The_Impeccable_G

Why is the number of followers so important to you? Less followers makes the guy less attractive? Say you are after an insta model with 100K followers and turns out only 10K are real. What does it matter to you?

What is this about? 5,10 or 20 dollars, like a tip to the waiter? I find it an insult to escorts and customers. And you thought it would be good for your mental health and to help the poor guy, to "maintain a bit of connection" until you meet next year, or the year after next, but certainly before the end of the decade... One thing I get from your post is that you need to take care of your mental health.

I am in my fifties. The last 10 years with a now 30yo bf/partner/soul mate. He is the oldest guy I have ever been. My taste has slightly changed. The older I get the younger I like.

And since we are in sartorialist territory, loafers are better worn without. And white socks only in gym.

Absolutely not. Tod's + socks = faux pas

Well it is a matter of taste. I don't like masculine guys.

I am European half based in Dubai for almost 10 years. Be careful. Don't be paranoid, just careful. Most of the ads are from escorts who are not there. Just testing the waters.

I am not sure I understand the subject, but a friend used to say, if you want to be fucked, go with the least masculine guy.

500K is completely out of my league, but I have two at a much lower affordable price bracket. I consider them pieces of art and most importantly I enjoy wearing them. One is a classic and classy Rolex, graduation present from my father. The other one, again a Rolex, is a large gold and green watch, completely not my usual style, but love at the first sight. It is like a piece of jewelry. I make sure to wear it only with t-shirts and jeans, never with jackets and suits. A good friend says it's my F**k You Rolex.

Go To Market

Since we have here a 79 pages study on SA, let me add one more dimension. SA is not the only channel to pursue this type of relationship.There are other GTM channels to reach this market. ?

And from the US and from down under.. I wish I could post some photos from Milan last year.

de gustibus... I prefer the fashion model tribe. The talll skinny ones with faces to die for. I go to Milan every year for a few days before male fashion weeks, when's there are hundreds of them casting. For the price conscious, they ask for nothing. Just drinks at the bar of the Principe di Savoia.

Others may have different experiences. It depends on who we are after.

This is my experience so far. They don't ask for cash, but their iPhone broke down. If you add the iPhones, the shopping in Milan etc they cost more than escorts. But again, in my experience, they are more fun. Obviously it depends on what we are looking for.

Amazing, yes if you chose the right one. Affordable, it depends on your financial status. But certainly, far more expensive than escorts. In my experience, escorts are low cost, SA type medium and bfs high (if not in money in emotional investments). Again, based on my experience, SAs are not after just a nice dinner or presents.They can have these from many other guys. There is a long queue waiting for them. They must also like you, besides your wallet. Because again there are so many fat wallets around.

Seeking is not for hiring.

Treat him well, give him good spending money. If he asks for more treat him like an escort.

A blazer may seem a wardrobe stable to me and members of the forum, but is it for a 20y old? And please don't buy him the hideous Hermes belt with the H buckle.

Take him shopping. Let him choose what he likes, so you know brands for the next guy.

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I am afraid I have no recent experience with masculine jocks. Many years ago I had a young water-polo player in my life and I remember I bought him CK underwear. Then my taste changed to the skinny model actor singer tribe. Much fashion oriented and more expensive. So, why don't you buy him sexy underwear and maybe high fashion expensive sneakers. Take him to a shopping spree, a nice lunch and back home to admire what you bought.

Hard to answer. It depends on his style, preferences and how much you like him. ? Being a top is irrelevant.

Invite them for dinner. Be nice to them. Have a real profile with the right content to attract them.

I don't know the will do it. Some do it, most don't. I make small talk, invite them for dinner and take it from there. It is not transactional like escorts and requires more time and effort.