D21howie

Good morning. I have send thank you notes to escorts who have gone out of there way to do things for me. I also ask them if they will text me when they get home safely because of the drive they come for our dates and I care for their well being. They do. I have done the same if I took the train to meet them.

“Sounds” like a scam?

If he keeps asking for money for car repairs in different cities and money to get home.

His ad sounds like a scam. This past year I had been scam by ads on Rentmen from different escorts

This is almost an addition to another thread about a client’s looks. But this is more of a general thing. I don’t know if it’s just the type of men I come across, or if it’s something more to it. Maybe a fact of dynamics between escort/client/former client/escort etc.

 

Specifically referring: there’s a guy who hired me (and I say it in past tense) once, but there was an attraction on both ends. We started seeing (aka fucking) each other regularly after that, but there was like a 2 week break in between time we met. However we also do things outside of sex as well, which has almost turned it into dating if sorts.

 

All is well except, he decided to take on a job in Texas for 6-8 weeks. Since then, we’ve discussed linking up down there. Tonight we texted in depth about it, and we seemed to have gotten into a conflict about me coming down.

 

He seems to think he doesn’t need to provide any money to me for coming down (neither before or after), despite the fact it’s a 900 mile trip, and he would only be able to spend 1 day with me. I told him I could turn it into a “tour” and take clients before and after, and reserve a day for him. But that would mean I would have to preserve and manage my stamina and resources for clients, not our time. And even if I did come tour, where he is “stationed” is 4 hours from San Antonio and 6 hours from Houston: the 2 nearest major escort-populated cities. So that would mean me taking off not just a day, but possibly 2 days from taking clients, and likely being maxed out sexually after our time....considering he likes to go at it 2 or 3 times a day.

 

He tells me he don’t think he needs to give me any money, because it would be leisure travel. I said no the heck it won’t. I don’t travel for leisure. Anytime I travel, is a mix of work and pleasure. And I certainly wouldn’t be traveling for leisure to only see him for 1 day. If I’m going 4 to 6 hours drive outside the nearest major city where I can earn money, I need to be reimbursed because I’d technically be paying for all my expenses out of pocket, while he’s getting all expenses paid by his company and making 80 hours a week.

 

Then he has the nerve to say I’m insulting him and seeing him as a sugar daddy. I almost said fuck you, mother fucker. But instead I said fair enuf...but I’m just about to cut ties. I just don’t get why gay men like to keep up drama 24/7 and complicate situations. If someone is planning on going out of their way and visiting someone for the purpose of sex or romantic interest, that person being visited should have the decency to pay for something for that person spending their money. Unless it just absolutely is a client visiting an escort type of deal, because obviously the escort is trying to earn regardless.

 

So idk, this just got me pent up. 2 arguments with 2 different men this week. It’s really draining me. Men can be so fucking unreasonable when it comes down to things. And lot of gay men wonder why they are single. They don’t know how to treat a partner. Everytime the partner asks for something, they think they’re being used or taken advantage of. Gay men never want to help just to help. They only help when they can get something out of it. Then once they get what they want, they don’t feel it’s worth going out of their comfort zone bubble anymore.

I agree with you. Relationships are about two people coming together. My boyfriend and I share in the costs of different things such as gas, drinks, rooms, etc etc. To me the guy is using you. If you have not pay for anything dump the fool and move on.

I noticed now he is requiring deposit in his ad

Here is the updated profile on jasonnsf:

https://rentmen.jp/MrNiceCock

Good morning. When I first started using escorts I was nervous because not knowing if I was going to get a good guy or a guy who was a dud. Then I got real lucky I found a guy I been using for the past ten years and it all started with a two hour session in 2010 in LA. We become real close. We found out that we had a lot in common. He is the first I call or text for events or trips. Now I have five escorts I used on a regular basis. Great guys with a mutual respect for each other. Each has their own personality and that what makes us get a long. I use to have an account on Rentmen until I met the duds who wanted money first before the date more than genuine men.

Good afternoon. Does anyone have the 411 on Paul from New York Straight Men.

https://ci.phncdn.com/videos/201610/17/93154621/original/(m=eaAaGwObaaaa)(mh=m9KTLR7T6BbkWTKE)3.jpg

Don’t beat yourself up @D21howie We have all made mistakes in this hobby of ours - paying a deposit, paying upfront, paying in advance, not stating exactly what we want, not checking compatibility, not being specific on important matters, not checking whether photos are real and recent etc.

 

The important thing here is that you have learned and openly asked for advice. Good luck with your future encounters.

Thanks. Right now with Covid going on I have not really use Rentmen. Actually I deleted my account.

Thank you for your replys. I have made a mistake a couple times of accidentally paying a deposit before the date and got burnt. I learned my lesson.

Good evening. How many look for an escort for events such as trip, concert, dinner, etc? I love to plan for things in advance cause of my work schedule and activities plus I live with a roommate.

I am not an escort but I had an escort told me that while he had a client at his own house he saw him going through his wallet and told the person to get out now. Now he puts his wallet in a place where no one knows where is at.

I am not an escort but I had an escort told me that while he had a client at his own house he saw him going through his wallet and told the person to get out now. Now he puts his wallet in a place where no one knows where is at.

Actually I appreciate compliments if it comes across as sincere.

Ok. If an escort has not have a review since three years ago will you say ad is fake

Will phone numbers give it away too

Did anyone here ever hire Drew Andrews, who was popular in the last 90s/early 2000? I always thought he was very hot. Same with Cougar Cash.

I have a crush on Drew Andrews

It’s been documented on here (on all the threats about it) that over 90% of the guy who say “hell no!”...

Ok. How can you tell if the ad is fake?

Good afternoon. What will you tell the person if they ask for a deposit up front? I have this question do people used older gay escorts ads of people not working anymore to get money.

Searching before posting specially in the Deli is always a good thing to do.

 

@D21howie Keep an eye, maybe his ad will up again with a new name. It has happened before!

I will be checking

I see you are new to the Message Center. Welcome!! I'm not sure if you noticed-lord knows I've done it a lot over the years. But the post you were responding to was made over a year ago in March 2019.

 

Gman

Yes. I click on the link yesterday and his profile was gone. On Sunday his profile was there.

His ad is gone

Great guy. He is an artist in his own right.

Totally agree @D21howie. I always want to see/make my escort cum. I like the bond that develops from seeing a man climax and unload, and then relax in bed in post-coital bliss with me.

That is why I choose escorts that cum. I have escorts that do not see any clients except me on our schedule dates.

Is he still working or retire?