Very interesting topic. I agree about loving the hands all over me, but for me I think it's like this. Because I am paying for his services, I don't have to look loke a porn star, or perform like one. I can be me, and because I am the client, it's his responsibility to treat me like I am a porn star. If he doesn't, I'm disappointed and move on. I have been lucky. The masseurs I have seen treat me like a young stud that I clearly am not. This is what makes me prefer this avenue.