LatinoSoldier42

Usually CoolWave gives great updates, but he said he’d be busy today up earlier in the thread... I bet he’ll have quite the stories to tell tomorrow.

This week’s AVN lineup already looks better than the last one.

I have a regular weekend buddy who I see about one weekend per month. Not sure we will be able to continue this cadence in the new COVID world because he is in NYC and I have an apartment in Philly that I will be vacating in early September.
 
My 'relationship' with him is more akin to Friends w/ Benefits - we enjoy watching movies/binge series together, playing video games, ordering great food in, getting stoned together, and just really good sexual chemistry. He's not very affectionate, we don't cuddle.... we've both had some rough patches in life for the last 4 years we have been seeing each other and we are good listeners for one another.
 
I started seeing another guy who was more like a BFE....affection, cuddling, great sex.....who I started seeing more and more.... and suddenly it was.... buy me a new phone, buy me a new computer, buy me new clothes..... Long term BFE providers may expect something more akin to being 'kept situation' and sometimes as much as I do wish I could afford that, I can't. I had a serious crush on the guy and he just was fucking me and acting like my BF for the money.... and mentally, I just couldn't handle it. I would not entertain another 'weekender' at this point and will make any other provider 'all about the sex' and position it to them as such.
 
Per everyone else's thoughts - I share in the belief, you need to mentally frame any 'on-going relationship' with a provider with some boundaries in your own head ideally so that you won't end up down or depressed. For me, I get a little sad because what I want is more 'good sex' and the companionship. If I can't find the companionship from a lover/partner, then I will get that from friends and keep my 'chemistry FwB guy' for the sexual needs. I don't want to give up what great sex I am having!
 
I'm currently quarantining in the VERY rural south with family..... there are ZERO provider prospects here..... heading back to Philly in August and already have a 4 day/3 night weekend planned with the FwB guy!
 
Hang in there and feel free to reach out if you want to chat with someone about how you are feeling.

Usually prefer smooth... hair just sheds everywhere and can interrupt moments trying to fish it out of your mouth. But some guys look better hairy, so exceptions can be made.

Usually prefer smooth... hair just sheds everywhere and can interrupt moments trying to fish it out of your mouth. But some guys look better hairy, so exceptions can be made.

Lol. This one is gunna be a little different. I’m seeing what I can finagle. It’s always an adventure though.

The recorded livestream is now available through Tim if you want to catch some of the glory of this adventure... it’s as hot as Coolwave described ?

Rob Yaeger