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That is good to hear!

He’s been a member for 18 months and only has 3 reviews, 2 of which are from this month... I wonder if he let his profile expire and is now getting back into the game. I like his pics, though the ad text seems a little off-putting.

His pictures look amazing. I get the sense based on his ad text that he charges varying rates based on service provided, which is a little disconcerting for me.

I could definitely see that. At any rate, he was very free and open with kissing throughout, and we both definitely seemed to enjoy the encounter. Really glad I got to see him.

Met him this evening and had a lot of fun. He told me he had a girlfriend ?‍♂️ But either way I’d see him again for sure. Feel free to PM for details

WOOF... added to my “someday” list for sure.

ETA: @FrankR is reading my mind and beat me to it by a minute! In looking at his RM profile, I see he writes: Obviously he can offer whatever services he wants, but as a potential client, I find it a major turn off for him to throw shade at guys interested in “sleezy” hourly meetings. Everybody has different preferences, financial means, etc. Just my two cents.

My ultimate escort fantasy is to be fucked by Rafael Alencar. Hope I make it to New York one day soon...

Yum he is a looker for sure... and he’s listed in Dallas at the moment. Wish I could run up there and visit him

I know right! What a trip to remember that would be

There’s a chance I might be heading to Calgary in the spring. For a city with only a few escorts listed, there sure is plenty of muscle to go around! ? Does anyone have any local recommendations? These guys initially caught my attention the most, but I’d love other suggestions for fit/muscle tops who are good with kissing/BFE: https://rent.men/Boltond (I searched his previous threads and saw he’s participated in the boards in the past) https://rent.men/WadeWolfgar (saw mentions of him in past threads as well) https://rent.men/ScruffMuscle https://rent.men/Calgaryfunnn https://rent.men/TysonRyder https://rent.men/anacondahunga (not based in Calgary but I notice he travels there at least sometimes)

All that fur ? what a pity he’s off the market

I’ll have to keep my eyes on him. I wonder if he travels much?

Wow - even with only one picture I find his profile really enticing. He sounds like someone who genuinely enjoys the sex rather than just being in the game for the compensation.

What tools do y’all use to reverse search images to see if someone’s a fake?

He’s got a perfect body for being verse — both the ass and dick are on point. Hope you can find some info. I’m a little surprised he only has 5 RM reviews, considering he’s been on the site more than 2 years.

WOOF ?

Wow ? right up my alley

As a recent newbie myself, I was very nervous communicating too much information for legal reasons. My takeaway is yes, be mindful of the language you use regarding compensation, but be specific about what type of experience you’re looking for. I was vague in language about “starting slow since I don’t get to play often” etc for my first meetup, and the encounter started off much more aggressive than I was expecting. (At the time, I assumed “boyfriend experience” meant no sex — now I understand BFE is a good shorthand for the kind of sex I enjoy.) You don’t have to provide a checklist or itinerary for the encounter, but make it really clear what activities you like and would enjoy if they end up happening. Speak up and communicate during the encounter. During that first time experience, once I finally said it was not going like I hoped, the provider instantly changed his approach and I ended up having a really great time. (He also introduced me to this site as an indispensable tool for this hobby!)

I’m very curious about TraceDeToro as well. I tried looking him up here on the forum but couldn’t find anything... now I know why. Do you remember any of his other names? (I’m thinking he was Trece instead of Trace when I first saw him a few days ago)

I’m new to the hobby and very much enjoyed my first two experiences meeting escorts. My boyfriend’s curiosity has been piqued and he is interested in trying it out as well, but he is much more shy than me and unlikely to meet up with someone on his own. So, we are talking about finding someone to play with both of us together. Any words of advice on what/how to communicate with a potential provider about meeting us as a couple, differences in rate versus a regular one-on-one, or any other considerations?

What kind of experience are you looking for? dowatiwant was on my shortlist for my last trip to Houston but I ended up meeting with someone else. I’m curious to know how it goes if you meet up with him.

Did you ever meet up with him?

I met up with him this weekend -- super handsome in person and "can be gentle or demanding-dominating as you'd like" is spot on. I would definitely enjoy seeing him again.