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I don’t mind it but depends on the vibe and I usually want it to happen after I’m taken care of because if it’s before they often lose interest. And never on the face.

He even comes with stitched on abs!

He’s in SD now. Based on the feedback above, he’s likely using someone else’s pics. I was able to track down his pics to a guy on Instagram based out of Florida which by the looks of it make him seem completely straight.

Name change to Sebastian. I saw home once - wouldn’t repeat, stiff personality, weak massage, and a prude. Almost seemed like he was afraid of men.

Yet again a third or fourth name change and still stealing Latin models photos off of Instagram.

I’ve recently made the switch from hiring off of MF/RM and started to scope out local establishments and independent providers instead. Talent started to dry up on the main websites and I was getting tired of overpriced and unskilled guys. I’ve had a decent amount of luck just going with the flow and it leading to more with about a 60% - 70% success rate and learned a few things along the way. 1. A Google/Yelp search for male massage therapists was helpful in first finding independent therapists. Social media searches can be helpful too. 2. When possible I cross referenced online to see if I could find any social media that led me to see if they were on the same team as me and surprisingly that was usually pretty easy to confirm - I found this to obviously increase chances of something going further. It’s obviously much less likely from a “straight” provider but I can’t say it’s never happened before. 3. I never directly ask beforehand or during but instead just let it progress - there are ways to give subtle clues without being obvious and I’ve found this to actually be more stimulating for me and to limit the risk of crossing the line and being turned down. 4. Soothe/Zeel is much more hit or miss and again I’ve never flat out asked because I understand the risk - I’ve just let it progress and if it goes there it does. My success rate via these apps is much lower, probably in the 30% range but I’ve found this to increase with repeat visits. I find this whole thing much more enjoyable than using the sites as there’s the unknown of what will happen which makes it more enticing. My last hire was in Phoenix on a work trip and it worked out really well. I’m also decently hung which has been helpful here too 😂. Any of you doing more of this and less of the main websites? (Also, to be clear I’m not discussing any of the places and/or names here. This post is more about understanding people’s views on this topic and the approach rather than anything else.)

Any recommendations for Thai massage in San Diego? All of the places I’m seeing seem to have almost all women.

Bump here. There are a few options on Soothe in San Diego that showed up recently. Trying to see if anyone has tried them. DM me please!

Anyone have experience here? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/45442/

Therapeutic only or open?

I get it but for me it’s less about affordability and more about bang for buck here. These guys are just stealing money at this point with zero skill.

I find it fascinating that people are willing to pay $300 for this type of stuff

It’s only the one guy now and not 4hands. He wants $300 for a 60min untrained massage 😂

Waitttt is this pic actually him? I know how he is.

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Juan is okay. There aren’t many options in FL. Basic massage but he seemed to be more into the extras. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/24460/

Yes, hard pass. Terrible with zero skill and massage was under 30mins. House has a strong scent of cat piss.

This Dathan has a RentMen? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43383/

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43383/

Let’s put it this way. Every massage I’ve had with him he’s incredibly into with passionate kissing and he has never been able to get hard. So YMMV

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Any update with Sean. Any luck with anything beyond therapeutic?

I’d recommend Dathan but it’s unclear if he goes further than therapeutic. Good massage, sexy dude, kind of awkward but nice. I wasn’t sure what to expect so kept my boxers on and was hoping he’d go for it but he didn’t - it was hard to read him and felt like he might get offended if I asked. I think he thought I was straight so kept it therapeutic.

I have not see him but know of him personally. His posted photos are accurate but give off a very masc vibe. If that matters to you at all, he is most definitely the opposite of that.