The problem is you contacted someone who doesn’t know anything at all about you & asked him for a 3 day BFE. Who in their right mind would commit to a 3 day BFE with someone they never met before, have no idea what they look like or what type of personality they have? For all he knows you could be Jabba the Hut or Hannibal Lechter. Maybe the next time you should a try to arrange a 1 or 2 hour “BFE’ before you ask a complete stranger for a 3 day BFE weekend.