Yeah that's why I said "personally." Sorry you didn't have a good experience with him. My experience was good overall, though I would say we didn't connect on our personalities very well. I think it can be tricky with some escorts because if you don't have good chemistry, it kind of ends up being disappointing. I just recently had a massage that was supposed to be erotic, but I guess the guy wasn't feeling it so it ended up being a regular (but relaxing) therapeutic massage. I definitely was disappointed but at the same time I am not going to knock the guy too much because he still gave me something that I enjoyed overall. Though am I going to hire that masseur again? Definitely not.
I think being an escort is hard...they are not always going to connect with a client and vice versa. I've kind of learned that myself over the years and if I find a guy I do connect with he becomes a regular. If not, then oh well..it's a one-off. But for another client, that same kind could be an amazing connection completely worth spending the time and money on.