Sometimes I make terrible choices....
I've been seeing this guy pop up for literally years when he travels to my area. I have checked here before and read the reviews and been like "Nah, I'm gonna pass." Well today I was bored and horny and thought well let me see who's available. It was slim pickings and so I though you know I could just get a 60 min massage from this guy and see how it goes. If he's not good I wasted the minimum amount of money and confirmed that all the many posts here to avoid him were correct. So I messaged him to see when he had openings and he responded he was "free all day". I picked a time an hour or so later and he send me his address and told me to text him when I was on my way. I said fine. Just by coincidence the hotel was less than 5 min from my office so at about 15 minutes before our appointment I went and got in my car to head over there. I was about to text when I get a text from him saying "looks like you haven't left yet do you want to do X time" which was an hour later than the appointment time. It was still over 10 minutes before out appointment and I said no I'm 5 min from you and was about to text you and I'll be right there. He then responded "I'm not gonna be able to meet right now. Thought you changed your mind so I made plans." I said no we had an appointment and I said I would text you when on my way and that's what I was about to do but again I'm literally like 3 minutes away so I'll still be earlier than our appointment time. I also said that I can't do the later time he proposed because I wouldn't be finished in time (again this is why I picked the time I did when he asked when I could come and he confirmed he could do that time as well AND I was going to be on time for). He just responded "Next time then".
I know guys get stood up all the time and I understand they lose money whenever that happens. However, the lease he could have done was text me BEFORE he decided to cancel 10 minutes before our appointment and check to see if I was still coming if he was concerned. If he'd said please text me 10-15 minutes before our appointment to confirm (even though that was only like 45 minutes after we made the appointment) I would have been happy to do so. But that's not what he said.
He clearly cared zero that he was cancelling on me last minute and instead of apologizing tried to somehow pin it on me for not texting him some specific amount of time before he was going to make other plans. Not even sure what he could possibly have been doing instead because he told me to come 45 minutes after the original appointment time so whatever he made plans to do could only have been something for like 30 minutes. He has no respect for anyone else's time or how he may be effecting them.
I knew I shouldn't schedule with him but I did it anyway and as usual the posters on here were right to advise avoiding him.
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