think I’ll stick to Grindr and my favorite masseur.

An escort lost his erection in the middle of the session...should he still be paid?

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