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My last two experiences with him (the most recent one being within the last month) were not as good as they used to be. His massage remains good and the sensual elements but:
1. He shorted me 30 minutes both times while charging for 90 minutes
2. He's gotten a little bit more aloof when messaging, it was to the point that I was hesitant to continue with the bookingI don't know. I feel like there are others that I see that offer at least what he offers and maybe with more skill, so I'm not sure that I'll continue seeing him. I only hesitate because the first few sessions were really amazing and I miss that energy that made it all worth it.
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Any other spa experiences with him?
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I went to a session with one of my preferred providers today (Rainer of LA). I see him from time to time, but this has happened with a few others that I like as well. At the beginning they honor the time that we agreed on. I usually ask for 90 minute sessions. Over a few sessions, I find that the session is maximum an hour long. It's a good session, but it's not what I paid for. In some cases, the difference in cost between 90 and 60 minutes is very significant. Because I really like these few providers where this issue is happening, I'm a little anxious to bring up the topic, because I'm worried that it will sour a very good/natural relationship. At the same time, I'm annoyed.
I'm wondering if any of you have a preferred way of addressing this issue, or if you guys leave it alone to not ruin the relationship...
If any providers are reading this, how would you want it addressed if you were the provider in this case?
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On 3/17/2024 at 12:47 PM, Michael PhD said:
PM and I’ll share details
Sent you one as well
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On 11/5/2023 at 11:33 PM, Alex4475 said:
He did not understand the word “no” in my experience. Too aggressive for me and has caused me to stop hiring anyone referencing top or dominant in their profile although from a massage standpoint the best massages for me have come from those who say they are a top.
I had similar experience. He wanted to go way further than I was okay with, and when I playfully and consistently said "here are my limits", he made the interactivity letter far less than what others here describe, and far less than most of my "sensual" experiences. If I was okay with full deli, I'd go with him, but he really wasn't okay with "no".
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I was quoted the rates, and although it sounds from reviews here like his skill is great, the prices seem upper-end where one would expect more sensuality than what he said he offers (via text).
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7 hours ago, Marc in Calif said:
Why are you planning to see him a third time? What do you expect will change after he gave you two rough, aloof sessions?
It was that the therapeutic in the first one was actually really good, and for the rate, it was worth doing.
- bichiguy and Marc in Calif
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He's therapeutic. I agree about the aloofness. Messaging was a little rough. He sounded condescending and warmed near the end.
First visit: the therapeutic side was very good. DIdn't like the draping, but yes, his technique was good. S
econd time: his aloofness was so dramatic that I thought he didn't have my number saved. If it's still bad on the third time, will no longer see him.
Rates are great though.
Would love to hear others experiences.
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Newish listing...look forward to anyone's input/experience! 😃
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Anyone taken the plunge with him?
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On 10/9/2023 at 3:26 PM, RubMyThighs said:
Sorry to be contrarian, but I recently saw Alex and had a very different take on the experience. Yes, he has a beautiful body. Yes, he is easy to communicate with and he seems kind. But once you get on his table it’s clear that his rules are so strict as to make, for me, an unenjoyable experience.
He cautions that some clients want to jump into erotic first and promises that it will happen. I’m on board with that - I love the buildup. What rubbed me the wrong way was that when I reflexively reached out to caress his leg, he immediately took my arm and placed it back alongside my body. Ok, fine. But not long after that, he lubed up my hand and placed his cock in it. Great! But when he moved to the front of the table and I moved my arm to caress his leg, he again took my arm and placed it back where it belonged - away from his body. In other words, you can touch me only when and only how I allow.
Perhaps some clients love this. I do not.
He never even grazed my cock the entire time. In fact, when he finished my backside, he instructed: “Please turn over for the release.” No frontal massage. No buildup. Not organic, not enticing, simply robotic.
Sure enough, I was flaccid. He stood over me staring at his own body while rubbing my cock and expecting me to cum for the privilege of being touched by him. I became hard but I soon said no thanks.
I could have gotten off but it would not have been exciting. Instead I left there and found a hot guy on Grindr to fool around with. For free.
My experience wasn't quite as bad as this, but I also didn't feel the session was that amazing. It might be that the reviews on here were so very positive that I had higher expectations, but I left disappointed. He was, as everyone says, very nice etc... but the overall felt disconnected and not worth his price point even. That was my experience, I know YMMV etc...
- tennisjock, wallnut and RubMyThighs
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Wondering about spa experience as well:
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Likewise, Chads! 🥰
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So my experience is somewhere between the two that are here. Definitely don't think he was straight, but my mileage wasn't very far either. Definitely for the price that was asked, I wouldn't repeat, as nothin was particularly stellar. If his rates were more in the normal range, I think he'd be one of the guys I'd go to when I'm in a mellow mood and don't want to talk or be too intense.
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11 hours ago, bichiguy said:
I think they may have done 4 handed briefly but that has not been a listing for them in at least a year. Think someone on the forum may booked it but don't remember details.
In all the times I saw one or the other, the other does not make his presence known.I asked Trevor at one session - he said they don't do it anymore together, and it doesn't seem like there was extra elements in the 4-hand.
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On 12/31/2023 at 10:09 PM, sportymilguy said:
I guess I won't know until I come back to CA. Today, I was suppose to see Shane at 1130, but en route I get a text from saying he woke up late after taking care of his daughter who has COVID and that he wanted to get tested. I asked Shane if I should outright cancel? He said, "no", and that he would just need time to take care of his daughter and get tested as he had tested negative last night, so I got close to his house for the originally scheduled time and waited an hour, and then I texted and left a voicemail to see what his status was? No response, so I texted that I hoped all was well and headed to Palm Springs to see friends.
The day prior to today, he had texted me while I was in route to his place saying he would need to reschedule, which we did only to have this come up.
I am sympathetic to emergencies, things coming up, etc., so hopefully things are better for him and his family. It is a puzzling interaction, and in hindsight, I should have told him I would outright cancel for everyone's sake.
He looks to be an incredibly good looking man with mostly positive reviews. Who knows what the future holds, but this instance is why I prefer to go back previous hires rather chase the novelty of someone new.
On a separate note, I did hire Glenn out of the OC based off a fellow member passing over his cell. He is still a very handsome, down to earth masseur with good technique.
I also reached out to "Deron" who said he will be in Palm Springs 8-20 FEB. Unfortunately I won't be in town then, but good luck gents.
I've had the same happen with Shane multiple times. I think sometimes he's not in the mood and makes strong stories like this. One time he said he wasn't available and then someone online that I was messaging messaged and booked the same time that he cancelled. Sucks because really enjoyed the relationship while it lasted. I guess we all have our moods.
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Hey there, any intel on this gentleman?
I'm assuming from his name that he might usually be in LA.
https://rentmasseur.com/EuropeanCB in LA
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What's the other thread? Did a search but didn't find it...